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Love too quick?
15/f
Okay so i recently broke up with my boyfriend about a little more then a week ago. We went out for almost a year, and i just didnt like him anymore and i was suffering so i broke it off with him. About 5 days later i start talking to this other guy, and he was like "Ive liked you since you were going out with mark, and i was waiting for you" so we started talking constantly on the phone for hours, texting, and we always talked about how much we liked eachother. We planned to go out in a week or two, because my ex was so/so friends with this guy, and i didnt want to hurt my ex's feelings. So, we both decided we would go out, but we just wouldnt tell anyone. So we love eachother, and weve been friends for about 6 years, but we started talking like a year ago.
Would that consider me a slut?
What do you think?
Should my ex know about this at all?
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Hun, don't ever consider yourself a slut for liking someone. It just isn't right. I think that maybe you might be taking it a bit too fast though. And that you shouldn't be afraid to tell anyone. When you date someone, it means that you like them enough to tell other people about a special person. That includes your ex. Hello, he is your ex. You two no longer date, so there shouldn't be a problem. I really like the fact that you found a guy that you like a lot, but again, you guys have only been dating for a month now. A month isn't long enough to say you love someone. But getting back to the point, you need to tell people, don't keep this to yourself and you are no where near a slut.
Message me if any problems- Ataura 14/f
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First off, you're far from a slut. Sluttiness doesn't even come to mind when I read this. I think that what you're planning is perfectly fine, just as long as it's what you want. Don't worry too much about what your ex thinks, because you're obviously not together anymore, so unless you're still friends and you know that he still has feelings for you then I wouldn't think you need to tell him. If you don't feel comfortable keeping this new relationship a "secret" from your ex, then feel free to tell him if it will make you feel better. Just keep your feelings in mind, and I bet everything will work out.
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