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never been kissed...
well let's see i'm 14 years old and not to be conceited but i'm not ugly or fat, just really tall. i'm 59. mostly taller then EVERYONE, even most male adults. well anyways ive never been kissed once, or had one boyfriend. it sucks because my girl friends are like having sex and i've never even kissed a guy =[ ; i don't know what to do!? like honestly no guy has interest in me, well guys do if they see my myspace and flirt with me and blah but are unaware of my height and thats why i never end up hangingout with them becuase i will be taller and it'll be akward. well i don't really know what i need advice on. just i don't know, someone help? =[
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You are only 14. Clearly you have matured faster than other girls and boys in your school. I just graduated from high school last year and now I'm playing college basketball; and not to be conceded either, I was the stud of my school and I didn't kiss a girl until I turned 16. Remember that you are 14 and you have time to grow up, and if your friends pressure you into anything then they are not very good friends. Be yourself, being 5'9 you probably have a model like body and when the guys your age grow up they will want taller girls. I remember when I was 16 I felt like I would never kiss a girl and then I met someone special. P.S. don't have sex at such a young age... you don't want to get a bad reputation. Believe me, my friends and I in high school wouldn't date the slutty girls. The guys you deserve to be with, and should want to be with are the ones who aren't having sex.
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I didn't even get my first kiss until I was 15. It's not that big of a deal. You have your whole life ahead of you and that should be the last thing your worried about. And you really shouldn't meet guys off the internet anyway. And as for your friends, there really young to be having sex anyway. I'm eighteen now, and still am a virgin. You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. There's more people out there then you think who are in the same shoes as you. Honestly you sound like a beautiful person. Confidence does not sound like a problem for you. I'm sure if you really wanted to you could get a guy... not necessarily the type of guy you want. One that would use you and only care about one thing. Trust me, given time you will find the man of your dreams. Oh and guys usually do like tall girls. Hope I helped.
xoxo,
dottie4
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It's not your height that is holding you back. It's your confidence and belief in yourself that's the issue. Guys can get a weird vibe when they meet you and don't know how to proceed. There's tons that are interested but that puts them off.
Being 5 ft 9 doesn't have beans to do with anyone being romantically interested in you or not. They'll see you for you and or the vibe you give them and nothing else. So, drop this junk about your height and just be yourself. That's what reels them in.
Your friends are probably full of themselves or something else if you get my drift. Not all of them are having sex nor have they. They're just talking either way to sound cool. You aren't your friends and in a few years will have matured and had sex on your own terms. Those who blab a lot about this subject or experiences often haven't done a thing in that arena.
It's not a competition. You don't need to do it, be kissed, have a boyfriend by X age. A lot of people don't date or find someone until their 20s for a variety of reasons. Many just want someone mature who doesn't act like a teenager. Mind games being what they are.
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ok i know your young but if i was in your situation then i wouldnt go for the guys that are in my grade i would go for the guys in like HIGHSCHOOL your tall enough that no one would know your age unless you tell them so sure your friends are having sex with little childish boys but you can have MEN. so look at it like that its possible that you might not want that but just so you know that it is ok that you have never been kissed and your 14 doesnt mean it wont ever happen it means your special and not a whore so good for you!!! be proud for who you are tall and beautiful what ever your looks are be proud about them becuse people can tell weather or not your confident and theres nothing more attractive then a girl being confident!!! besides sex shouldnt be a factor for you right now have fun now worry about sexual stuff later your still a kid no need to grow up besides sex just brings bad rep and emotional damamges not to mention other damages who needs a streched out vage at 15 anyhow so your whory friends can have fun now but they will be hanging low later trust it!!! :]
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