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am i bisexual
i had cybersex with a girl recently but i found no pleasure in it. It didn't arouse me and i didn't enjoy. word is out and now people think i'm bisexual. could this be true? im not attracted to girls in that way but im just asking could i be lying to myself?
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If you were not turned on by sexual interaction with another woman, you are probably not bi-sexual. Don't label normal curiosity, or yourself. If you are truly interested in exploring relationships with other woman maybe cyber isn't the way to go. Do you get turned on during cybersex with a male? Is cyber sex even sex? It sounds like some other people might have caught wind of this whole thing and started making comments that made you wonder. Don't start thinking your a bisexual because of what other people are saying about you. And from now on keep your sex life private. you don't want people to talk about your personal business, and you don't need to broadcast.
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Even if you were that's your own personal business and no one else has the right to judge you. However I doubt your actually bi. A lot of teenagers look at porn or experiment in some way. It's sort of the same ways that guys watch porn with a girl and a guy. It's not that big of a deal. Your just trying to find who you are in the world. Hope I helped.
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dottie4
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There's nothing wrong with being a bisexual it's almost a coming to be quite common.
But, your probably not if your not attacked to girls. It's okay to explore and see what you like and that sounds to me like thats what you did, every teenager questions there sexuality at one point or another, most likely they wouldn't admit it but there thinking it, and thats all you were doing. So if people keep saying that just reply "no" and sooner or later people will drop it im sure.
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To answer your question you could look at sexuality how Billy Joe Armstrong looks at it. If you don't know who Billy Joe Armstrong is, he is the lead singer of the rock band Green Day. He stated that everyone is born bisexual but our culture and the way we grow up sculpt us so greatly that most of us just think we are supposed to only like the opposite sex.
I assume you are a girl... but you can not ask other people if you are a bisexual. Whatever pleases you is how you live. If you are gay I would probably hide it until you go to college though because in high school or jr. high kids can be brutal
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You're just a teenager.
You don't have to decide anything right now. Just relax. Who cares what people say? No one knows you as well as you, and that's all that matters.
--Jack
(17/m)
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