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it is more than a crush
Ok well,I like a guy that is 9 years older than me. He is 25 and i am 16, but i feel very strongly for him. I dont want to say love quite yet, but i am definitely bordering that subject. But it gets really more complicated, he is my teacher. One of my best friends thinks i should tell him, and says that she sees the way he looks at me and it is very lovingly. But my other best friend said he was a pedaphile and she strongly disapproves of the situation and i have no chance at all.
Once my friend called him a pediphile i immeadiately got defensive. He IS NOT a pedie and she needs to stop saying that. I think i do have a chance, but nothing would happen until after graduation. I dont want him to get in trouble. My other friend asked him if he knew who liked him and she said he immeadiatly looked at me. She thinks i should tell him asap.
I think i could have a chance, he is not a pediphile, i dont want to hurt his career, i dont want to tell him at this moment (but in a way i kinda do), and i think i may be unconditionally and irrevocably in love with him... I am so confused.
PS please do not say it is just a crush as i know it is more
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honestly, if he's your teacher, it probably wouldnt work out to great, atleast not until after graduation. My suggestion, is that you keep your feelings for him on the DL, you shouldnt ask your friends, incase they say something, which could lead to him getting accused of being a pediphile and such. School isn't the place for realationships, but if you still feel as strongly as you do now after graduation, i say go for it
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