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Thanksgiving dinner with boyfriend ex-girlfriend
Posted Monday December 1 2008, 10:27 am
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. I invited his whole family to my home for Thanksgiving dinner on Saturday. His brother is married to a much older woman who has a daughter my age (43). My boyfriend and her dated for a brief time, he says no sex but kissed. My boyfriend's brother and his wife invited her to come along to my home. This was the first time his family was at my house and I had a very difficult time dealing with her being there. I felt I was put on the spot by having to have her in my home on this special occasion. I do not feel there is ANY chemistry between my boyfriend or her, but I feel he should have protected me by saying it may not be a good idea for her to attend. I was so upset, trying to keep it...
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Love too quick?
Posted Monday December 1 2008, 7:07 am
15/f
Okay so i recently broke up with my boyfriend about a little more then a week ago. We went out for almost a year, and i just didnt like him anymore and i was suffering so i broke it off with him. About 5 days later i start talking to this other guy, and he was like "Ive liked you since you were going out with mark, and i was waiting for you" so we started talking constantly on the phone for hours, texting, and we always talked about how much we liked eachother. We planned to go out in a week or two, because my ex was so/so friends with this guy, and i didnt want to hurt my ex's feelings. So, we both decided we would go out, but we just wouldnt tell anyone. So we love eachother, and weve been friends for about 6 years, ...
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Well does my bf only want one thing??
Posted Monday December 1 2008, 3:00 am
I have a problem me and my boyfriend we great together and all but when we alone it's also great but then he keeps asking me what now?? i mean what now, is he getting bored of me because when we were at a party he told me he loves me and opened up to me, now it's like over the phone umh bye not anything sweet to be said, am i losing it or what...like the other night he had a party at his house and i was kind of tipsy he just wanted to get in my pants and i wasn't myself because even my best friend told me i look more inlove then him i have no cooking clue what to do so please help me out...thanks (inlove with her boyfriend but not getting love inreturn)
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how do i act couply with my boyfriend
Posted Monday December 1 2008, 2:29 am
how do i act couply with my boyfriend
becuz my friends are tellin me that i dont treat him right by once calling him a name and how do i act couply with my boyfriend
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love life not existant.
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 11:25 pm
ok, this is going to be a little long but if you are interested then plz read and answer. So i am 21 year old girl who doesnt have much self confidence. I know im not ugly because i have heard million times how beautiful i am(not trying to sound conceded). I have never had a boyfriend and never madeout with a guy or anything. It's proabbly because i have such low self esteem. I really want a boyfriend and stuff but i have a hard time getting close to guys. I am too shy and sometimes when they talk to me i don't know what to say in return and then i feel like an idiot. The only time i get more comfortable with a guy is when i drink which is not often. I really want to get close to a guy but i am also very nervous to because i guess u can ca...
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Talking about sex.
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 11:11 pm
Hi, I'm 17 and female.
I have this amazing, wonderful, boyfriend boyfriend that I love very much. I think I'm ready to have sex with said boyfriend, but I'm a little nervous because it would be my first time (it'd be his too.) I'd be totally comfortable talking to him about this, but I don't know how to bring it up.
So, does being nervous mean I'm not ready for sex, and how do I initiate a conversation about this with my boy?
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My Best Guy Friend
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 10:53 pm
**Sorry, but this is long** I am 16 female. Alex is my best guy friend and I have known him for about 14 years(since i was 2) and i think i am starting to like him. me and my other friends sometimes joke around and say we think he will end up seriously dating or marrying this other friend melissa who we have known since we were 5. The thing is me and Alex have gotten a lot closer this year and I am really starting to like him. He is the only person other than my bff that i feel like i can go to to talk about anything. I am totally comfortable around him and we always hang out but only in our group of friends. The two of us also just seem to click and we still talk to each other more than we do all our other friends when we all hang out. Doe...
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"i love you"
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 10:35 pm
for people who've been in past relationships or are in relationships:
how long did it take for the guy to say "Ilove you"? and what things did he do right before?i've been dating this guy for almost 4 months and he told me in the beginning that he doesnt say unless he really means it and i agreed with him but now im really feeling it and i know he really likes me but i dont want to be the first to say it. i know all relationships are different but i just want an idea how other relationships went.
16/f thanks.
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I'm messed up.
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 9:47 pm
okay well me and this guy had a "thing" for like two months and we both really liked eachother.
he is a huge jock and all the girls want him.
we went on a "date" on a friday and that night he texted me and said he had a really great time and he wanted to hang out saturday.
sunday he stopped by my house and ended up meeting my parents.
at school monday he was all saying hi and everything then that night he didnt text me and he usually ALWAAYS does.
then tuesday i hear that he thinks i'm to "shy" so i text him saying you think i'm too shy thats why you randomly stop talking to me? and then he says "not that your shy its just that we have two different personalities and ...
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guy liking you
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 8:33 pm
okayy so i really like this guy and ive told some of my friends and he knows someone likes him but not that its me..... and im really scared that he wont like me back so should i tell him i like him or wait and talk to him!?
thanks
loveboys
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He just stopped...
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 8:14 pm
I've been texting, talking, hanging out with this guy we'll call him Luke... We talked every night no matter what.. on the phone or texting and he was always the one making the effort.. it turned into serious flirting and i started to fall for him and i thought he was falling for me too by all the hints he was dropping.. well all the sudden he stopped and he's been super short with me or just never responds.. so i stopped making an effort n now he just doesnt even text me anymore and i have no idea what happened.. idk what to do if i should say something or just get over it and i have no idea why this would have happened.. any idea?
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long distance relationships
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 7:49 pm
i have been in a long distance relationship for about a month now and i feel like i would really love this guy if he were actually here, but distance is sort of making me hold back. so should i just take a chance and go through with the relationship and see how it turns out? who knows, maybe one day we'll end up together? or should i just let it go? and cheating isnt an issue, im not worried about that. anyways, i just wanted to hear some opinions
thankyou
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Playboy Poster Pet Peeve
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 5:51 pm
So, my boyfriend has about, 4 or 5 playboy posters in his room. Ya know like the half naked girls? For some reason, it really, really, REALLY, bothers me. I cant really help it. It makes me feel like...im not god enough, so he has to stare at OTHER girls all day long, and fantasize about them and their bodies. Like, he know it bothers me, but idk. i dont think he knows to what extent. What should i do? =/
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dream.
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 1:30 pm
I had a dream that I almost had sex twice with my best friends boyfriend. And then like lateer in the dream he was like caring about what I was doing at this party. And like 2 weeks ago I went to their aunts house with my best friend and her family. And well he was obviously there. And he kept looking at me like that look like ugh, I don't know how to explain it. So what does that mean? Oh and he's like 2 or 3 years older than me.
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talking.
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 1:25 pm
so i am kind of talking to this one guy. he is about a year older than me and goes to a different school also. im 15 and he is going to be 16 in a little bit. anyways we met and hung out about two days later. we talked over text message about 10 minutes after i left. i told him i would text him then and i did. we were texting all night and then the next day he said he would text me but he was sick so i text him and i asked how he was feeling. then he didnt answer so i text again later asking his opinion on something and again no answer. well i messaged him on the computer asking if he was mad or not and he said no then asked what i was up to. then he got off of the computer. any idea on what i should do to get him to come to me more? thank you.
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Best way to get over a break up?
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 3:49 am
17/F
I was with my boyfriend, Jake, for about 9 months. We've had MANY lows and few highs, but our relationship level was somewhat in the middle. A lot had to do with the fact that I live an hour away from him, so we only saw each other about twice a week.
Well, these past two weeks we hadn't seen each other much at all. We were also hitting a rough patch because I didn't drive down to see him as often as I usually did. I went and saw him the other day, and it was him who brought up that we should break up. The break up was not bad at all -- in fact, it was probably the best break up ever -- and that's what makes it so much harder.
He wants to be good friends with me. He even said, "If I co...
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boy-confusion
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 3:02 am
Two boys who are close friends both were hitting on me, but one asked me out and I said yes... and I don't know if I should have, and I'm having second thoughts that if I would've waited I might have had a chance with the other, and I might have been happier with him... should I tell the guy I'm with now that I don't know if I made the right decision? Or should I just go with it and forget that the other guy is even an option anymore?
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is 19 to young for commitment?
Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 12:03 am
i have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we have talked about marriege. he is my first love and i can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. we have had our ups and downs but i trust him and do love him. i just wonder if we're to young to get married. we're both 19 and are going to college. the fact that we are both still teenagers scares me. should age matter if you know for a fact its true love?
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BOYYY BOYY BOYYY!
Posted Saturday November 29 2008, 11:03 pm
Im a 13 year old girl and i havent had a boyfriend for a whole year! I like this on kid in my class alot but i just dont know how to get him to like me back. Any advice????
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fighting for a boy
Posted Saturday November 29 2008, 8:28 pm
so i like this boy and he likes me a lot but im also hearing theres this other girl who likes him but i dont know how he feels about her. what are some things i could do to win him over?
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