there is a girl that i use to fight with a lot but now i am sick of fights so i'm pretending to be her friend because i'm real good friends with her best friend. The girl i hate is also ignoring her best friend and hanging out with this other girl . her best friend notices but still likes her and still defends her when i try to tell her how i feel about the girl i hate. im sure if i tell her i dont like her bestfriend she wont like me either. how can i get out of being friends with the girl i hate but still be friends with her best
friend and my other friends?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Darby answered Thursday August 6 2009, 10:28 pm: It's probably best to just avoid her right now. If you're out with all of your other friends and she's there, just talk to a couple of the other friends and try to steer clear of her. You could also try staying away from places where she is as much as possible. Try to hang out with that girl's best friend individually.
Have you tried to just forgive and forget? If her best friend is really cool, she's probably somewhat cool, too. The best outcome of this situation is you actually becoming friends with the girl that you hate right now. Unless you have an extremely legitimate reason for hating her, you should try to talk things over and forgive her. Then, all of you will be able to hang out and be closer without having to try to avoid each other.
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