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Am i?
I was wondering, AM I AN ALCOHOLIC?
Well, I've been noticing my weird behavior this days. And i really wanna know if i have a problem.
I love partying and drinking.
I love jack daniel and black label. I also drink wine sometimes but i drink beer more often.
I miss school sometimes because of my hangovers and for not sleeping well.
I don't communicate with people like before, i barely answer my phone, it's weird that i have new friends i don't talk to anyone.
I sometimes drink alone in my room, and sometimes i pass out.
i drink literally everyday, not drunk but even having at least 3 or 4 beers.
I do homework while drinking. I drink at school sometimes.
Sometimes i'm dying to get home from school to take a drink.
I hang out with friends more often than before, like i never stay home if i dont need to.
And when i say hang out, i mean chilling at a friend's house just drinking, and others smoking up hash.
I spend all my money on drinks. I would drink and not buy food.
And i've noticed that i drink more everyday to get my head fixed like the night before.
It's bothering me, the need for my drinks and everyday i woke up and go like "CRAP i did not do that yesterday" , or sometimes i just don;t remember some parts.
I got kicked out of a concert for picking a fight with a girl (im a girl), IT WAS embaressing
I made out with zillion of guys when im drunk.
I LOVE DRINKING, i love it's advantages but i can't deal with it's disadvantages, and my lifestyle is shit right now so i can't ask for help from doctor/parents, and if you're gonna suggest a close friend, EVERYONE DRINKS but not as much as me and my close friends.
Any kind of help.
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maybe. seek help. talk to your friends and family. theyy know you better than i do. if they say yes, then seek help. research on line for AA info. friends and family will help you through this, but remember, you can only change if you WANT to change.
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Yeah, you have a problem.
One thing you can do is set rules for yourself. I consume intoxicants (not alcohol, my tolerance is too high, a few drinks is like no drinks at all) but only when I don't have anything it will interfere with. Never before work, not when I have things to do that I need motivation for, not during school or while doing schoolwork.
I partake almost every day, but usually when I'm done with my day relaxing at home watching a movie or two, or surfing the net. I love being intoxicated, but its something that always has to be regulated and done in moderation.
Set rules for yourself, and don't violate them at all. No excuses. Its a challenge to yourself. If you can be alright cutting down to the point that most of what you said above is not true, you're fine.
More than likely, that won't work. If that is the case, seek some help. Counseling, friends, anything. The first step is admitting you have a problem. The second is actually taking a step to do something about it.
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Sweetie you absolutely have a problem. You may not be an alcoholic yet because your body might not fully depend on it yet, but you definately have an abuse problem.
My mom is an alcoholic and trust me, it is a serious problem to have. It is a disease and it has ruined many lives. Now im not against drinking, i drink myself. But the extent that you drink is not normal. You need to get help or at least try to help yourself. Try to cut down on drinking youself and if you cant do it, then you need to get professional help for it. There are AA meetings all over the country and so many counseling places that can help you with it. Your not alone in this either. Millions of americans struggle with alcoholism and abuse every day. You are not the only one.
Dont let it take hold of your life. Ive seen it happen and I still see it happen every day. But I can tell you, you will never stop unless you want to stop. You have to %100 percent want to quit. And if you dont feel like you want to completely stop, then please, for your own sake, try to cut down. I wish you the best of luck with everything and if you ever need to talk at all just send me a message and I will give you my email. I am very knowledgable about alcoholism and I would be happy to help you or answer any questions you may have.
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That's alright. Because they've made a website for those who can't physically attend AA meetings, but can use the web. It's like an AA online, and I've heard that its' just as effective. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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You definitely have an alcohol abuse problem.
Drinking is fine... in moderation. Having a few drinks with friends is fine, but blacking out is not, whether you are alone or with friends.
If you can't talk to friends or family, then I would suggest looking up a community resource. Many cities have addiction hotlines, and that may be of help to you. You could also try a system like Alcoholics Anonymous.
For now, avoid drinking. Instead of an alcoholic drink, make yourself a cup of tea. If you're going out with friends, get pop and pretend it's alcoholic (if you're afraid they'll make fun of you).
Find something that makes you as happy as drinking does. A sport, or a hobby. If you keep yourself busy, you'll find there's less temptation.
It's great that you've pinpointed your problem now (I'm assuming you're still fairly young). Alcohol abuse leads to all sorts of health problems, and the sooner you stop, the sooner you start preventing them.
Good luck!
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Wonder no more. You are an alcoholic.
You "..love it's advantages." Pray tell, what are it's advantages? I see none in your post. Your entire post is composed of disadvantages. You pick your friends because they drink. All alcoholics do that.
If you can't ask for help from your doctor or parents, then what are you looking for? There are no magic bullets in this kind of problem and your problem is quite severe. If I were you, I would run to the nearest AA meeting without hesitation, since you can't go to your doctor or parents.
PLEASE, do it before you destroy your life. You're young enough to get past this and leave it far behind. If you wait to tackle it, it'll be a problem for the rest of your life and it won't get better, it'll get worse.
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