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being pressured into giving a handjob..
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 2:54 pm
so theres this guy that i met at my friends house about a month ago, he is friends with my friends brother. hes one year younger than me but whatever. we met about a month ago at her house, it was fun we all just watched movies in the basement and slept over. I found out he liked me a week later, i liked him too. we talked online and then a month later which was last weekend i saw him at her house again, before i went though he told me he wanted to do stuff with me. we didnt end up doing anything because we were never alone. he likes this girl who lives an hour away who is a junior..its kind of weird.. but anyways,
on wednesday i got an IM from him and we were just kidding around about how it was funny that he took my phone and i kep...
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Abusive relationship
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 12:20 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We were best friends all during high school, and thouht maybe we should give it a shot & got together. well the begining of the relationship was amazing. he made me feel like i was the only girl in the world who could ever feel like this, until one day he got so mad he hit me. not in the face or where it would show. It was on my thiegh. I tried to look past it, but he just kept hitting me. It started out only when he got mad & we were arguing, but then it started to be an everyday thing. if i was "driving wrong" he would hit me, or i "said something stupid" he would hit me. then he stopped cause my family found out. but, he started again a few months later...
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boyfriend fighting
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 11:52 am
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a couple of months and it is our second time going out now i love him and he loves me but we fight everyday and it happens a lot that he says or i say idk if we should go out anymore because we fight everyday but we always end up going out and when we are together we have a great time and i dont want to break up with him but we got into a fight yesterday and i said some things i didnt mean but he said he will never forget what i said because it hurt him so much and now i do not know what to do because he said that he doesnt know if we should go out and that he will tell me tomorrow what he thinks and that he is leaning towards still going out but that what i said really hurt him but i still really...
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Is it wrong to want someone close by but not want to date?
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 4:34 am
Is it wrong to want someone to sleep next to you, cuddle with you, laugh, hug, kiss, and play with you, when you don't want to date anyone?
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ex's best friend.
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 1:28 am
back in december, me and my boyfriend ray broke up. it was totally my fault. i got really really fucked up. i ended up cheating on him with one of his old friends. i felt so bad i had to tell him. he says that we can still be friends cause we were best friends before we started dating. but then he tells everyone else he hates me and shit. im ok with that, i understand how he feels. i would be the same way. he talks so much shit about me. but i understand. i was going to break up with him anyway but i wasnt in the right. well ray has this friend nick, whose been one of my boys for a while. well me and nick have been hanging out for a little bit and i am really starting to get feelings for him. and he's the same way. but idk what to do becau...
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keep going back for more
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 12:56 am
hi im 15/f and im a freshman at my school. last year i dated this guy kyle and hes now 14/m and is in 8th grade.. but we dated and fought then made up for about 4 months then we started seeing other people. i hooked up and did some things with this one guy trying to get over kyle. but it just made me miss him more so i decided to try again with him and he asked if i didnt anything with anyone els i told him what i had did and he holds it againts me all the time. but we broke up again and didnt talk at all untill a month ago. and thats when i fell head over heels for him once again.now were dateing and spending every weeknd together we havent done much witch is awsome. but we havent bc hes still mad that i did things with another guy. weve b...
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I don't what to think of this guy and me?
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 10:24 pm
ok i am a girl. i am 19 in college. So there is this guy. I met him in school and he's been really cool. He's really everything i would want, like completely, but i know he's been on and off with this girl and supposedly she's now in a relationship with this other girl. I want to say 'ya know i like you' and all but if there is something going on with this other girl i don't want to become a part of it, or make things weird for next semester. But like he's does all the things the guy i would want does and he gives me the impression he likes me back. he listens and actually remembers what i say lol and gives advice and says he thinks my friends and family sound funny and he'd have fun with them. theres lots of hugging and goofing off, but no...
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I have a crush but he has a girlfriend. HELP!!!!!!
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 10:17 pm
hey. well I have this crush on this kid and we have been talking and stuff. he's is totally nice and so my type. but he sort of has a girlfriend but they have only been dating for a week. I would never think of cheating but I really don't know if he even likes me or not. he's told me like twice that he thinks I'm cute. and he also said if he didn't have a girlfriend then he would ask me to hangout. and I asked him the other day if he was snowboarder because I snowboard and he said he doesn't but then he said maybe you can teach me sometime. and I was so excited and the more we talk the more I like him and the more he seems like a real guy. I just don't know if he likes me or not and I just don't know what he wants out of this. so if you co...
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Does he or Not??
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 8:42 pm
So i like this boy and i liked him for 4 years already and well he knows i like him. And sometimes he say hi to me when we in the hall way at school or someplace else. And sometimes he do flirts. But then that all kind of stop and i just wanna know if he feels the same way for me. And like its kind of hard talking to him and like my friends they talk to him and he talk to them back. And when we be at lunch sometimes he would come over like at first talk to someone else but then soon come to our table to talk to one of my friends or something. I dont know its like one day he flirting with me then the next day he dont. And that been going on for awhile. ANd my friends be telling me i should just talk to him and stuff but its just soo hard. An...
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Getting to know him outside of school.
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 7:41 pm
17/f
I've just graduated from high school. There was this guy in one of my classes at school who i thought was pretty cute but he was a bit shy. We dont really know each other very well and have only talked a few times but i can tell he likes me. He talks to me online sometimes aswell. When we talk online its on myspace usually comments so everyone will read them. None of my friends know any of his friends or anything so it is really hard now that im not going to school. How can I get to know him better outside of school keeping in mind that we hardly even know each other so it would be really weird for me to ask him if he wants to hang out. :S
Please help.
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thank you in advance
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 7:41 pm
sorry, this will most likely be long, but i'd seriously appreciate it if you took some time out to help me ... 16/f
1. I love/loved my ex boyfriend. i think he was my first love, we had been best friends for 5 years until we finally became a couple, for a short period of time. 1/2 my fault. 1/2 his. he broke up with me over text, on aim, and facebook message ... yeah. kinda assholey. my parents were kinda friends with his parents .. which was a little awkward. he was my first kiss, altho ive never hooked up with anyone. it's been almost 4 months since we broke up, he told 2 of my friends that we are just friends and that it's how its gonna be.. or something along those lines, but the "just friends" part was very cle...
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HELP!!!! ONE GUY TWO GIRLS!
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 7:36 pm
ok well i dont know what to do. i have a crush on this guy and we've been talking and then he told me he had a girlfriend. but im not giving up, and the more we talk the more i like him.
but the thing is since he has a girlfriend we cant really hang out because im not that kind of girl to do that to someone. but then yesterday he was like i talk to a lot of girls and i was like ok. and he was leading me on because he told he thought i was cute (he said your pretty damn cute) and that if he didnt have a girlfriend he would ask me to hang. and again he was hinting that he would ask to hang out if he was single. that was his answer to my question, do you like me alittle? because i told him i had alittle crush on him. and then we...
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it is more than a crush
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 4:48 pm
Ok well,I like a guy that is 9 years older than me. He is 25 and i am 16, but i feel very strongly for him. I dont want to say love quite yet, but i am definitely bordering that subject. But it gets really more complicated, he is my teacher. One of my best friends thinks i should tell him, and says that she sees the way he looks at me and it is very lovingly. But my other best friend said he was a pedaphile and she strongly disapproves of the situation and i have no chance at all.
Once my friend called him a pediphile i immeadiately got defensive. He IS NOT a pedie and she needs to stop saying that. I think i do have a chance, but nothing would happen until after graduation. I dont want him to get in trouble. My other friend asked hi...
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why?
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 4:11 pm
theres this guy that i like, and he told me he doesnt like me..i accepted it. but he keeps telling people who dont even know me that i like him..why is he doing this?
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What should I think about this situation?
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 2:52 pm
My ex boyfriend is trying to get back with me. However he doesnt know I have another bf already nobody really knows about him except for my really close friends because I didnt want any gossip, drama, and my mom doesnt like him that much (she doesnt really like anybody that much). However, I found out that he asked one of my really good friends to be his girlfriend as well. I talked to him about it and he admitted it. He said that me and her are both beautiful and that he likes her a lot but he really loves me and that he didnt want to be alone and anyways he knew that she was going to say no. This sounds kind off like player to me but he denies it...I feel kind off like....okay so im your back up plan? no it doesnt work that way... he got...
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guy liking my guy
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 9:27 am
okay, well. ive been talking to the guy for a few weeks now and we really like eachother. well one day when i was at school and he wasnt, i got a text from him saying "are you telling people were dating" i was like "no why would i say that" and then he was like "everyone keeps asking, i guess thats the current rumor" and i was like "well i didnt say anything" well he bleieves me. i found out who told people..and it is one of my friends. so i asked her about it and she said one of her GUY friends was saying he and my guy liked eachother and were about to date and he kept obsessing over my guy. so to get him to shut up she was like you do know him and (me) are going to date right. so then he told everyo...
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In Love??
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 1:13 am
well i dont know what to say there this boy that i like so much its driving me insane. And like i beleive in true love and sometimes i wonder if i really truley love him like in love with him. And I'm only 16 and i know i might be young but still it really feels like love. I think about him 24/7, i talk about him all the time, i daydream about him alot and i dont even focus on school that much like i use to. And this going to sound crazy but i sometimes cry over him and i dont know why. I've been liking him for 4 years already and i havent really told him how i feel.And when i dont see him for like 2 days i just start missing him its just crazy. There wasnt one day where i dont think about him. He knows i like him but thats about it.
so is it really love for me or just a big crush.
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crush
Posted Friday January 9 2009, 11:47 pm
17/f
well i've been dating this boy named josh for a year and 3 months, and i absolutely love him to death..but recently this boy named paul started texting me and i have a crush on him, its like more than a crush. what should i do? i can't get paul off my mind.
i told josh, that paul has been texting me & he got all mad and asked me not to text him anymore, so i said i wouldn't. but i can't stop texting him, its rediculous.
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I like this kid in my school(I'm in 8th grade by the way)
Posted Friday January 9 2009, 10:54 pm
I like this kid in my school (I'm in 8th grade by the way so that may help) and im not so sure he cares much. He knows I like him and ive given him a few small presents for the sake of giving a present and he really liked I. So I don't know if he liked it because I gave it to him or because he said it looked cool.
Also I'm kinda hyper in school and really tomboyish and I like most guy things(e.g. Videogames shooting movies and hate the color pink) he knows I'm like that. But my real problem is he likes another person but just found out she doesn't like him. How do I ask him out without sounding desperate?
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I'm a loser
Posted Friday January 9 2009, 10:17 pm
He used to like me alot and I kinda did too until he got annoying to me ((asking questions like if he can come to my house which i told him he cant n he keeps bothering me about it)) but when I told him I liked him, few days later he had a girlfriend. I cant believe I lost him just like that because I didnt give him a chance, please help me get him back to me.
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