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what to do about a boy I like


Posted Sunday December 28 2008, 8:49 pm

I am a girl in high school and I need some major advice concerning boys. . . I'm ussually ok but I don't know how to act around boys that I really like, I always freak out and it is super embarassing :( See I have this friend, lets call him Joe, so "Joe" and I just started hanging out and we are pretty cool together but I only talk to him once in a while in math but I love talking to him, he's just so sweet and nice. He's not like drop dead gorgeous or anything, hes cute, but in an innocent way :) I really want to get to know him better but I don't know how, do I ask him to hang out? do I talk to him more in class? Do I just leave things the way they are now? What do I do??????? How do I persue this, to see if there really is anything to persue, without freaking him out?

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is there a boundary?


Posted Sunday December 28 2008, 6:33 pm

okay me and my ex broke up not to long ago...its not like we wanted to really its just that certain circumstance broke us apart we still love each other but cant be together right now. i still talk to him but he still calls me names like babe, baby and all the others we had is that strange since we broke up or do u think its okay since we technically didnt want the break up to happen



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Over my head relationship


Posted Sunday December 28 2008, 4:02 pm

(I'm 16 female and the boy's 17)

So during the summer, I met this boy who was everything I ever wanted. We both did the same activities, we watched the same tv shows, we both thought the same things were funny. Plus he was probably the sweetest guy I've ever met, he's so nice. He was perfect for me and I was so amazed that I found him. So he asked me out when school started and from then till probably late November, things couldn't have gotten better. We were in love, we lost our virginity to each other and it was just so amazing being with him, he meant everything to me.
So here's the bad part, he lives probably like 30 minutes away from me and he is the busiest boy ever. His schedule is so jam-packed, it's like he's...

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Saddd... Need Help


Posted Sunday December 28 2008, 12:18 pm

my boyfriend broke up with me bc he said im 2 down on my self he was like were done. he also said i put 2 much emotional baggage on him.. i am rlly saddd.. but is it right for a guy to break up bc of me being too down on myself..im really sad

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friends with benefits


Posted Sunday December 28 2008, 1:46 am

ok so i really like this guy and he said he likes me (he even said he loved me) but were not going out officially, were just friends with benefits really. we've hooked up a few times but we've never really talking about being in a relationship, but i kinda want to be in one with him.. idk it sounds retarded but i dont know what to do. any advice?

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what should i do?


Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 8:51 pm

15/m I've been single for a year and a half now and i am not sure what to do. I have had offers but none of the ones that asked me really appealed to me. Does this mean i should try and ask ones i do want to go out with me? I hate getting rejected it leaves a knot in my stomach. The ones i ask out and reject me are always the ones i cant get out of my head. What should i do?

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bringing your relationship to college.


Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 2:24 pm

i'd like to hear from people who have experience in going away to college while you were in a relationship? what happened? did it work out? my first love and i dated for a year and a half, we were inseperable, then had a BAD break up, were broken up for a year, and just got back together a little over 2 months ago, and everything's perfect again. in the fall, im moving to alabama for college [we're from georgia], and i dont know what to do. he said he is NOT going to lose me again, but i dont know how i feel about trying to maintain a long distance relationship in school. we talked about him moving there with me, but i highly doubt that will happen because he'll be in school here, and i'll more than likely have to live in a dorm my first ...

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bottom line:


Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 12:50 pm

bottom line:

he calls or texts me maybe twice a week if im lucky

we hang out once a month

and i only see him at school between classes for two minutes once a day

we have been together almost 3 months

but liked each other for over a year

every time i talk to him about how we arent close he gets mad and tells me to end it

what should i do?


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Help me get his attention, please :)


Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 9:08 am

hey
well i work at mcdonalds, and i have a thing for my manager. he is only 3 years older than me which is okay, and hes not store manager or anything.. i just need to know, how do i get his attention? he always makes fun of me (not being mean) coz im really clumsy and trip over alot and then says that i always blush when i get embarrased, and he tells people i laugh alot and get embarrased easily. i really like him so i want to know how i can get on his radar hehe. how should i catch his attention and make him want me too?
thankss x

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Ideas for fun and FREE dates


Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 3:49 am

My boyfriend and I (20 and 21) are in a bit of a rut. We haven't gone out on a real date in months. We are completely broke--he recently closed his savings account to help me pay for rent, and he is also applying for law school right now. I pointed this out to him and asked him to take me out on a fun, romantic date tomorrow, and he agreed to try and think of something. I need to do the same in return, so I was wondering if any of you guys had ideas! Thanks so much!

~TD

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love online


Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 1:21 am

I'm eighteen and i would liketo know thebest sites to meet guys online safely. thanks.

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does my boyfriend still love me?


Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 1:18 am

When we first started dating I loved being with him and he loved being with me. He used to kiss and hug and just be very touchy feely and affectionate toward me. He used to tell me I was pretty and sexy all the time. He even had a cute nickname for me. Lovebug. He never calls me that anymore. Now he doesn't ever kiss me. If we kiss, it's because I kiss him and even then he acts like he doesn't want to and just gives me such a quick peck I don't even have time to respond. It's like he just wants to get it over with as soon as possible. It's like that with sex too. We used to have sex two or three times a day and it lasted. But now it's over in literally thirty seconds after he enters me if not shorter. He never compliments me anymore either....

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Am i gay?


Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 12:40 am

i'm 15 and i was just wondering i really think that the male penis is disgusting, i felt my boyfriends through his jeans and cringed in repulsion. i really thought it was gross ya know, is that normal?

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he says he is to busy..


Posted Friday December 26 2008, 11:25 pm

my boyfriend and i had been together for almost 3 months but we have had crushes on each other for over a year. we have always been an item and we are both funny and silly people.
before we got into a realionship it was during the summer and we hung out once, apparently he was busy working and at football practice. and i was understanding although i wasnt being very faithful.
so i got into this realionship and things went well the first week but we didnt talk as much as i wanted to. and he would only call once a day only 3 or 4 days a week. and we never texted and we never saw each other only at school.
this would make me very mad and i would complain to other people and they would talk to him and he would get angry at...

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should i let him in?


Posted Friday December 26 2008, 9:20 pm

this guy and i went out for about a year...we broke up about four months ago, and signs are showing that he wants me back....his girlfriend cheated on him, and its sad and everything. I love him so much. for the past few months i've been with a guy, and all i could do was think about him....but now that i'm about to have that chance to be with him, i don't want to take it because he's hurt me before, and i don't want it to happen again. a part of me feels like he is only running to me because his girlfriend is not there anymore, so he wants to use me to forget about her. I'm just so confused. I don't know what to do or if i'm making the right decision, what do you guys think? thank you!:D

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Giving My All With No Response!


Posted Friday December 26 2008, 4:50 pm

ok so there's this guy that I like ! & I thought he was the greatest thing that ever happened to me(relationship wise) because I never trusted anyone as quickly as I gave my trust to him . he made me believe him when he said that he would never cheat on me! I felt that I had my guards up for too long and that I really wanted to be in a relationship where I was cared for/loved . was I wrong for wanting that? so it was thanksgiving when I met him . we exchanged numbers and he called me later that night . we just talked and stuff . & I absolutely loved his voice . wellllll . 7 days later he asked me out and I said yeah . then my mom brought me to her sister's house (he lives by her) and I was outside with him and his friends . his frie...

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more than a friend?


Posted Friday December 26 2008, 2:59 pm

14/f
so, there was a sadie hawkins dance at my school. the guy that i planned on asking acted like a jerk right before i was about to ask him (long story) and i just couldn't ask him. so i asked my best guy friend. we've been like brother and sister for a little more than a year. this friend doesn't go to my school. so the dance comes and we go out to dinner, he refuses to let me pay for my own dinner, and everything is going great. when we get to the dance, we're just hanging out and i introduce him to all of my friends. when the first slow dance comes, he grabs me and pulls me reallllly close. we dance and we don't even talk while we're dancing. we just stare at each other and smile. when the song ends, we just stand there. he's ho...

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his mom hates it


Posted Friday December 26 2008, 12:28 pm

So I've been seeing this guy for a few months and there is a four-year age difference. I am 18 and he is 22. I've met his parents and a lot of his friends and all of them were super nice, but the other night I asked him how his parents felt about me being young. He said, "My mom hates it" and she always brings up thing I'm still in high school. His dad is fine with it though.

The impression I leave on parents is really important to me. I know it's nothing personal about me, i'm a nice girl, but she can't see past the age thing I guess. This just really upsets me and I don't know what to do. It isn't something I can change. My age is my age. Any tips or comforting words? Thanks!

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I work with a godess 18 m


Posted Friday December 26 2008, 10:42 am

this problem i have come to is very complex, i work with this girl, and i im practically in love with her,(love at first sight never thought it could happen) we talk laugh and have every thing in common, she has a bf shes ben with for a while they argue and what not but relationships arnt perfect i no, and i have a gf, same we argue from time to time, and i have ben with said gf for 5 years and we are having our first child and i love HER to death.. the problem comes in where i cant get this other girl (co-worker) out of my head... dream, thought, even internet, cant shake this want for her to be a closer person to me. i am not a cheater will never, but i just need to no how i should go about this, i cant say that chemistry wont out shine o...

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Boyfriends friends?!


Posted Friday December 26 2008, 4:35 am

My boyfriend has never introdued me to his friends because I know about them and they are definitely not my type of people. They're stuck up and snobby and very annoying. I mean all that in a nice way.
Well my Boyfriend told me that if they add me on myspace to delete them. So they tried and I denied the request as what my boyfriend said.

so his friend got very mad that I denied her and posted up a picture of my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend on his page in a comment of course. My boyfriend and I have seen this picture before and it broke my heart. And seeing it again on his myspace got my so mad I broke down in tears. I sent him a text saying
"I don't know what the $%^& you and your friends are trying...

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