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Boyfriends friends?!
My boyfriend has never introdued me to his friends because I know about them and they are definitely not my type of people. They're stuck up and snobby and very annoying. I mean all that in a nice way.
Well my Boyfriend told me that if they add me on myspace to delete them. So they tried and I denied the request as what my boyfriend said.
so his friend got very mad that I denied her and posted up a picture of my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend on his page in a comment of course. My boyfriend and I have seen this picture before and it broke my heart. And seeing it again on his myspace got my so mad I broke down in tears. I sent him a text saying
"I don't know what the $%^& you and your friends are trying tp pull but it sure as hell hurts. And now I realize what kinda guy you are..."
I hate that picture becuase he left me before and went for this other girl and the fact that his friend would post a picture on there to get me mad makes no sense to me at all. Why is she being immature?
My question is what should I do?
I love him very much but if he's gonna have friends that oppose his happiness how can I tell him this?
I think that if his friends mean more than he should just end it with me before I get hurt worse?
Help?
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Its not your boyfriends fault that she put a picture of him and his ex on myspace. So I think you should talk to your boyfriend about this whole friend thing. I think you should at least his friends once. Just because they aren't your type of people then it doesn't mean you don't have to like them or have anything in common with them. The picture going up on myspace wasn't his fault though, so sending him that text wasn't exactly great. If his friends are being so mean you really need to talk to him about this. He needs to stand up for you a little if he hasn't already. I hope everything works out for you! Good luck!
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It's not your boyfriends fault that they posted the picture. If he's with you then he's with you because he likes you. What I would do is make the effort to meet his friends, regardless of weather or noth there your 'type'. If there not then you make the sacrafice and deal with it because you care about him. I understand that your upset, and I would be to. But mybe you should tlak to him about how this makes you feel. He most likely wasn't in on the picture being posted. You need to talk to him and just be like it hurt and i want to meet your friends and if i don't like thim i'm still going to make the effort to be friends with thim. You'll do it if you like him. HE DIDn'T GET THE PICTURE POSTED ON HIM MYSPACE. He probally feels bad. IT'S NOT HIS FAULT. Seriously, talk to him becaue you blaming him for something that is not his fault isn't fair. Just talk it out
if you need me to explain more and help you with what you should say then drop a question in my inbox and i'll gladly help you.
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Okay, your boyfriends "girl" friend, added you onto myspace and you denied?
She then posts a picture of him and his ex on his page, in a comment.
Have you ever thought, that maybe she likes him? Maybe he was telling you not to add her because he knew she would cause problems.
You have to think about it this way too, you can have him controlling you, I've been in a relationship like that, and they dont end well.
Yes, you have a right to be mad, if someone were to post a picture of my boyfriend and his ex on a page, I'd kill. Not that I have a myspace anymore.
You should talk to him, and tell him if he really cares about you that he shouldnt let his friends run all over you, and try to cause you two trouble.
If you feel like his friends mean more than you do, then yeah, maybe you should end it. Especially if he's treating you with no respect, and controlling you.
Hope I helped.
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