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Last Update: November 18, 2008
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so, I have this guy friend. we're not like super close or anything, but it's not like I don't know him at all. and I'm thinking I kind of like him. like, he gave me a hug on Thursday and it was so nice (usually no one ever gives me hugs--not that I don't like hugs, it just never happens..idk w/e) because he just came up to me and gave this super big hug. and I was like wow this is nice. and I've been thinking about it all weekend....only problem is that I don't know how to tell my friends about it--I'm afraid that they'll laugh at me, because they're all sort of friends with him too, and I'm pretty sure they don't see me with him at all. I need help figuring out exactly what I am thinking and stuff....like how to tell my friends, because I want to find out if he likes me too...idk I think it'd just be nice. (link)
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ok, for starters, just breathe. everything is going to work out just fine. second, if they are truely your friends they will be happy for you, yeah sure they may giggle at first, out of surprise, but if you are as close with them as you say you are, than they will stick by your side, and they wouldn't tease you if they knew it truely bothered you. And as a girl myself, i have had the teasing, but trust me its not as bad as you think it is. if you really care about this guy, you'll put up with it, because as we all know, gossip usually only lasts for about a couple of days than people move on. so your news may only be shocking for a little while, than im sure it'll go away, and you can just be with your man :) and as for giving him the high sign that you like him, just be yourself, if he liked you in the first place thats why. don't change who you are, and remember to be confident, people can see when you are confident, and it shines through. stand by your decision weather its to date him or not, be confident that you made the right choice. But im sure you'll be just fine, if their your friends, theyll be ok with whoever you date, or like, so long as your happy. Just breathe, smile, and be confident. Hope this helps!!!!
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fifteen/female'
alright here's the deal, when I start to like a boy & they move on i get crushed,
and that happeneds alot-
I fall for guys too fast, and I try so hard not too' but I can't help myself!
Call me crazy but I'm serious;
-anything would help at this point.
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alright, sister to sister,
first of all just breathe, no matter what remember that you'll always get through it, no matter how hard it is. Then, for starters, and as you've probably heard before, slow things down, try not to fall so fast, and believe me this is hard, i used to do it too. Second, guys like a challenge. so try to remain mysterious. guys are like dogs, they don't want the bone thats handed to them, you have to make them do tricks. if you get my jist. just try to not always be so available, guys like a challenge, and let them know that you are too good, and they have to work if they want you. and lastly, have confidence, don't be worried or preoccupied wondering if they like you back, give yourself a little confidence, and it will show. and one more thing, even if it does hurt, just remember that its his loss and you should move on (no matter how hard it is) theres always other fish in the sea and who knows there could be one that you had no idea was looking at you. remember to smile, and move on if it doesn't work. Hope this helps, just smile and be yourself :)
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Thank you! lol and feel free to come to me with any questions :) hope it works out for you
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okay,HEREsss the backround of all thiss. well i'm a junior and the kid i like is a sophmore(highschool). we started talking one day in a study that we both had because our teachers weren't there. then, we found out that we both had the same gym class. our school splits up the boys and girls in gym, so i don't see him until the end for like 5 minutes! sometimes he comes to our gym class though.
Soooo,I get the impression that he's a big flirt with other girls, because he's always around different ones at a time. and he hugs a lot. The thing is i like him,i think* he likes me too.he always seems like he wants to impress me.
I'm just not sure if i should trust him or fall any deeper than i am. Oh and what does it mean when a boy sits really close to you?he does that,a looo0o0ot :}. basically, i can't get him out of my mind! but i worry that he's just playin me.
The big question?! HOW do i know if he's into me? and What are some fun ways that will keep him thinking about me even after i leave ;D?How can i spot a player? i will love you forever if you help me with this one! thanks everyone :]
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OK, well, i am also a junior and im dating a sophomore, so maybe i have an edge on this. Make sure you give yourself more confidence, thats a big time boost. guys like girls with confidence. Second, start by big time flirting back with him. if anything he might just be thinking that your a flirt too, so if all else fails you have nothing to loose. i hope i'm making myself clear, im trying to explain best i can :D maybe try touching him in little ways when he sits close to you. give him a small hint and see where he goes with it. if you can, with out seeming like a stalker get his number and, try texting him about something thats going on in gym class. and if all else fails, and he's not into you, make sure to play it cool. don't act all sad, even though you may be, just move on, its his loss. but over all present yourself with confidence, it shows, and just be yourself.
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