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I'm tired of being alone
Posted Wednesday February 25 2009, 3:50 pm
I'm a junior in high school and I've never had a real boyfriend and all of my friends have had at least one siginificant other. I have no idea what the problem is. Guys really seem to like me... I mean, have a ton of guy friends and everyone is always really nice to me. I put myself out there (I DO flirt) and probably have never said a bad word about any of the guys in my school. Everytime I ask a guy out, they say: "You're too good of a friend. If we went out it would change everything and make it all weird." I have no idea what to do to stop this. All you advice givers, I'd really just like some advice on how to score a guy... It didn't bother me before, but now I'm just REALLY tired of being alone.
I'm a girl if you haven't figured that out yet.
Thanks!
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cant stop thinking about him
Posted Wednesday February 25 2009, 1:05 pm
last week i went on a school trip, skiing, and there i met this guy; nothing happened. but now, i can't stop thinking about him!!! and theres no way of contacting him or anything. but i can't get him out of my mind!!! do have anything you think i could try to get him out of my head?
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I dont Know...
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 10:11 pm
Me nd this kid went out nd me nd him really liked each otha..but then i broke up w/him bcuz he decided 2 believe his ex over me bout a certain situation and den we became friends again nd everything is perfect nd we still like each other except we wanna b 2getha but we live 2 far away from each otha nd he lives in NJ nd we c each toha on some weekendsthen like sometimes I feel like just stop being his friend..But question is should we jus stay friends and start forgetting about him or should i stop being his friend temporarily??
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Mind Blowing Kiss :•{}
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 9:13 pm
Let me just start off by saying I have kissed guys before, plenty of times. And I've heard I'm pretty good at it but lately it seems my boyfriend and myself haven't really been too into our kissing. I mean we kiss a lot still but its just a quick peck. When we first went together, when we kissed it was beautiful :) you know passionate so I was thinking I want to give my boyfriend this mind blowing kiss, that will make him think "We need to do this more often." lol so I need some new tips...please and thank you in advance.
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How to Kiss?
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 9:13 pm
I have upper lip hair its not noticeable but like if someone kisses me will they feel it?
btw I'm a girl so im sure you can imagine how awkward I would feel kissing someone....
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Im not sure what he's tring to say..
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 8:34 pm
Ohkay so Ive been talking to my guy friend sylis on myspace and When I say things like 'whats up?' He replies with stuff like 'nm tired of being single' or 'being on the market isnt as fun as I thought it would be' or 'Just trying to look for someone special'. Is he trying to say something?
P.S.
I really hope he is.
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what to talk about
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 7:52 pm
Okay so im 17/f and my boyfriend is 18, we got into like a big fight almost two weeks ago and things have been kind of strained since then. We've been going out for almost 6 months and I really like him, only when he fels like it does he talk now and thats only been once or twice. I don't know what to do or what to talk about, i know that he likes bmx racing and video games but there's only so much i can say about that stuff until he gets annoyed. What should we talk about?
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what is with this so called break
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 7:46 pm
me and my bf just went on a break. he said he just needed some time away from the whole relationship love thing. i didnt really understand but i said ok. not like i could really make him change his mind. at 1st he said he still wanted to talk. just not hang out. so i was like ok then. then wen i told him how upset i was about the break he sed he couldnt deal with all the compliments and i love yous and i care u dont? so i guess maybe i was being too clingy? i dont know becuase he said all that stuff to me too and he seemed fine with it all until one day out of the blue he said he needed a break. but now we are not even talking at all because we were texting and he said well ill talk to you later. so i said ok? and he said yep bye. so i do...
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keeping him occupied
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 6:17 pm
17/f
my boyfriend has been having some health problems this week with his heart and he's been in an out of the hospital and can't go back to school for a while but in the meantime he's stuck at home and has run out of things to do. He's tired and can't do any real physical activity so all he's been doing is sleeping, eating and watching tv and hes bored. I've been to his house everyday just to keep him company and watch movies with him.
I want to come up with some things for him to do.
Any activities that don't require a lot of movement or energy??
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He wont stop asking me out!?!?!?!? help!!!
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 5:16 pm
My best friend is a guy, and we are incredibly close. I love him SOOO much...in a friend way, like a brother. But...he likes me more; like a 'love'. Like a girlfriend. And he WONT STOP TRYING TO GET ME TO GO OUT WITH HIM! He knows i only like him as a friend, but every single day he continues begging me to "give him a chance". I have explained to him MANY times that the only feelings I have for him are FRIEND ones. But he just wont stop, and now I feel bad. I have tried EVERYTHING. What more can i do? I mean, this guy is my bestfriend, he means the world to me, and i love him unconditionally. but like a friend. So what can i do to finally get it through to him that i wont date him cuz i only like him as a friend?
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How do I control my sexual urge?(15/f)
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 5:00 pm
There's a guy I have loved for months.We've known each other for a very long time and we're going to get together soon.I have a problem-recently I started having this urge to have sex with him and it drives me nuts.It happens all the time.Whenever I think about him,talk to him,or basically anything that reminds me of him makes me feel that way.I don't want to scare him by being too straight-forward and I do not want to have sex yet,I'm only 15,and I think I'm too young for sex,but this urge is something I can't control at all,and I'm afraid I'll try to seduce him and end up doing it with him.What should I do to stop myself from losing my virginity to him?I love him,he loves me,so there are no emotional problems,I'm just afraid it might resu...
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adam and i:()
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 3:54 pm
were both 15. hes just geting out of a bad relationship of about 8-9 months. im getting out of a bad bad bad realtionship also. but heres my(our)story
please tell me your imput:)
me and adam have been flirting for about 2 weeks now. and we talk about sexual things some times and he knows ill give him head and stuff. i asked him if that the only reason he "LIKES" me he said no i like you bc your smart hapy and have the cutest smile i have ever seen. okay so today he promised me the bigest hug ever beacuse we didnt get to hang out this weeknd. well i didnt get my hug instead i got a look like hey your cute. do i get home and text him saying oh man i didnt get my hug that means i get two tomro right? well he nev...
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Should I break up with my boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 2:16 pm
My boyfriend and I haven't been together long but we were very close friends before we became a couple. We met just after I split up with my ex, who I was very upset about and took a long time to get over. I liked my current boyfriend for a long time although I still wasn't over my ex. When we finally got together, I was really happy and I can safely say that I no longer have any feelings towards my ex.
My current boyfriend and I both have alot of problems at home and always look to each other for support. However, recently I find that all I want is some stability, not a boyfriend who has just as many issues as me. We always have some form of problem with each other and I'm constantly finding faults in him. I worry that I'm o...
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payback
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 11:56 am
so this is a little confusing,...so its gonna be kinda lengthy. bear with me. O.o
soooooo i guess it all started when my boyfriend M said he had a crush on my closest friend when he and i werent going out...the friends name is A. this kind of upset me a bit cuz shes so much prettier and smarter and a lot nicer than me. so it seemed pretty typical to me, but still upset me. and one night a few days before valentines day, we all smoked weed together and such. it was fun, but he looked like he was kind of flirting with her..to me anyways. maybe it was the weed, im not sure. but thats what it seemed like..
so yesterday, my ex, P sold me some weed at M's house, (and P just happens to of been good friends with M sinc...
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need help
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 9:52 am
when a guy tells me that he isnt glad he is diabetic because im so0 sweet hat does that mean.. does it mean he rlly likes me.. i mean i really think he likes me.. plz answer and i will rate U.. thanks<333
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I have feelings for two girls what do I do?
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 2:15 am
I'm 22/M, average looking, and only had 1 real relationship in my life
I live in Centerville now but graduate college in 4 months, and move to Akron
Names and Towns have been changed.
Cora lives in Town B where I move to. She's kind of a player, but she likes me (has kissed me when I visited last time, I know she likes me) and talks to me online quite a bit. Kind of a drama queen and pretty wild. But I'm really attracted to her and her personality.
Kris lives in current town A. She's the exact opposite, really shy, kind of a different lifestyle than me, but just super sweet and nice (very similar to my personality). Much easier for me to talk to in person than Cora.
Basically I l...
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The next level...
Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 1:38 am
Okay there's this guy that I've been talking to since August of 2008.... I'm blk and 21 yrs old, he's whte and 31 (if it helps any). He has a son by a woman who cheated on him with his best friend which he was engaged to at the time (so if he dosen't really tust women I understand).
Anyhow I have to admit we're pretty close now... we've gotten closer I would say since New Year's... we've been on a few dates, and what not and overall you can tell there's a vibe between us and it seems as if we've known eachother for years. I'm proud to say we've taken things really slow until recently...
Well just this past saturday we both went to a party together where we FINALLY shared our first kiss and then we went and got ...
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why is x so rude?
Posted Monday February 23 2009, 11:11 pm
i'm 16. my ex and i went out for 10 month. separated for four and then got back together for two weeks. I foudn out that he had turned into someone totally different/player. So anyway, he texts me again now two weeks after we break up. He was an ass to me. He was being so rude, i don't get it, it gets on my nerves. He said the most hurtful things, for example: I don't care that we aren't together anymore. He was my first real love, so ofcourse its gonna take a while for me to get over him. But wat the hel is his problem. Why does he have to be so freakin rude? what do you guys think?
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I need someone elses perspective please !
Posted Monday February 23 2009, 10:11 pm
im a female, senior at highschool, im on the hockey team.. i'm the captain, well- i have a crush on one of my teammates brothers, who is also a senior at the same highschool as me, and he is also the captain... well it used to be the typical crush that you have but can't tell him. but lately we been talking everytime we see eachother..
it's mostly like "hey drake, you're garbage at hockey! paha" then all we do is just make a playful argument on who is better.. we don't really get a chance to have that much contact, physicaLly cuz we just started to talk. last weekend, he came over with a bunch of our other friends.. and we hung out the whole night..
we ended up going to applebees with everyone, i drove, and EVERYTI...
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handjob help?
Posted Monday February 23 2009, 9:32 pm
hey there, so i understand if you cant directly answer this question for content, but i have a question about giving my boyfriend a handjob. i've never done it before, and i wanted to know some things like if you reach under their pants and their boxers or what? or like do they get hard on your own or if you have to do it? im really confused haha and id really appreciate it if someone can help me out or give me a website. thank you!! :)
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