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Talking about sex.
Hi, I'm 17 and female.
I have this amazing, wonderful, boyfriend boyfriend that I love very much. I think I'm ready to have sex with said boyfriend, but I'm a little nervous because it would be my first time (it'd be his too.) I'd be totally comfortable talking to him about this, but I don't know how to bring it up.
So, does being nervous mean I'm not ready for sex, and how do I initiate a conversation about this with my boy?
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Um, not to be rude or anything but aren't you a little young to be having sex? Sorry, but this sounds like a really stupid idea, and maybe the reason you are nervous is because you are only 17 years old... I think you need to take a second and see that you are way too young. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will wait until both of you are actually I don't.... mature. So if you want my advice I think 17 is too young for sex. Not to mention it's a sin... but whatever I'm not your mom. Good luck with whatever you choose.
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Well, being nervouse about a first time could mean many things. It could mean that you are worried that it might hurt, it could mean that you are just not ready, it really could be anything. And what you need to do before you have sex is talk to your doctor and get the pill, get condoms, and you just need to talk to your bf. Ask him if he is ready for sex, tell him how your feeling about the whole subject, talk about the possibilities of what you two would do if you got preggy, you know that type of stuff. And to tell you the truth, I really don't think any girl should have sex with their bf unless they have been dating for at leasty 3-5 months. But that is just my opinion. Hope everything turns our well.
Message me if you need anything else- Ataura-14/f
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