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Playboy Poster Pet Peeve

Question Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 5:51 pm

So, my boyfriend has about, 4 or 5 playboy posters in his room. Ya know like the half naked girls? For some reason, it really, really, REALLY, bothers me. I cant really help it. It makes me feel not god enough, so he has to stare at OTHER girls all day long, and fantasize about them and their bodies. Like, he know it bothers me, but idk. i dont think he knows to what extent. What should i do? =/

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blynch07 answered Wednesday December 3 2008, 12:01 am:
from a guys perspective, its hard not to have that be honest guys minds wander and we feel guilty sometimes that we are thinking of our girlfriends sexually all the time, thus we need an outlet, one where we can focus all our lusty thought and in turn have mostly love for you. dont get me wrong now, he is sexually attracted to you, but would you rather him to have posters of ridiculous women, he will never get, or have him thinking of you sexually all the time (and that would include a lot of fantasizing about you naked). im my experience girls prefer the posters..

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sweetipie205 answered Tuesday December 2 2008, 6:38 pm:
Okay, first of all, if I was you, I would definatly like yell at him. Playboy is wrong. Okay, sorry, now that I got that off my chest, let me give you some advice.

Tell your bf how you feel, if he doesn't listen to you and he still keeps them up or just says 'yeah, whatever', then you know that either 1 of 3 things are happening. 1) He doesn't think you are good enough. 2) He just doesn't care about how you feel. 3) Or he could be cheating because of the first two options. Any of those options are horrible. But listen, all guys have that stuff, and they really care about the girls they are with, then they get rid of it. And you shouldn't feel like you aren't good enough. You need to remember that those girls in the magezines aren't real,hun, and you are. The only thing they are money grubbing whores who like to show off that fake body of theirs.

Message me if you need anything else- Ataura- 14/f

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MXbri answered Tuesday December 2 2008, 2:37 pm:
well my boyfriend
does'nt have posters or anything,
but we'll be watching TV
and he'll comment on like every girl...
whether thier hot, ugly,
fat, ect.
and he'll even do this to
girls he just sees...
it bothered me sooooooooo
He saw that it bugged me,
and he re-assured me
that just because he thinks thier hot does'nt mean ANYTHING.
I just had to trust him, and it does'nt bother me because i know he's with me, and hey, its only looking...

so i think you should just tell him, let him know they bother you...
And just because thier on his wall DOES NOT mean your not good enough, obviously you are if your with him!
so dont think that thier fake models anyways that have so much computer enhancing done lol
:) hope everything works out.

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