Well... I have been liking this guy for a VERY long time. I told him that I did like him and if he minded it. He said no. I have been talking to him back a forth a while. He was very nice. I asked him maybe if we can go to the v- day dance together (AS friends ONLY) He said he doesn't know... he doesn't like dances and he doesn't dance. lol He's a popular 8th grader...I am a 7th grader...and I am sorta ... popular. Well ... what I REALLY need help with is... I put a v-day note in his locker... with a poem that really explained how I feel for him. I asked him on my space... if he liked it... but he never replied. So... it really hurt my feelings. I gave my heart in that poem . I can't ask him myself if he liked it ...because...I don't see him that much... and I am shy. That's the other issue...I REALLY need to talk to him.. but I don't know how!! So... can someone help me.. anything would help really. :)
Thank you! :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? iwantthetruth answered Friday February 6 2009, 10:52 pm: Oh yeah, I did that once too. I sent a valentine gram to this guy I liked. Well, he definitely now knows how you feel about him in detail. I think it's a really sweet thing to do and it does take a lot of guts. So you should be proud of yourself for having the courage to put your feelings out there. If you do see him again, you should ask him what he thought. If he for whatever reason doesn't respond well, then I'm sorry, but at least you know you've tried. The way I see it is that when you want something you should go for it and see where it takes you. And no matter if the result is good or bad, you'll never have to wonder "what if" because you did it. So, if it doesn't work out, try not to let it bring you down. Instead you could go to the dance with your friends as a group. That's always lots of fun. :) Good luck. <3
pc13 answered Friday February 6 2009, 9:46 pm: I think hes just shy too and he didnt know how to respond. Just write a note and give it to him and ask him to please respond and tell you how he feels. The truth of how he feels may hurt but if he does like you then it was worth the risk. If he doesnt like you then he wasnt worth the time you spent liking him and hes just a guy so youll get over him.
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