this problem i have come to is very complex, i work with this girl, and i im practically in love with her,(love at first sight never thought it could happen) we talk laugh and have every thing in common, she has a bf shes ben with for a while they argue and what not but relationships arnt perfect i no, and i have a gf, same we argue from time to time, and i have ben with said gf for 5 years and we are having our first child and i love HER to death.. the problem comes in where i cant get this other girl (co-worker) out of my head... dream, thought, even internet, cant shake this want for her to be a closer person to me. i am not a cheater will never, but i just need to no how i should go about this, i cant say that chemistry wont out shine over history, but i no i cant stop. please someone any one help a man in need, should i go with the flow or try and block a very big river ( sorry so long and arratic lol )
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AnonymousAdvisor answered Friday December 26 2008, 3:49 pm: You have a child? I would definately forget about the coworker. You've been with your girlfriend, for five years. Maybe this is just lust, between you and your coworker. I wouldnt think too seriously about leaving your child and gf. Just try to ignore the feelings. Because maybe, if you do leave your gf, it would be a waste. Think of the consequences, this girl may not even like you, you may not even get to see your child, your gf may not accept you back if you realize it was just lust.
Try not to think about it, actually, DONT think about it.
Think about your child.
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