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I'm Samantha Jane Stepp. 17/f/Ohio. Junior at MHS. I digg photography, music, writing, reading, swimming, shopping, singing, and going on adventures.I've seen and done it all. Nothing you can do/say will intimidate me or make me think less of you. With that being said, roll with questions, I give dayum good advice.
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I'm a junior in high school and I've never had a real boyfriend and all of my friends have had at least one siginificant other. I have no idea what the problem is. Guys really seem to like me... I mean, have a ton of guy friends and everyone is always really nice to me. I put myself out there (I DO flirt) and probably have never said a bad word about any of the guys in my school. Everytime I ask a guy out, they say: "You're too good of a friend. If we went out it would change everything and make it all weird." I have no idea what to do to stop this. All you advice givers, I'd really just like some advice on how to score a guy... It didn't bother me before, but now I'm just REALLY tired of being alone.
I'm a girl if you haven't figured that out yet.
Thanks!
I can't give you advice, because I have this exact same problem. I mean, I'm really over-weight, but I've been told that I have a realllly pretty face. And I'm funny, smart, and nice. Yet... I'm always the friend, never the girl. Sorry I can't offer you advice, but you can know that I'm in the same boat as you. You're not alone in that sense.
my hair is medium blonde...its naturally dirty blonde/ light brown but i died it. i really like the light brown hair with blonde highlights so i was wondering if my blonde hair now with light brown/dirty blonde highlights would look good...would it look bad once my roots started to grow in?
I think anytime someone has darker hair with roots growing in that it looks a bit "trashy". However, you can go back to a salon or go to the store and get dye just for roots, in order to keep up with it. Light brown hair with blonde highlights usually doesn't look toooooo bad with the roots comming in... it usually fades into it, though.
ohkayy so i'm adverage i'd say.. and well i want to be a little bit skinnier.. so i do the basic workouts.. like.. situps leg ups push ups and running... but its not going anywhere... so help?
Along with the exercising, make sure you cut back on the calories and drink lots of water. If you eat less, and much on fiber bars, the fiber helps clean your system out (make you poop), which also sheds weight.
I want to go from about this color:
http://www.celebrity-hair-styles-magazine.com/images/long-hair-style-teen-07.jpg
to this color (sorry about this...but i love her hair color...she just happened to be in an underwear commercial):
http://cache.daylife.com/imageserve/0gp93qJfLh4ue/610x.jpg
>>>>WITH A BOX!!!!!!
I'm a drak brunette, naturally. I've done all the colors: pink, yellow, blonde, red, auburn, black, blonde over bright orange, blue/black. I just go into walmart and buy the 3 dollar hair dye. It lasts just as long as the 8+ dollar hair dyes, and with same results. Just make sure you don't buy it at a dollar store, because their brands are ripoffs and don't work. Also, if you have dyed your hair black recently, or have pitch black hair, it may take more than one dying session to lighten it. For best results, go to a salon. :]
i'm in 8th grade, and i'm going into highschool next year.
i know it probably seems kinda early to start thinking about college. but i know you have to have certain requirements for certain schools, and it would be a good idea if i started preparing now.
i know i want to study something with maybe advertising, or video editing, or graphic designing.
what would be some good college choices to look into?
even ivy league ones?
The absolute BEST choice of college you could attend would be one through the AI schools. (Art Institutes). They usually have one in every state. Their tuition is 40,000 thousand a year (very expensive), but a lot of great artists/video editors/photographers/cooks etc have went there.
I, on the other hand am planning on attending CCAD (Columbus College of Art and Design)in Columbus, Ohio. I hear it's a pretty good one, and the tuition is only 11,000 a year.
It really depends on where you live as to what options you have.
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ok. um, this is kinda...akward...and scary.
so, me and this guy (we'll call him L) have been going out for the past year. he's one year older than me. L's always been real sweet about the whole sex thing, but lately, he's been...pushing, and i'm kinda scared, cause he's getting kinda angry/violent. i'm scared he's really gonna hurt me, cause he hit me last week when i made him stop, taking of clothes and stuff.
I dont know what to do.
Help?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
Hunny, he's not crazy. For a man to go an entire year without sex... that's an accomplishment. He probably waited as long as he could before his hormones got the best of him. However, that DOES NOT mean that you should have sex with him. DO NOT do anything you aren't ready to do. If he physically assaulted you, you should leave him, and tell a close friend, in case you ever need a witness. If he threatens or hits you again, you should seriously leave him.
were both 15. hes just geting out of a bad relationship of about 8-9 months. im getting out of a bad bad bad realtionship also. but heres my(our)story
please tell me your imput:)
me and adam have been flirting for about 2 weeks now. and we talk about sexual things some times and he knows ill give him head and stuff. i asked him if that the only reason he "LIKES" me he said no i like you bc your smart hapy and have the cutest smile i have ever seen. okay so today he promised me the bigest hug ever beacuse we didnt get to hang out this weeknd. well i didnt get my hug instead i got a look like hey your cute. do i get home and text him saying oh man i didnt get my hug that means i get two tomro right? well he never texted back and that was like 3 hours agoo! so i got on myspace to see if he was on. well he deleted me from his myspace. and now im really confused on everything! does he like me or is he playing with my heart?.
Player. If he has just gotten out of a relationship that was that long, he was probably feeling very vulnerable, and was looking for some sort of love and affection. But... he's probably overcomming the breakup, and realized he either wants to be alone, or he really wasn't that into you. :(
Okay so im 17/f and my boyfriend is 18, we got into like a big fight almost two weeks ago and things have been kind of strained since then. We've been going out for almost 6 months and I really like him, only when he fels like it does he talk now and thats only been once or twice. I don't know what to do or what to talk about, i know that he likes bmx racing and video games but there's only so much i can say about that stuff until he gets annoyed. What should we talk about?
If you're talking about his interests, and he's getting annoyed... he probably is rather shallow, and you deserve someone better. Someone you have more in common with, and feel more comfortable around.
Let me just start off by saying I have kissed guys before, plenty of times. And I've heard I'm pretty good at it but lately it seems my boyfriend and myself haven't really been too into our kissing. I mean we kiss a lot still but its just a quick peck. When we first went together, when we kissed it was beautiful :) you know passionate so I was thinking I want to give my boyfriend this mind blowing kiss, that will make him think "We need to do this more often." lol so I need some new tips...please and thank you in advance.
If you and your boyfriend are really comfortable with eachother, give this a try: First, trace his lips (all the way around) with the tip of your tongue. Second, part his lips slightly, and kiss him softly. Suck gently and nibble on his bottom lip. Thirdly, place your hand on the back of his neck. Guys LOVE this. It's very sensitive and sensual. And when you pull away...pull away very slowly. You'll leave him feeling quirky...but in a good way.
I've had sex before.. and I guess I wasn't so nervous about this issue because I was with my boyfriend for two years.. and comfortable around him...
but anyways, I'm single now.. and I'm about to hook up with a friend this weekend. I don't want to completely shave and seem like I haven't been through puberty because I hear shaving all the way freaks some guys out... but at the same time I don't want a lot of pubic hair..
I shaved a couple days ago, and I'm seeing him Thursday night, I mean.. I wanna make sure I have no stubble . . but I don't know how to exactly groom myself to make it look nice.. should I just let it grow in, shave my bikini line?
That way it's not too hairy.. but there's no stubble.
I don't know.. any advice would be appreciated.
Most men don't care whether you have carpet or linoleum floors. Vagina is vagina in most men's eyes. The only time they usually care is when they want to perform oral sex. In this case, most men prefer completely shaven. It's the 2000's, and I haven't yet met a man who is afraid of 0 pubic hair. I have, however, met men who are scared of a lot of hair. It's really up to you. If the guy isn't shallow, he won't even care/notice what kind of grooming you've done. You could always try a landing strip, or shave everything below the beginning entrance of the lips.
is there any meaninq to qettinq yer nose peirced on thee left err riqht side ?
ha. juss curious.
There is no meaning. The only piercing that has meaning behind right or left is the ears. Typically, if a man has his right ear pierced (and not the left), they're gay. If they're both pierced, or just the left, it's supposed to represent being straight.
what is spooning?
Spooning is a way of cuddling. Front to back. Usually the man is behind the woman, her back pressed against his chest, her rear pressed against his groin. It's a more passionate form of spooning. Usually accompanies whispers of sweet nothings and dirty talk. ;)
Hi. Recently, I've been having some problems down there. I vagina has been stinging badly, even more when I go to the bathroom. And it itches, a lot. When I do go to itch, it hurts even more. Also, it hurts to put in and take out a tampon. This has been happening for about 2 months. And, any discharge is thick and yellow and it smells very strong (stronger than it usually does), and it even has sort of a urine smell to it. Could it just be from my underwear rubbing against it? Often, to be on the safe side if someone's home, my boyfriend will finger me through my underwear. Let me clarify this, my underwear DO NOT go inside of me, it just rubs against it. Do I have an infection of some sort? Can it be more serious? What could I do to fix the problem? Would it sound suspicious if I told my Mom about it? Any answers would be a great help. Thanks.
If you aren't having sex, then it probably is just an infection from your underwear. Certain kinds of materials can cause reactions down there. Don't let your boyfriend finger you through your underwear, and see your doctor to get medication! A yellow/smelly discharge usually points to an infection or STD!
hey i was wondering can a girl get pregnant if you have sex during her period (like the week that its going on)?
i know thats kind of gross but im just wondering. =-) thats about it.
Yes, there is a chance. Although it's not as likely as it would be if you weren't menstrating, but it's still very possible. Be safe!
I think it's an older movie.
But this one girl is like sent away to live with her grandparents on a farm. Shes around 15/16.
And her grandparents own alot of glass dolls upstairs,but its just a small hobbie.
and at night those dolls come alive and kill people. The dolls are like dressed all gothic, and they come alive at night,
and I remember one part of the movie where its a thunder storm out at night, and the dolls are running around upstairs getting ready to kill.
What's that movie called?
It's really bugging me :(
Anyone no?
It sounds like "The Puppet Master"... movies. Then again, I could be wrong.
does it hurt the first time you get fingered? or does it feel good?
what exactly does it feel like?
If you're getting fingered in the actual hole to your vagina, it can hurt if the hymen is broken, but usually it starts to feel good after awhile.
If you're getting your clit fingered, it doesn't hurt, it feels AMAZING.
so the phrase "thats cool" is overrated.
so instead i now say "thats chill"
but now, a bunch of people in my school are saying it.
i need a new phrase!
like, "thats ________" (beast,bomb,etc.)
please and thank youuu.
"That's gnarly",
"That's mint", (used in England... because mint is cool and chill)
"That's stellar"
okay ive been peeing really pale yellow pee. like so pale its almost completely clear. And it doesnt do it all the time, like it will do it then it wont for like the next few times i pee and then it will. Im not dehydrated. Is there something wrong with me? I really dont want to go to the doctors.
Unless you are experiencing other symptoms, such as pain while urinating, or discharge, then you are probably safe. Pale urine can mean different things such as: you're hydrated, you've been drinking alcohol, and you haven't had a lot of meat containing protein.
I was wondering, AM I AN ALCOHOLIC?
Well, I've been noticing my weird behavior this days. And i really wanna know if i have a problem.
I love partying and drinking.
I love jack daniel and black label. I also drink wine sometimes but i drink beer more often.
I miss school sometimes because of my hangovers and for not sleeping well.
I don't communicate with people like before, i barely answer my phone, it's weird that i have new friends i don't talk to anyone.
I sometimes drink alone in my room, and sometimes i pass out.
i drink literally everyday, not drunk but even having at least 3 or 4 beers.
I do homework while drinking. I drink at school sometimes.
Sometimes i'm dying to get home from school to take a drink.
I hang out with friends more often than before, like i never stay home if i dont need to.
And when i say hang out, i mean chilling at a friend's house just drinking, and others smoking up hash.
I spend all my money on drinks. I would drink and not buy food.
And i've noticed that i drink more everyday to get my head fixed like the night before.
It's bothering me, the need for my drinks and everyday i woke up and go like "CRAP i did not do that yesterday" , or sometimes i just don;t remember some parts.
I got kicked out of a concert for picking a fight with a girl (im a girl), IT WAS embaressing
I made out with zillion of guys when im drunk.
I LOVE DRINKING, i love it's advantages but i can't deal with it's disadvantages, and my lifestyle is shit right now so i can't ask for help from doctor/parents, and if you're gonna suggest a close friend, EVERYONE DRINKS but not as much as me and my close friends.
Any kind of help.
That's alright. Because they've made a website for those who can't physically attend AA meetings, but can use the web. It's like an AA online, and I've heard that its' just as effective. http://www.aaonline.net/
I've been acting weird lately. I searched around the internet for my weird behavior, and i found Bipolar.
i see 50% of the stuff is what i do but other stuff isn't, so i found this website, it makes you ask questions to yourself, so i did and i'm going to answer the questions here.
1. I’m a very talkative person and I can utter a lot of words in a single minute.
-Yes actually its true, i talk alot and can form a new idea in a minute.
2.I am an extremely energetic person.
-Yes
3.I’m a compulsive shopper.
-Yes i spend my money in a second, even though i don't need the thing i'm buying.
4.I don’t like to sleep.
-This is a really hard question. Well, you see, i actually love staying up and i do all the time but when i sleep, i sleep for almost 12 hours or sometimes more. So i'm not sure it's a yes or no.
5.Family and friends have been telling me that I’ve been acting strange lately. I’m becoming a war freak, a loud talker and a very angry person.
-Well no one has told me anything because i don't have alot of people as in family, but friends no. For war freak i dont think so, loud talker I AM, angry person, I'm usualy very calm but this days i've been bitchy
6.I feel sluggish most of the time.
-Not most of the time. OR maybe.
7.I want to have sex all the time.
-Yes.
8.I can’t concentrate on something for a long period of time.
-Yes, i went from a A student to a C,D and i got a F in my math exam.
9.I feel like I’m the king of the world and I can do whatever I wish to do.
-I'm not sure exactly.
10.I don’t get pleasure doing the things that I’ve always loved to do.
-Yes
11.I have trouble sleeping at night.
-Sometimes.
12.Whenever food is served on the table, I don’t feel like eating.
-Sometimes
13.I have many aches and pains from the past that just won’t go away.
-Yes, true.
14.I lack energy when it comes to having sex.
-Yes, true.
15. I lack focus.
-Yes, true.
16.People and things around me make me angry.
-Very true, i yell at my mother for no reason when she is just trying to be nice.
17.I can’t figure out why I feel disappointed and scared.
-Sometimes
18.I’d rather be alone than talk to people.
-True
19.· I feel as if my existence on earth has no meaning and nothing desirable is going to happen to me.
-Sometimes i think life is worthless.
20.I thought about murdere.
-Yes i have.
I just answered the questions, i need help.
So am I a bipolar? Do i have bipolar disorder?
And trust me if i can get help from doctor/family/friends, i would but thats not an option right now.
Thanks
It kind of all depends... depression and bi-polar disorder are very similar. The main difference is with depression, you're usually just tired, lonely, sad, or suicidal. But with bi-polar disorder, you fluctuate between being extemely sad, to extremely happy, to extremely angry. Your ups/downs are very strong, and without reason.