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guy liking my guy
okay, well. ive been talking to the guy for a few weeks now and we really like eachother. well one day when i was at school and he wasnt, i got a text from him saying "are you telling people were dating" i was like "no why would i say that" and then he was like "everyone keeps asking, i guess thats the current rumor" and i was like "well i didnt say anything" well he bleieves me. i found out who told people..and it is one of my friends. so i asked her about it and she said one of her GUY friends was saying he and my guy liked eachother and were about to date and he kept obsessing over my guy. so to get him to shut up she was like you do know him and (me) are going to date right. so then he told everyone. then i told my guy that the guy was telling everyone that they liked eachother..and..well okay im a girl. and the boy im talking to is straight..DOESNT LIKE GUYS AT ALL. and everyone knows that. but this kid thinks its okay to tell everyone..well my guy got really mad. and a some people keep saying he actually asked the other guy for head and shit and i dont know what to do at all.
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The guy who likes your guy is a dirty liar, drama queen who doesn't care how he effects anyone else. If you happen to hear that rumor, defend your guy, because what is happening to him is not fair. Your guy is straight, so you don't even have to think about what could be going on with the rumor starter. He has the, "If I can't have him, nobody will have him," kind of mentality. Don't let go of someone you like, because then the jerk will have gotten exactly what he wants.
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Well... There isn't much that you can do really. The most you can do is try to get it cleared up. Tell people the truth and try to defend 'your guy'. I mean this is a touchy situation. Actucally the same thing is going on with these guys I know. But just don't argue or scream, that will make you sound defensive. Just try to have a conversation and if no one else believes you, that's their fault.
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