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in the middle
okay my boyfriend broke up iwth me about a month ago. He broke up with me for someone else. I gave him an ultimatum because he still wanted me to stay but it was either me or her and he chose her so i left. I had been talkin to his friend while we were dating just as friends and my ex didnt seem to have a problem with it...just bothered me about what we talked about alot. well when we broke up thats when he started getting mad for me talking to him. i was like whats the big deal? His friend told me a few days after i broke up with mye ex that he had been messing around with other people when he was with me...and that he does that with everyone he dates. I was upset and pissed as you can imagine. His friend of course took the opportunity to hit on me...kind of bad timing but not so horrible. when my ex found out he was hitting on me he flipped out on his friend and told him not to talk to me and told me not to talk to him. WE still did of course because the whole thing is rediculous...why would it matter he broke up with me and cheated on me? My ex is very mellowdramatic and overexagurates a lot. he fliiped out in his friend and said alot of things about me and about him that shouldnt have been said. His friend got pissed and now he is gonna beat his ass. I dont want any of this but i seem to be stuck in the middle of thier war now and i want to know how to help fix it seeing its mainly about me, without having to ignore both of them.
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Your boyfriend is pissed off because he is losing control of you. Up until this point you have been willing to let him do pretty much whatever he wants and all of a sudden, he can't tell you what to do anymore. His friend isn't any prize, either. Why would you want a guy who lied to you? If he was so great, he would have told you what was going on behind your back while he was smiling in your face. Not only that, but he wasn't very loyal to his friend, either. Why don't you be the sexy chick they fought over, who walked away with another guy on her arm?
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Your last thought is your best one: Ignore them both.
I know the attention is nice, but really, this isn't about you. This is about both of them being immature dinks. They were obviously going to fight over a girl sooner or later, you just showed up at the right time to fuel their little battle.
Both of these guys are bad friends, and bad boyfriends. They are violent, demanding and self-centered. Both of them will bring drama and pain into your lives.
Get rid of them both.
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