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i have trouble connecting with people...
like in making friends, i can make like friends to say hey and small talk with at school and church. but i want to take it to the next level, like hanging out outside of church/school. maybe have some sleepovers with the girls or just going to the movies. i think the biggest thing holding me back is my fear to ask or my fear to have a closer connection. but how do i know they want to be closer friends, and how do i make them interested. at a certain point of closeness, i think i push people away or find someone new[someone in my eyes who are better] i don't want to push people away anymore, and i relly want some good girl friends. it would be alot better to be with them than be by myself at home on the weekends or holidays. i am scared of rejection, and i care too much about my dignity. some people already think im a little "strange". i just want some wise advice and sorry for wonndering in my writing, i just wrote what came to mind.
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maybe you could ask them to go to a movie or something. little things, like being partners for a school project or eating lunch with them--it might be a little frightening at first....but just be yourself and if they like you (I don't see why they shouldn't) then they'll for sure want to hang out with you more. the more you open yourself up to people, the more they will see how great of a person you are. you just have to make sure that you are going to be friends with the right kind of people: the ones who will like you for who you are and not what you look like or if you're really good at something like sports. but yeah, just remember to stick to who you are--don't try to be someone you're not just so that you'll have friends. trust me, it doesn't work that way.
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