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wow... life
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 4:03 pm
I am 17/f(18 in june) years old. i have been dating a boy on and off for 3 years.. he is turning 20 in February. and i hate him o so bad these days... we fight about the stupidest things and we never go anywhere. he hates my friends and its not fair.. its just not right, i treat him like he is my son. i get him up and off to school because he is still in high school for the 3rd time in a row! he is a senior(as am i). i cant stand anything he does anymore and i never wanna be around him.. i always think of some excuse on why i don't wanna have sex with him and i just don't want to deal with it.. but i feel that it is my mission in life to get him to graduate finally. and i am going to do that. and he is graduating on Jan 15 and leaving Jan 1...
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outsider.
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 4:02 pm
16/f
all of my friends, or pretty much all of them, have hooked up with a guy/guys. I haven't. and they are all so pretty :[ AND DON'T TELL ME THAT I AM PRETTY BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME. i think im not appealing to guys. i don't have boobs. and actually, some of my friends don't either, but that's not the point ... i guess. I've had like ... 3 boyfriends. 2 were just flukes. one i really liked alot, but we only kissed, never hooked up. i guess i was scared? *because he has hooked up before* and then we broke up. but anyways, just the other day one of my "friends" was like ... well everyone has hooked up by now...duh. and i was like, no they havent, i know people who havent. and she was like, have you? and i lied. i said i di...
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I need the GUYS advice
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 3:04 pm
I have no idea why I am asking this question I guess I need to hear it from the "Guys" what are guys REALLY thinking when they see a woman who is overweight? Sometimes I think all guys care about are skinny, pretty woman. What do you think when you see a heavy female?
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help
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 1:51 pm
heyy
erm i realy need some adice , erm theres this lad ive been meetin up with for 6months and i realy like him he nos how much i want him but i think he just using me for sex, i met a realy nice lad recently he likes me i like him but i ant stop thinkin about the other lad i love...i lost my v to him aswell so it makes it harder he cares about me but i dnt want to get wit this lad just incase the lad i want , just need time i done want to do the wrong thing i stopped everything just to try to get him ive asked him out he dont say he dont like me he just says i done like realships, ever since ive been meetin him i did get around well givin few lads head all the time coz i felt like i was wanted if that makes sence.. but coz o...
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my boyfriend
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 12:41 pm
i'd really like to do something nice for my boyfriend, just because. something that doesnt cost a lot but means a lot.
i've made him a cd for him before of all the songs that remind of us each other.. and for the front and back cover i custom designed it with pictures of us. he loves it.. he listens to it everytime he's in his car.
i really want to do something else like that for him because he's such a great boyfriend and i want him to know how much he really means to me.
any ideas?
thanks a bunch! :)
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dependancy on my boyfriend
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 12:16 pm
i think im dependant on my boyfriend. and i think its driving a wedge between us.
last time we dated, i think i drove him away, even though he swears i didnt. he wouldnt call for a day or two and id freak out and start bawling all the time and get these nervous pains in my stomach and i couldnt eat or sleep.
i mean, last time i saw him or talked to him was 2 days ago, and im already a wreck. im afraid hes already losing interest in me and i CANT lose him again. maybe someone whose already been married for a few years will understand. because when i love someone, i love DEEP.
i cant call him or just show up at his house because i dont do that. its against my philosophy. i forced myself to think th...
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jealous,and scared
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 9:10 am
well I have a bf.he askd me out on xmas eve. I liked him sooo much. nd even before he askd me out and I still do.well he has A LOT of friends that are girls. and I get super jealous when he talks to them or something. I talked to him sorta about it over texting.and he says he understands the "I don't want to be hurt" but he said not to worry cause he isn't going to break up with me and for me not to be jealous.well my question is how can I get over my jealousy? cause it always leads to us arguing I don't want us to break up. please don't say "just don't think about it.just trust him" cuz we do trust eachother we went over that.and I trust him just not the other girls.and if you gona say "talk to him" I have a c...
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confident, not cocky?
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 12:31 am
so i'm 18 years old, female!
so around guys, i'm usually funny yet sarcastic. i think i'm pretty and i know other guys think i'm pretty because when i'm with them they always stare at me and touch me which gives me confidence but i think i get too cocky. i've never had an actual boyfriend, call me a tease? maybe. still a virgin, and when guys hear i've never had a boyfriend and am still a virgin, they're always like yeah right! get out of here, i think its funny though. i think that around guys i say stupid things that pushes them away. like this boy i like right now, i'm trying to keep his attention but i tend to try and make him jealous by saying like "oh so and so is texting me ;)" and he will be like, sweet? and...
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college... give up?
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 12:06 am
Alright. This will be long. Brace yourselves. I started seeing this guy over the summer and it started out as a fling. I am a senior in high school and he is a senior in college. He lives 10 minutes away from me, but he goes to college across the country. When we first started seeing each other, both of us thought it would be just a fun hook-up thing, and nothing more, especially because of our 4-year age difference. We both thought when summer was over, that would be that, and we'd never see each other again.
Turns out, we liked each other more then we expected. We texted and messaged daily for the past few months while he was away at college, and we told each other how we couldn't wait to see each other again. A couple of ...
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My boyfriend's Mom told him she doesn't want him seeing me anymore..
Posted Monday January 5 2009, 10:40 pm
Our mutual "friends" apparently told her bad things about me, like, how I am "controlling" and yell at any other girl he talks to and other things apparently. I am not okay with this. Is there a way I can approach her about this? Through a letter? In person?
I will see her Wednesday (today is Monday) at a wrestling match. Her son (my boyfriend) is one of the star wrestlers and I am the manager. What can I do? Please help me. We have been dating on and off for the last 4 years. 16/f
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Another guy problem... I know *sigh*
Posted Monday January 5 2009, 9:20 pm
18/F Anyways here's my problem. I've been dating my boyfriend for three months and things are really great. It's just that lately I've had these feelings I've never had for anyone before, and mind you I've dated a few guys. I almost have this fear that he's going to go back to college and find someone else way prettier and smarter. I'm still in high school, and he's 22. I sort of have a problem of letting people get close to me, but for some reason I let myself become vulnerable around him. I've just started putting my guard down for people. I'm constantly thinking about him, and when I think about him my heart starts pounding faster and faster. I just would like to find out if he's feeling the same way without just coming out and asking hi...
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this one guy
Posted Monday January 5 2009, 3:40 pm
15/f
Well i heard this guy thinks i am pretty and he wants to get to know me because one of my friends knows him and is very good friends with him. We will call her (Mayla). Anyways mayla told me all this a week ago because we were off school for winter break. At first, i didn't know who he was, but now i do because i saw him when we came back to school. We came back to school today and i realized that we are in 2 classes together. I want to make a good impression on him because i think he is sorta cute. He isn't the best, and is different from all the guys that i have dated before and usually not my type, but i think he is somewhat cute. Well today to school i wore a really cute black shirt and i painted my nails black to match (i s...
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Ex's
Posted Monday January 5 2009, 2:44 pm
My ex is acting really weird to me since i dumped him he wont even talk to me and didnt want to dump him i was presured in to doing it. I still love him but he wont even talk to me or say hello at least once he is taking it really hard and so am i i wont to be friends or more then friends but he wont talk to me so how can i.
wat can i do to get him back?
sighnd confused-mess
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in the middle
Posted Monday January 5 2009, 2:04 pm
okay my boyfriend broke up iwth me about a month ago. He broke up with me for someone else. I gave him an ultimatum because he still wanted me to stay but it was either me or her and he chose her so i left. I had been talkin to his friend while we were dating just as friends and my ex didnt seem to have a problem with it...just bothered me about what we talked about alot. well when we broke up thats when he started getting mad for me talking to him. i was like whats the big deal? His friend told me a few days after i broke up with mye ex that he had been messing around with other people when he was with me...and that he does that with everyone he dates. I was upset and pissed as you can imagine. His friend of course took the opportunity to...
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compromising
Posted Monday January 5 2009, 1:56 pm
My boyfriend & I have been dating for almost 6 months now. We are 2 very different people and i think thats what attracted us to each other. But it is also causing problems. He likes to be outside working on his truck or motorcycle & im just not into that stuff. I recently told him that i felt like we needed to spend more time with each other & he agreed. But how can I show him that i do care about him & what he likes to do?
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Pregnancy Sex
Posted Monday January 5 2009, 3:55 am
Typically I don't ask for advice but I just don't know what to do. My fiance doesn't want to have sex with me because he's too afraid of hurting our baby. It's very frustrating and I just don't know what I can do to change his mind.
Any advice will be helpful at this point. Thankyou in advance.
katexoanne
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How do i get guys attention?
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 9:17 pm
Okay so this guy doesn't have the same personality as most guys i've been with or liked..so i'm not really sure how to like get his attention. I don't really know him that well he's hung out with me and my friends like once but like i'm..interested in him? I don't have a crush on him or anything cause i really don't know him that well..i hope this makes sense lol. But how do i get his attention??
Or really how do you get any guys attention lol especially if you like see them in the hallway
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Mind games or maybe im just confused?
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 9:04 pm
hey
i work at mcdonalds (have been for ages..my coworkers are my best friends), and i like my manager.. i am 16 and a half and he just turned 20 which is okay, and hes not store manager or anything.. he always makes fun of me as a joke because im really clumsy and trip over alot, and he tells people i laugh alot and get embarrased easily. we were messaging each other last week and he asked me what qualities i liked in a guy and i told him, and then he replied saying "It sounds like youre trying to drop a hint..I can get fired for fraternising with crew" and i replied saying "Ha dont flatter yourself :)" and then he replied saying "I never do, but is it just coincidence that i loosely fit what you just describ...
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Want to go to home country without boyfriend
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 8:24 pm
will try and be as brief as possible.
OK so I have been with my BF now (we're gay) for 2 years nearly and we live together in Sydney, Australia. I emmigrated from London in 2002 and since then I have not been back to see friends or family. This year (in June) I am desperate to go back for 3-4 weeks as a reunion and also to meet my cousin who I have never met.
The problem is I want to do this trip on my own for these reasons:
1) I will be staying with family/friends and it wont be possible for us both to stay (not many old people are really happy about 2 guys sharing a bed etc)
2) I am short on funds, in that I can really only afford the flight, some spending money, but I certainly ...
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never been kissed...
Posted Sunday January 4 2009, 7:42 pm
well let's see i'm 14 years old and not to be conceited but i'm not ugly or fat, just really tall. i'm 59. mostly taller then EVERYONE, even most male adults. well anyways ive never been kissed once, or had one boyfriend. it sucks because my girl friends are like having sex and i've never even kissed a guy =[ ; i don't know what to do!? like honestly no guy has interest in me, well guys do if they see my myspace and flirt with me and blah but are unaware of my height and thats why i never end up hangingout with them becuase i will be taller and it'll be akward. well i don't really know what i need advice on. just i don't know, someone help? =[
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