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The next level...
Okay there's this guy that I've been talking to since August of 2008.... I'm blk and 21 yrs old, he's whte and 31 (if it helps any). He has a son by a woman who cheated on him with his best friend which he was engaged to at the time (so if he dosen't really tust women I understand).
Anyhow I have to admit we're pretty close now... we've gotten closer I would say since New Year's... we've been on a few dates, and what not and overall you can tell there's a vibe between us and it seems as if we've known eachother for years. I'm proud to say we've taken things really slow until recently...
Well just this past saturday we both went to a party together where we FINALLY shared our first kiss and then we went and got a hotel together and had a "night cap" (yes with the happy ending)... I can honestly say I love him... and I know he cares alot about me... and nothing is awkard between us even though it happened...
So I was wondering what could be done to get us to that next level... I'm ready if he ready, but we still both two shy and stubborn people... any ideas?
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Hello well you guys have been talking for quite sometime and seem to care for eachother alot. Remember communication in any relationship is important and I know its so hard for a girl to wait for the guy to make the decision to go to the next level,it gets kind of frustrating but you know with his past and everything it will be alittle difficult to take this next step with you because he has been hurt in the past and ofcourse doesnt want it to happen again. It is always good to take things slow and as of now you can continue to show that you will be there for him and,that you are truthful,and that you care for him through words and action. If you are really ready for this next level with him then you should go for it,wait for the right moment though, a special moment and just open up to him and tell him how you feel,guys find comfort in a girl that is willing to be open and honest with them. As you may know guys are not one for commitment but its worth a shot,if he is not ready you can always wait it out and see where things take you,everything happens for a reason and if it is meant to be then you two will go to that next level. i see you say that you are shy but I am sure you are pretty comfortable with him so you will find the right way to bring it up,he wont judge you especially if he cares for you as it seems he does,dont worry!I hope this helped and if you have any further questions I would be more than hapy to help you,you can send a private message if you would like me to be more detailed,the best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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If you love him and he feels the same way then make that move , plan an romantic dinner you want that night to be special so it will be special and romantic, so as i said make that romantic dinner for two and place an rose on the table and rose petals on the floor and bed/ bath water and some nice slow music and learn how to do the belly dance it will make all nature rise in him and once dinner is finish then have an slow dance together and then take him to the room an give him an performance of an belly dance an watch how happy he will be now you might not beable to finish the whole dance (i know i was not) , then have fun and head for the tub for the next round.
i hole this help.
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