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Im a fourteen year old girl who loves to help people and Im an aspiring writer and one day I hope to be a social worker so people can come to me about any problems they are facing.
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Hi! i'm 11 and people are sayindg that i'm going to start my peiod soon. Is that true?!!?
Not neccissarily but it is possible and all you can do is wait. I started mine at 13 but my friend started at 11 also so it depnds if you're an early or late bloomer. Hope I helped you if you need anymore help then ask me anytime but I may not reply.
Pc13
Okay so around August me and my ex boyfriend broke up. He was my first love and after it ended it's taken me a while to get over it. I have never been so hurt in my life. Well now im doing pretty okay without him and I met someone else and now we are dating. He is very cute and sweet and I like him very much. But Now I feel weird about it. I know I am not fully over my ex, I still love him very much but I would never go back with him because too much has changed and I know I should be moving on but im starting to get those feelings I had when we first broke up and now I have my new boyfriend, he doesn't know I feel this way but I find it to be very unfair for him because now I'm having second thoughts of whether or not I should be in a relationship but I also feel I shouldn't be letting my feelings for my ex knowing that nothing is going to happen between us again get in the way of me being with someone else. SO now Im really confused and dont know what to do :(
First off this is a perfectly normal way to feel because he was your first love and that takes time to get over. I went through this before and it took me ten months to get completely over him so I completely understand what your going through. Im gonna be real and say love sucks! I just lost my secod live and I still think about my first so i can tell you from personal experience You will get over him but youll still have feelings for him and youll never forget him. Stay with this guy and see where that takes you and if it doesnt work then, hes just a guy and he wasnt worth your time.Hope I helped any! please let me know if you need anymore help!!!
Pc13
hayi am 16years old and myboyfrien is 18we are very muchin love...but we always fight and i really want to stop but i cant figure out how we fight about the littlest things can you help me?
Maybe you're too close and spend too much time together. Maybe you need to take some time off.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
Pc13
I broke up with my ex boyfriend around November.Everytime I talk to him,I feel the same way I felt for him when we were going out.But the fact is that I've liked this other guy for 2 years now exactly(I know pathetic right?).What i wanna know is...why am I feeling like this? And my ex also told me that he still likes me.
Maybe you still do like him. maybe you like both of them a lot and you like your ex more than the other guy. Im sorry I might not br much help but I hope I clarified for you how you might be feeling. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pc13
16f
I talk to the guy (call him R)I like every other day in gym while my friend (her T) is there, & just recently a little more everyday in another class, but i'll get back to that later. A bit less than 6 weeks ago, when I was still contemplating whether I liked R or not, I stupidly told T in gym about another guy (call him M) I had liked while R was there. About a week or so after this I was sure I liked R & I was totally over the other guy. At one point I realized that I had to make sure R knew that I didn't like the other guy so 2 weeks ago I told both him and T. So I figured that was that. Today in gym me, R, & T were all talking, & randomly R says "So what's going on with M" & I could tell by his face & the way he was speaking that he was being investigative. So I said "Well nothing, I don't like him at all anymore" so he asked a couple more questions to that effect & said things like "you're not even gonna do this.." & "oh but when you see him again…" type things, basically he was making jokes. But I could still tell he was being investigative. Then he said something similar to “So who do you like now” but in a funnier way I just can’t remember ha. So jokingly he was naming people in or chemistry class & of course I was shaking my head. At 1 point T said R’s name but I don’t think he heard it because he was talking over her. After that the subject got changed because T said something else. But I know a sign that a guy likes you is if they ask you about other guys, but the things he said about M seemed like he was encouraging me liking him, but his tone of voice & facial expression still seemed investigative. So am I just being paranoid about the encouraging things he said?
Hes totally into you but hes not sure if you're into him.He doesn know what to say or if you like him so he was asking who you like. Hes just a shyboy and is trying to play it cool and not seem intocause it seems like you wont say who you like because you dont want him to know not cause its him and you're being secretive and slightly shy. You should have T talk to him for you. So, GOODLUCK!!!!
Pc13
Hello... ( this will be long... sorry ... )
Well... I have been liking this guy for a VERY long time. I told him that I did like him and if he minded it. He said no. I have been talking to him back a forth a while. He was very nice. I asked him maybe if we can go to the v- day dance together (AS friends ONLY) He said he doesn't know... he doesn't like dances and he doesn't dance. lol He's a popular 8th grader...I am a 7th grader...and I am sorta ... popular. Well ... what I REALLY need help with is... I put a v-day note in his locker... with a poem that really explained how I feel for him. I asked him on my space... if he liked it... but he never replied. So... it really hurt my feelings. I gave my heart in that poem . I can't ask him myself if he liked it ...because...I don't see him that much... and I am shy. That's the other issue...I REALLY need to talk to him.. but I don't know how!! So... can someone help me.. anything would help really. :)
Thank you! :)
I think hes just shy too and he didnt know how to respond. Just write a note and give it to him and ask him to please respond and tell you how he feels. The truth of how he feels may hurt but if he does like you then it was worth the risk. If he doesnt like you then he wasnt worth the time you spent liking him and hes just a guy so youll get over him.
Goodluck!Happy v-day!!!!!!
Pc13
Okay well I finally got over my ex,because of this new kid that came to my bus stop. He is totally my type and im totally crushing on him. So i started to flirt and after school i invited him to hang out with me and some of the neighborhood kids at the bus stop. he agreed and then it ended up that they all were going to be late. So it was just me and him. Of course i was excited and he looked pretty happy too. But i was in shorts and a tanktop and he looks at me and says "Dress code again?" and he was flirting so i said "Duh, I would wear this to school if possible" and he stopped and so i stopped to and he looks me up and down and say "Well i don't know why im complaining kuz i like those shorts a lot" and so i smiled and was like "thanks" so we stopped and sat down and we were talking about stuff we liked and didn't like and then my friend best girlfriend came and we were all talking and then my other guyfriend came and i ran towards him to give him a hug and all of the sudden i hear my crush going "Dayum look at her shes so hot" and he said that to my bff and i was like "THANKS" And he started laughing too. So then we were flirting again and joking around and all of the sudden i started talking about my otherguyfriend who has a 6 pack and my crush looks at me with this like flirty look and goes "I have a 6 pack" and im like "no you dont" and he goes "feel it " and im like "okayyy" and i felt his stomach..and he had a 6 pack... so i lifted my hand up.
Then the next day i wrote "i heart (and then my crushes name)" on my hand and when i got off the bus he saw it and was like "(his name) what ?" and i pulled my hand away and was like "Nothing," and then he let it drop but like at the bus stop later on i got rlly embaressed and i was like ignoring him and he saw that so he was like tickling me and stuff and trying to get my attention. But like...idk does he like me ? what should i do to flirt more?
SORRY FOR THE LENGTH....
He totally likes you and he was totally hittimg on you! You could ask him to hang out at your house just you and him, no other friends.
Good luck!!!!!
What is more effective, shaving, waxing or using that hair removal cream (such as Nair) on you legs? It'll be my first time so which one will stop hair growth on my legs for the longest? If it helps im a 13 year old female.
well id say the cream and dont wax till your at least 14 or 15 or it may leave marks for you and razor can be painful if you dont know how to use one hope i helped^.^
pc13
ok so i really like this guy and he said he likes me (he even said he loved me) but were not going out officially, were just friends with benefits really. we've hooked up a few times but we've never really talking about being in a relationship, but i kinda want to be in one with him.. idk it sounds retarded but i dont know what to do. any advice?
All I can say is if you feel that strongly about him you should say something. Good luck!
pc13
Okay so here's the story. My friend, we'll call her Suzy, had a boyfriend, we'll call him Bob. Suzy really liked Bob, and Bob supposedly really liked Suzy so they started going out. They kept on getting into fights and breaking up and all that stuff. In the end, though, they always got back together.
Last night Bob texted me asking for advice saying that he just broke up with Suzy and then his ex just asked him out. He asked me what to do. I gave him the advice that I would give anyone in that situation, no matter if they were going out with my friend or my enemy.
I told him that it's his choice on what to do, and that if he feels really comfortable with his ex then he should go for it. I told him that it's his choice and that he should do whatever makes him happy (because he's a really depressed person and I was worried that he'd... do something drastic to himself if he got really mad or something). He took my advice I'm pretty sure, and now I think Suzy is super mad at me.
Did I make the right decision on giving that advice to Bob or not? What should I have done and what can I do to get Suzy to forgive me?
You did the right thing because you helped someone seeking for help. She will eventually forgive you because obviously it wasnt true love. It will take some time because even though she thinks you betrayed her, she will at some point realize that its just a boy and you didnt help him to hurt her but you helped him because of the good person that you are. I hope I helped!
pc13
Im a UK cheerleader, competitive not varsity cheerleader and i need help. im not a coach im not even a senior (i have 5 months till im a senior), but im the junior squads captian.Um i have a few issues in advirtising, my coaches dont really live in the area where were based so its kind of hard to post flyers (my coach says shes making them over christmas hols), um im running out of idea to try and advirtise as much as i can as a junior captain. HELLPPP?!?!?!
Secondly, fundraising, who do y'all fundriase!? we've already got the idea of going to a supermarket to fundriase but any other ideas?
Lastly, i know alot of reasons to get people to cheer, buh can y'all shoot me somee things about what you like about cheer, and/or why you cheer yknw stuff tht i cud posibly use to convince peopple =D
Sorry for the spelling mistakes! not good with words too ofen.
Thaank you!
Vikki
=D
Vikki,
You could try newspaper advertising. If that doesnt work try to get sponsership with a big company! it may cost a little at first but it may give you the advertisement you need. Some good cheer music is Hey, mickey by Toni Basil. Its a really happy song and totally fun to move too! Im not sure about the fundraising thing but I tried! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
pc13
My english class got this assignment to put together a book.. so we decided that everyone writes their own chapter about the class (and when writing about yourself, you write in third person) now its my turn! Burt I don't know what to write.. I dont know the class all that well.. so could you just give me som example of what you could do, or some inspiration?
When I mean example, I mean like ideas, like I could write that someone in the class has become my personal stylist and always does my hair before school.. and things like that.
It's really hard, cause it has to be funny! What kind of funny things could I write? Please help me I suck at this!!
Oh and tips on a beginning or a cool ending would ROCK MY WORLD! Thank you!!
you could take a couple of polls like class favorite things.
Pc13
this one is for girls...
im graduating this year....
what are you supposed to wear under your gown on the day of your graduation? at my school we have white gowns..
thanks!
wear a slip, not colored!
Pc13
When I start to like a guy, I fall really fast and becoming to obsessive in my own mind. I constantly think about whoever it is at the time and I'll start to want to talk to him 24/7. Of course then I get bored quickly and move on to being obsessed with another guy.
How do I stop this annoying cycle so I can just be more chill with guys?
You could just relax and talk to one guy for a while. Or you could just ignore guys for a while.
Pc13
me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year almost. he will be turning 16 in less then a month and i have no idea what to get him, for my birthday he went over the top. i have 400 dollars so price doesnt matter. hes not into sports, he likes video games but on christmas he said he wouldnt want a game from his girlfriend. i already bought him a chain. i hate gift cards i think that they dont show you care. so basically what can be a big over the top gift to buy for him and to show him that i love him?
you could take him to dinner and then take him shopping for anything he wants.Goodluck!
pc13
Is it normal that you get this brown stuff which happens to be your period and not have it for months and months then have then have your period again in a week? I just got my period, and I'm wondering if i should be worried. Only a small amount comes out and it isn't red. In fact, it seems more like grown goo than blood. The period comes along with some aches around your body and a stomachache. 13/f
no nothing to be worried about its normal for a newbie on her period and yes it dose do that the brown goo is just like blood but it is just old blood that needs to come out when its ready to so no nothing to worry over so no need for worry.
Pc13
13/f
I am preganant and my baby is due in a week. No I didn't choose to have sex I was raped by my sisters ex-boyfriend and I don't believe in abortion or adoption. I need some baby names (boys and girls) I want the baby to be a suprise so I didn't want to know the gender. I like strange names like Savannah, Nevaeh (nuh-vey-uh its heaven spelled backwards), Jayden, Cayden.
any names like that.
Thanks for the help!
I personaly like Maraku, lena, Maranah, lavanah, maya, Necole( Nee-cole)Navanah, Belle, Maceyann, june, Marla,Jahnaylah, Annahstar,Colaynah.
Perry, jake, austin, Thomas, Stephen,Cade, Carson,Page, Coda, Perria (perh-ee-ay), Katama
i am a 17 year old girl and i dont hav a boyfriend. i like this boy kent he knows that i do. he used to call me squints and his nick name is quints but today when i was getting on the bus i sat down he was like mover over im sitting here but i said no and he laughed and went to the back what do i do. can u give me tips to look flirty and pretty and be flirty thanks in advance i will rate you thank you
You should wear a very elegant perfume as long as it is light with a mini skirt and a tee-shirt and a faint lipgloss.ask him if he would like to sit with you and ask him qustions like what kind of music are you into?, and what's you favorite movie?.
PC!# (13)
Yeah I know you's probably hate these questions.
But anyway...
I need a myspace name like those chicks that have like:
stephSYNTHETIC
sophieSEDATED
carlaCOCAINE
etc
Can anyone help me??
My name is Amy.
If you need to know anything about me;
I'm scenish,
I'm a machochist;
I like doing and being scratched and or bitten.
I like gory stuff
I'm shallow.
Um, I dunno what else you need to know.
Well; anyways, please help me.
Kthanks bye,
x
GoryAmy101
druggedupAmy
PC13
I'm baking a cake for my sister (for her birthday) and I don't know what kind of designs to put on it. I want to use candy to decorate it but I couldn't find any sites that had displays or examples. I don't know if I should design the cake to be birthday-ish (use frosting to make balloons and streamers) or design it with a lot of candy. Can anyone help?
Go to kroger and ask for cake decorating tips.
PC13