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What is a real friend?
How do you know you if you're friend is real or not? (link)
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First, I believe that there really is no set definition to what a friend is--it's basically all up to you to set your own standards on what a friend is. But to know who your "real friends" are is (I think) kind of simple. You just need to know if they are true to you in front of your face and behind your back. They need to be trustworthy, so that you can tell them anything and not have to worry about your secrets getting out. They will most likely make you feel better/happy whenever they are around you, or they will know how to comfort you when you are bumming. Real friends pretty much know everything about you, and still love you for who you are. They don't care about what kind of clothes you wear or how your hair looks or if mommy and daddy are rich. Real friends care about what's on the inside, not the outside.
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Okay so i recently broke up with my boyfriend about a little more then a week ago. We went out for almost a year, and i just didnt like him anymore and i was suffering so i broke it off with him. About 5 days later i start talking to this other guy, and he was like "Ive liked you since you were going out with mark, and i was waiting for you" so we started talking constantly on the phone for hours, texting, and we always talked about how much we liked eachother. We planned to go out in a week or two, because my ex was so/so friends with this guy, and i didnt want to hurt my ex's feelings. So, we both decided we would go out, but we just wouldnt tell anyone. So we love eachother, and weve been friends for about 6 years, but we started talking like a year ago.
Would that consider me a slut?
What do you think?
Should my ex know about this at all? (link)
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First off, you're far from a slut. Sluttiness doesn't even come to mind when I read this. I think that what you're planning is perfectly fine, just as long as it's what you want. Don't worry too much about what your ex thinks, because you're obviously not together anymore, so unless you're still friends and you know that he still has feelings for you then I wouldn't think you need to tell him. If you don't feel comfortable keeping this new relationship a "secret" from your ex, then feel free to tell him if it will make you feel better. Just keep your feelings in mind, and I bet everything will work out.
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does anyone know any songs about regretting not doing something for/with someone you liked(not in like a sexual way).
or songs about something/someone you keep thinking about
thank youu soo much :) xoxox (link)
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I don't know if you're into David Archuleta at all, but he's got a few songs that fit into this area so well...
Crush
My Hands
Your Eyes Don't Lie
some other songs:
We Belong Together by Gavin DeGraw
I Won't Disagree by Kate Voegele
Wish You Were by Kate Voegele
I don't really know if that helped, but those are some of the songs that I listen to.
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i have been in a long distance relationship for about a month now and i feel like i would really love this guy if he were actually here, but distance is sort of making me hold back. so should i just take a chance and go through with the relationship and see how it turns out? who knows, maybe one day we'll end up together? or should i just let it go? and cheating isnt an issue, im not worried about that. anyways, i just wanted to hear some opinions
thankyou
=] (link)
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Okay well I've tried the long distance relationship thing before, and I'm just gonna quick tell you what happened to me--I met this guy at camp and once we got home we started talking online, and he was always telling me that I totally had to come down to his house and how he was gonna teach me how to snowboard and stuff like that..but we never got anywhere past talking online. It kinda felt like he was making me empty promises, but I never really got a chance to find out because he ended up being not so nice. But I'd still be totally open to long distance relationships--I guess I'm saying that you should go for it, because he's most likely not going to be a big jerk, and you'll probably have a great relationship going in no time. The distance might take some time getting used to, but in the end it will all be worthwhile.
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Does anyone know where i can get some nice Christmas wallpapers for my desktop? Thanks! :) (link)
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Well, you could look up Christmas pictures in Google or something, and then save the pictures to your computer and then set the wallpaper from that. Other than that I have no idea.
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I like different clothes not like Hot Topic different I mean girly stuff rarly anyone knows about.
What are some stores like that?
I alredy know:
Forever 21
Charrolate Rouse (spelling)
I don't really like American Eagle, Holister, Abercrombie because its not unique and they have the same thing EVERY YEARR!
So stores or places i can get stuff.
The price doesn't really matter that much but i can't afford to spend like 200 dollors on everything. Like probally a max of 100 dollors for stuff. But, whatefver, just give me store ideas please
Thanks a ton!!! (link)
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Umm, well besides all the other stores already listed in that other answer, I know that Buckle has some kinda good stuff--I don't actually shop there, I'm not really into it, but one of my friends shops there all the time and she has some pretty cool stuff.
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16/f
so my 17th birthday is coming up next week, and i was wondering what i should do for it? i had a stupid sweet sixteen, and i dont want a "party" party. what are some fun things to do with a bunch of friends to celebrate my birthday. i dont really wanna go out to eat, no actual party or anything like that either.
i need some suggestions asap!
thanks in advance (link)
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Ummm...I don't really know if you're into this, but last year for my friends' birthday, they had a bunch of people come to their house and then they carpooled to go laser tagging. We paid for like three hours or something, and every time we finished a round we had to wait until it was our turn again, but it was really fun, and I'm not even that into laser tagging. After that their close friends went back to her house and we fell asleep watching a movie. I hope this helps, and if not I'm sorry. I just figured it sounded kind of fun.
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like in making friends, i can make like friends to say hey and small talk with at school and church. but i want to take it to the next level, like hanging out outside of church/school. maybe have some sleepovers with the girls or just going to the movies. i think the biggest thing holding me back is my fear to ask or my fear to have a closer connection. but how do i know they want to be closer friends, and how do i make them interested. at a certain point of closeness, i think i push people away or find someone new[someone in my eyes who are better] i don't want to push people away anymore, and i relly want some good girl friends. it would be alot better to be with them than be by myself at home on the weekends or holidays. i am scared of rejection, and i care too much about my dignity. some people already think im a little "strange". i just want some wise advice and sorry for wonndering in my writing, i just wrote what came to mind. (link)
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maybe you could ask them to go to a movie or something. little things, like being partners for a school project or eating lunch with them--it might be a little frightening at first....but just be yourself and if they like you (I don't see why they shouldn't) then they'll for sure want to hang out with you more. the more you open yourself up to people, the more they will see how great of a person you are. you just have to make sure that you are going to be friends with the right kind of people: the ones who will like you for who you are and not what you look like or if you're really good at something like sports. but yeah, just remember to stick to who you are--don't try to be someone you're not just so that you'll have friends. trust me, it doesn't work that way.
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14/f
for school i am writing a paper that will help people see things, even things that would be considered "adult things", from my point of veiw. what are some topics i should use. i was thinking things like war, life, death, political issues, ect. but i need more. which ones do you think would be the best to use?? (link)
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I really think you should stay away from the whole politics thing, just because the topic can get extremely chaotic super fast. I like the life and war possibilities....but you could even use music as a topic. Like, you could talk about your favorite bands or something and then explain why you think they are good at what they do. Or maybe you could do something on a couple of famous actors or writers and explain your view on them and how they interact with the world.
idk....I hope that helped, and if not I'm terribly sorry.
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theres a song that goes
"im tryna tryna walk away but i know this ...(either crush or love or something) aint goin awayy away away aint goin away" whats the name and whos it by?
btw my google is all messed up and it wont make serches and i tryed metrolyrics.com and couldnt find it....thanks! (link)
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the song is called "crush"
it's by david archuleta
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