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fingering help !
15/f
okay my problem is i masturbate but i masturbate with a little back massager thing that vibrates on my clitoris. and im really worried because things have been going quickly with this guy and not only him but ive been in many situations where a guy wanted to finger me but i said no because i was worried i wouldnt be able to orgasm for it. basically im just worried, idk if i would orgasm from just fingering inside.
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I'd like to begin by correcting whoever said that most girls don't orgasm as that isn't entirely true. Many females do find it difficult to orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone (and by this I mean just going inside). However, it is likely that you will be able to achieve a clitoral orgasm, especially when you masturbate. You should only ever do something you feel comfortable with and it's absolutely fine to tell him if what does and doesn't feel good. The most important thing to remember is to relax and only do what you feel comfortable with.
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you might not and thats totally fine but if you think to hard about it when hes doing it your really not going to get an orgasm so perhaps try for yourself first or if you cant then fake it.
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Like the person below me said, not every girl orgasms and some have orgasms from just sex, some have it from fingering some have it from both.. so it's nothing to worry about i don't have an orgasms much usually only if i masturbate myself will i have one for some reason lol, so don't feel bad and the guy probably isn't even expecting you to have one, he just probably wants you to like it and have it feel good.
goodluck
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Most girls don't have an orgasm, and rarely do they have them.
So you probably won't. So there should be nothing to worry about.
I don't see why it would matter much anyway? It's not like the guy would care?
--Jack
(17/m)
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