were both 15. hes just geting out of a bad relationship of about 8-9 months. im getting out of a bad bad bad realtionship also. but heres my(our)story
please tell me your imput:)
me and adam have been flirting for about 2 weeks now. and we talk about sexual things some times and he knows ill give him head and stuff. i asked him if that the only reason he "LIKES" me he said no i like you bc your smart hapy and have the cutest smile i have ever seen. okay so today he promised me the bigest hug ever beacuse we didnt get to hang out this weeknd. well i didnt get my hug instead i got a look like hey your cute. do i get home and text him saying oh man i didnt get my hug that means i get two tomro right? well he never texted back and that was like 3 hours agoo! so i got on myspace to see if he was on. well he deleted me from his myspace. and now im really confused on everything! does he like me or is he playing with my heart?.
Sami143 answered Wednesday February 25 2009, 5:55 pm: Wow hun im sorry to tell you this but i dont think he is interested and it sounds like he is just playing you. Honestly when a guy knows that you will do things like that for him he isnt exactly thinking with his mind and he will say and do whatever it takes to keep you but when you catch him doing it he will back off. im sorry =[ Hope i helped though! =] [ Sami143's advice column | Ask Sami143 A Question ]
maddiec123 answered Wednesday February 25 2009, 4:25 pm: Humm, let's see. LOTS of flirting on both sides for a couple of weeks ... during a time you are both somewhat emotionally vulnerable after a bad break-up and looking for a little pick-me-up and attention.
You 'promise' oral sex if he 'promises' that isn't why he likes you (btw, all he hears is 'if you really like me I'll give you a bj'... duh, because he no longer has any blood in his head it isn't too hard for him to like you, in that moment at least).
Then week 3 he suddenly: 1. renigs on the hug 2. fails to text you back 3. removes you as a friend on myspace ...
This boy is back-peddling big time. It doesn't matter WHY (ex is mad because he is talking to you, he is getting back with ex., he lost interest, he is interested in another girl, he is interested in a guy, he decided you were too easy so going hunting for harder prey to catch, he had homework, he was flirting didn't think you were serious, he found out his best friend likes you, he found out his best friend hates you... he is stupid) Doesn't matter.
sillykissers answered Wednesday February 25 2009, 2:31 pm: Player. If he has just gotten out of a relationship that was that long, he was probably feeling very vulnerable, and was looking for some sort of love and affection. But... he's probably overcomming the breakup, and realized he either wants to be alone, or he really wasn't that into you. :( [ sillykissers's advice column | Ask sillykissers A Question ]
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