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I have a problem, I wont 'LIE!'
fifteen/female'
alright here's the deal, when I start to like a boy & they move on i get crushed,
and that happeneds alot-
I fall for guys too fast, and I try so hard not too' but I can't help myself!
Call me crazy but I'm serious;
-anything would help at this point.
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i think that you are going to take it slow with the guy because what happenes when you wanna take it so fast is that the guy ends up getting scared and wanting to walk away from the realationship
just keepin it real
joey
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It isn't easy- you are young, and it's hard not to fall hard for someone you like, only to get crushed later. It happens to everyone at some point or other. With experience you'll figure out how to stay level-headed and try to move on too. It's really difficult not to fall for someone too fast, but you just have to remind yourself to take things slowly, and give yourself time to figure the person out. Teenage girls tend to get obsessed with the guys they like.. you are starting to figure yourself out, probably also starting to date/hang out with guys- in short, lots of things are pretty new to you. Welcome to the world of relationships, dating, and guys. It's fun, but it can also be overwhelming at times- especially for teens. My only advice to you is to try taking a step back and look at things with a calm and objective viewpoint. If you feel things are going too fast for you, slow down a little. Try not to idealize the guys you meet- they are human, and are not going to give you the perfect relationship. Do not get caught in your own little world, obsessing over a guy. It's perfectly natural to be blissful and happy when you're with a guy, but again, try to look at him as a human, rather than prince charming, and it'll be easier to keep yourself from falling too hard.
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alright, sister to sister,
first of all just breathe, no matter what remember that you'll always get through it, no matter how hard it is. Then, for starters, and as you've probably heard before, slow things down, try not to fall so fast, and believe me this is hard, i used to do it too. Second, guys like a challenge. so try to remain mysterious. guys are like dogs, they don't want the bone thats handed to them, you have to make them do tricks. if you get my jist. just try to not always be so available, guys like a challenge, and let them know that you are too good, and they have to work if they want you. and lastly, have confidence, don't be worried or preoccupied wondering if they like you back, give yourself a little confidence, and it will show. and one more thing, even if it does hurt, just remember that its his loss and you should move on (no matter how hard it is) theres always other fish in the sea and who knows there could be one that you had no idea was looking at you. remember to smile, and move on if it doesn't work. Hope this helps, just smile and be yourself :)
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Thank you! lol and feel free to come to me with any questions :) hope it works out for you
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