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friends with benefits
ok so i really like this guy and he said he likes me (he even said he loved me) but were not going out officially, were just friends with benefits really. we've hooked up a few times but we've never really talking about being in a relationship, but i kinda want to be in one with him.. idk it sounds retarded but i dont know what to do. any advice?
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Cut out the 'benefits' part. Try to be just regular friends with him and take it from there. If after drawing the line and not hooking up with him he becomes distant, then it doesn't seem like a relationship is even possible if a friendship doesn't start. So talk to him, let him know how you feel and find out how he feels. Try to go from a friendship and build it up from there, it doesn't have to always be about intimacy. Hope that helped and good luck.
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My advise is to tell this guy how you feel, you've said yourself that he's told you that he loves you. However, there may be a downfall to this. You say your friends with benefits at the moment, consider if he doesn't want to start a relationship. Hopefully he's not a jerk & he really finds hope in you guys.
Maybe he's not made the move, because he's unsure of where you stand, if you want to be with him or not.
You should most definately talk to him.
Goodluck!
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All I can say is if you feel that strongly about him you should say something. Good luck!
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If you two are god enough friends with benefits then I would think that starting a relationship is a good idea. Of course, it might be hard changing a completely physical relationship into one that involves lots of feelings and stuff like that. You should talk to him and tell him how you truly feel. He did say he loved you so if he still does, I doubt anything will go wrong.
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