Member Since: January 5, 2009
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Last Update: January 6, 2009
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I have this boyfriend and he is AMAZING. He can cheer me up instantly and he's just so...perfect! The thing is, he says the sweetest things ever but I can never think of anything to say back except "aw how sweet!". I feel like he deserves more than that, but when he says those things, it just kindof stuns my brain and I can't think straight... I think he thinks I don't like him as much as he likes me, but I really do! Please help? :) (link)
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Smile at him and look him in the eyes... and also try calling him a stud sometime... it might work
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I'm about to start my own channel on YouTube (I'm a 14f) with my best friend(also14) and I need some creative ideas. What do people enjoy watching? What are some tips on making a channel etc. Anything will be appreciated! Thanks! (link)
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Get a camera, hide in bushes, scare the crap out of random people. This would make me laugh.
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well let's see i'm 14 years old and not to be conceited but i'm not ugly or fat, just really tall. i'm 59. mostly taller then EVERYONE, even most male adults. well anyways ive never been kissed once, or had one boyfriend. it sucks because my girl friends are like having sex and i've never even kissed a guy =[ ; i don't know what to do!? like honestly no guy has interest in me, well guys do if they see my myspace and flirt with me and blah but are unaware of my height and thats why i never end up hangingout with them becuase i will be taller and it'll be akward. well i don't really know what i need advice on. just i don't know, someone help? =[ (link)
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You are only 14. Clearly you have matured faster than other girls and boys in your school. I just graduated from high school last year and now I'm playing college basketball; and not to be conceded either, I was the stud of my school and I didn't kiss a girl until I turned 16. Remember that you are 14 and you have time to grow up, and if your friends pressure you into anything then they are not very good friends. Be yourself, being 5'9 you probably have a model like body and when the guys your age grow up they will want taller girls. I remember when I was 16 I felt like I would never kiss a girl and then I met someone special. P.S. don't have sex at such a young age... you don't want to get a bad reputation. Believe me, my friends and I in high school wouldn't date the slutty girls. The guys you deserve to be with, and should want to be with are the ones who aren't having sex.
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Okay so this guy doesn't have the same personality as most guys i've been with or liked..so i'm not really sure how to like get his attention. I don't really know him that well he's hung out with me and my friends like once but like i'm..interested in him? I don't have a crush on him or anything cause i really don't know him that well..i hope this makes sense lol. But how do i get his attention??
Or really how do you get any guys attention lol especially if you like see them in the hallway (link)
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Alright, you need to start making eyes with him and smiling but not exactly talking to him all of the time. Then start saying hi to him or maybe step on the back of his shoes... some sort of physical flirting. Then every week ask him what he's doing on the weekend. Don't ask every day though because that just gets irritating. Just once a week, and do it randomly. If he likes you he will probably invite you, and maybe he will be going to a party that you were invited to and you know that you should go to that one for sure. Finally, when you finally hang out with him you should give him something to remind him of you... not like a picture but do something stupid like pick up a random rock or give him your hair scrunchy...
Sounds stupid? Probably but believe me it works... i've had multiple girls do it on me
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Alright, so I'm a 19 y/o F and I've bin going through something that i can't explain....physically, my stomach hurts so much all of the time, and I have bin bleeding constantly, like I will bleed for 2 weeks, stop for one then bleed for 2 weeks and so on....but it's only affecting me physically, I'v bin emotionally distant from everyone around....including my boyfriend....it's really weird because I love him soo much but yet sometimes I dont even want him to be around me....and that goes for everyone else in my life as well....I constantly get the feeling that something is really wrong.....does anyone know what could be causing this? I appreciate anyone's answers....thank you (link)
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Sounds like depression. If you are bleeding you should see a doctor and ask him about your depression. Until then go watch Yes Man. It will make you feel better. I took a psychology class and we learned that feel good movies can temporarily help depression for a while.
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do you guys prefer all the hair "down there" shaved off or just leave it alone? share your thoughts please.
thanks! :) (link)
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it's really just guys personal preference. I would say most guys wouldn't want you to just leave it alone. If you want to play it safe I'd shave it, and if you meet a guy and he doesn't like it he'd probably tell you.
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i had cybersex with a girl recently but i found no pleasure in it. It didn't arouse me and i didn't enjoy. word is out and now people think i'm bisexual. could this be true? im not attracted to girls in that way but im just asking could i be lying to myself? (link)
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To answer your question you could look at sexuality how Billy Joe Armstrong looks at it. If you don't know who Billy Joe Armstrong is, he is the lead singer of the rock band Green Day. He stated that everyone is born bisexual but our culture and the way we grow up sculpt us so greatly that most of us just think we are supposed to only like the opposite sex.
I assume you are a girl... but you can not ask other people if you are a bisexual. Whatever pleases you is how you live. If you are gay I would probably hide it until you go to college though because in high school or jr. high kids can be brutal
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Okay so me and my boyfriend have decided to start having sex. I'm only fifteen and me and him arent even allowed in my room so my mom deffinitly cant know. At the health dep. here if youre under eighteen they will give you free birth control. But my mom might know because i always start the day after her. Can I start taking birth control at a certain day so it will still be the same? (link)
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If you are only fifteen you should think about waiting to have sex. Not only should you think about the moral letdowns, but you should also think about your personal health.
Here are some things you should think about:
1. As odd as this sounds, wait till marriage. You will probably not marry this guy; I'm not saying it's not possible but most high school relationships don't last. After you have sex your relationship will feel weird. Don't be pressured to do it. It should be a special thing, and someday you will find someone you want to marry and you will have to tell him you whole past. Think about it. This is coming from a guy in college.
2. Birth control is 99% effective. That means if you have sex 100 times odds are you might get pregnant. 99% effective does not mean you can't have a baby the first time you have sex. If you choose to have sex make sure he wears a condom. At least then you will only have a 1 in 10000 chance. I don't think you want to have a baby in high school.
3. When you have sex at such a young age you greatly increase your chance of getting cervical cancer, which could leave you sterile.
... if you are not ready to take care of a baby, don't have sex
... i'll be 100% honest with you, all the girls that i know who had sex at such a young age have turned out to be nothings in life
... there are other things you can do instead of sex that are just as pleasurable
... morals= sit down and look at your life in a big picture and set down some life morals and stick to them. people will respect you for it.
it does sound like you mom is a little too controlling though... If you decide to sex, when you go to the health department ask them. They will know best
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