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I have this friend... and she had a boyfriend...
Okay so here's the story. My friend, we'll call her Suzy, had a boyfriend, we'll call him Bob. Suzy really liked Bob, and Bob supposedly really liked Suzy so they started going out. They kept on getting into fights and breaking up and all that stuff. In the end, though, they always got back together.
Last night Bob texted me asking for advice saying that he just broke up with Suzy and then his ex just asked him out. He asked me what to do. I gave him the advice that I would give anyone in that situation, no matter if they were going out with my friend or my enemy.
I told him that it's his choice on what to do, and that if he feels really comfortable with his ex then he should go for it. I told him that it's his choice and that he should do whatever makes him happy (because he's a really depressed person and I was worried that he'd... do something drastic to himself if he got really mad or something). He took my advice I'm pretty sure, and now I think Suzy is super mad at me.
Did I make the right decision on giving that advice to Bob or not? What should I have done and what can I do to get Suzy to forgive me?
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Well, i can see it from your perspective and her perspective to. I know that if i was suzy and you were my friend, i would be a little mad. I wouldn't of given him advice in the first place, i would of just stayed out of it. But, since you already did that, i would explain everything to suzy as you did on here. Tell her your sorry if you ruined what they had and everything and even if she dosen't forgive you, she knows you tried to become friends with her agin. Hope this helps! Good luck!
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hey!
okay...well i think you really shouldnt of gaven him advice.but you did and lets see here i think i would just sit down with your friend and tell her your side of the story.because he must really still like his ex and wanna be with her and not you your friend.why would your friend cry and sit there all sad?you know what im saying.and shes acting like its your fault when she needs to be checking her boyfriend.
-hope i helped.
sarah.
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You did the right thing because you helped someone seeking for help. She will eventually forgive you because obviously it wasnt true love. It will take some time because even though she thinks you betrayed her, she will at some point realize that its just a boy and you didnt help him to hurt her but you helped him because of the good person that you are. I hope I helped!
pc13
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yes you made the right decision with 'bob' I mean, your friend and his relationship didn't seem very healthy anyways. with 'suzy' I think you need to explain to her what happened, yeah she's going to be mad for a while because techniqaly you are supposed to be on her side. I would keep up with bob though and see if he's happy, because if he's not you can always set up your friend and him again.. good luck
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