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Giving My All With No Response!
ok so there's this guy that I like ! & I thought he was the greatest thing that ever happened to me(relationship wise) because I never trusted anyone as quickly as I gave my trust to him . he made me believe him when he said that he would never cheat on me! I felt that I had my guards up for too long and that I really wanted to be in a relationship where I was cared for/loved . was I wrong for wanting that? so it was thanksgiving when I met him . we exchanged numbers and he called me later that night . we just talked and stuff . & I absolutely loved his voice . wellllll . 7 days later he asked me out and I said yeah . then my mom brought me to her sister's house (he lives by her) and I was outside with him and his friends . his friends were trying to talk to me and kept askin me if I thought they were cute (which one of them was) and he was like "chill out" and we were just like cuddling and stuff . then I kissed him and it just felt like it was my first kiss ever (which it was not) .
then my parents and grandparents and stepparent started to not like how he was . because he dresses in "thug"ish clothing . & I started to like him more (i don't know if as an act of rebellion)but the more I started to like him the more it seemed like he didn't realize how much I did and didn't seem to care. ohhhh and did I mention there's a girl who claims that she's his girlfriend (she messaged me on myspace) but he told me no . so I looked at his myspace and she was first on his tops. so I asked him about it and he said it was old and that he had to change it but out of all the times he signed on the only thing he changed was that big pic of her on his page(she's still on his tops)i cried sooooooo hard last night and I couldn't stop for anythinggg . I don't want anyone elseeeee BUT him . & I really mean it . I want him to want me back
what's wronggggg ! =(
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first of all if he said he will never cheat on you
and all of an sudden this girl popups, then we have an communication problem .sound like you really dig this guy but he don,t dig you, so my advice will be (LET HIM AND HIS MYSPACE CHICK GO!)
there are other fish in the pound, so no more crying find someone who will givve you that attention you deserve.
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Ok there might be a chance that this girl might be his girlfriend or ex or something of the sort. You need to talk to this guy. Ask him about this girl, why is she on his tops, why is she messaging saying she is his girlfriend. If it seems like he doesn't care then maybe he isn't worth it. You can probably find a better guy who will love you just as much as you love them. It would be so much better. I felt the same way about this guy that I've liked before. We were kinda going out and then it seemed like he didn't care. I seriously just wanted him to like me back. I realized that if he didn't want me, he didn't deserve me. It hurt me so bad because I knew he had those feelings for me before but then it changed. So just think about it. Maybe he isn't the right one. Good luck!
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Talk to him again. Say that you don't like his top. Talk to the girl too if you need more convinsing. Depending on how far your aunt lives ask your parents to invite him over for dinner or something where they can meet him and hopefully see what you like about him. Just talk about it he sounds like hes a good beau. But is it to good to be true? I don't know, I odn't see you guys when your together. But just talk it out, its the best way to get everything off your trust.
Hope i helped
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Well honestly, guys are jerks. My fiance can be a jerk sometimes. It is like they Pms but dont have the monthly visiter. Yeah it's dumb. It sounds as if he is cheating on you and you should have to try to be noticed. He should just notice you for who you are. If your parents dont like him trust me he isnt for you. my parents hated almost all my boyfriends and the ones they did like they dont like anymore. My fiance they just love him my dad and him fix on my car together even talk on the phone once in a while. Hes talked to my mom on the phone before (she lives a lot farther away) he even texts my little brother a lot. This guy isnt worth your trouble. take it slow and wait for the guy to come to you.
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Unfortunatly, that was most likely his girlfriend. No matter how much you don't want it to be true. Move on now before you dig yourself into a deeper hole. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and about 2 months now, but he cheated on me more than once and did other things that a boyfriend shouldn't do and I should've broke up with him for. The thing is, I wanted believe him every single time something fishy happened. That's where I went wrong. Now I'm some what trapped in the relationship. I want to leave him, but at the same I don't because I love the boy. We're on the same boat; I don't want to be with anyone else. Be strong and good luck with everything. Don't get yourself hurt more than you already are.
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