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Ok well,I like a guy that is 9 years older than me. He is 25 and i am 16, but i feel very strongly for him. I dont want to say love quite yet, but i am definitely bordering that subject. But it gets really more complicated, he is my teacher. One of my best friends thinks i should tell him, and says that she sees the way he looks at me and it is very lovingly. But my other best friend said he was a pedaphile and she strongly disapproves of the situation and i have no chance at all.
Once my friend called him a pediphile i immeadiately got defensive. He IS NOT a pedie and she needs to stop saying that. I think i do have a chance, but nothing would happen until after graduation. I dont want him to get in trouble. My other friend asked him if he knew who liked him and she said he immeadiatly looked at me. She thinks i should tell him asap.
I think i could have a chance, he is not a pediphile, i dont want to hurt his career, i dont want to tell him at this moment (but in a way i kinda do), and i think i may be unconditionally and irrevocably in love with him... I am so confused.

PS please do not say it is just a crush as i know it is more

honestly, if he's your teacher, it probably wouldnt work out to great, atleast not until after graduation. My suggestion, is that you keep your feelings for him on the DL, you shouldnt ask your friends, incase they say something, which could lead to him getting accused of being a pediphile and such. School isn't the place for realationships, but if you still feel as strongly as you do now after graduation, i say go for it

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I always always get bored while cleaning what can i do to not get so bored???

Loud techno music, my boyfriends mom does it all the time and really seems to enjoy it.

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What is a real friend?
How do you know you if you're friend is real or not?

It takes a while to find a true friend. Someone who literally is there for you all the time, and even when you get into the largest fights, your able to over come your differences and pick back up where you left off. Its hard to find, and it takes time, but when you find a real friend, you'll know.

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i need a quote about someone who was very close toyou dying. most likely about my sister who died very young and i love her so much and i need a quote. thank you.

“If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them. Buildings burn, people die, but real love is forever.”

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I heard this song on the radio but don't know who it's by or the name:

Shory is a killer
and i wanna have him
and i gotta have him
tonight!

The song is Killa - by Cherish.
gooddd songgg :)

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Male 26

Lately, it feels like my girlfriend is constantly saying hurtful and/or disrespectful things to/about me. And I can't tell if she's oblivious or not about how it affects me.

How do I make it clear that I still love her, but that what she says affects me a lot.

Say exactly what you just said, but ask if shes aware of the things shes saying. Than you can discuss it, and explain that you still love her. Maybe shes having a hard time with something and is taking it out on you without realising. You'll never no till you sit her down and talk it out.

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I know, lame, right? I'm not a total myspace freak or anything, you know, the type who's always on and has to have a million comments on the same kissy-face picture everyone has? But I do want a nice picture or two for my myspace, since I've already got plenty of me with my family and stuff. Basically, a, well, "MySpace Picture". Nothing exaggerated, nothing slutty, definitely nothing desperate, but something nice. Any suggestions for simple poses, settings, effects, stuff like that? f/16

Mirror Pictures are always cute, just make sure the room your in is acessable with what your wearing and all that jazzz. And donttt stress about it, its just myspace right? aha.

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I want to get a new laptop for school and I saw an add in the circular for a laptop that was $400.000 but I need to find a way to come up with some extra cash so I can get the laptop but I don't know how to get that kind of money any ideas?

Babysittinggg always brings in a little extra cash.

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Is it ok to be a virgin at an age of 17?

Of course its okay! Plus, some guys are more attractred to virgins than non virgins.

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hey i did a round off urm about the 2nd week into november.. i had stretch but after i did it i dont think id stretched enough.
Im a cheerleader so thats what i do stretch tumble etc etc.
But when i did this round off i landed so weird and my thigh felt wierd and oh my this is so amberasing but something in my butt kinda twinged (the same legg tht went weird), i was in a loada pain and cudnt move my right leg much. ive rested it i havent done any heel stretches and ive gone very easy on my splits.

the leg is totally fine now... its jus my bum! i keep gettin like a tightness and sumthyn not lettin me want to strech my leg..

this decmeber cheer was canceld so i havent been training but ive been stretching a little.

i dont have tha pin not but when i stretch the top of my right leg/mmy bum jus feels reli restricted and tight.

all this from doing a round off.... does anyone have an idea of what i did =S

(sorry for the long story)
Thanks!
Vikki x

You probablly sprained your ischium. I cheerlead, and i've actually torn both of mine. The ischium is the muscle that connects your hamstring to your pelvic bone, or the butt region, or inner area of your thigh. There are three types of sprains, moderate, where you feel no pain and the injury doesnt affect you, intermediate, where you feel pain but it will lessen in about 2 weeks, or you have a severe sprain (torn ligiment), this would make it hard to walk and will cause you trumendus pain. A crack or popping noise is heard when dealing with this sprain. You need to ice and use heat on and off for about 4-6 weeks, and during the first 72 hours, walk on crutches. If its been longer than three days since the injury, than simply ice/heat on and off, avoid using stairs, keep your leg elivated, and dont participate in physical activity because your leg wont get any better. Hope i helped.

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okay, i seriously have the worst blackheads ever!
i try like 5 different products a day, and nothing works!

HELP! what can i do to get rid of them?

Go to a dermotologist and ask them for a suggestion, they would know the best way to help you maintain healthy skin, and get rid of your blackheads.

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