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an emotional wreck
16/f, sorry if this is a bit long, I appreciate those who take the time to read this and help me :]
So, there is this guy, and he told me he liked me, I told him I liked him, but then a couple days after that he got with his ex girlfriend who basically was just dumped by her boyfriend. the guy and i havent talked for 4 or 5 weeks. [since that happened] he is in one of my classes. math. and i hate that class already.
well on friday, i had to collect homework. and no one was passing it up, so i kind of went down his row [which is right next to mine, and im in the way front, he is like 2 seats behind me in the next row, so awkward. he moved there when we got our seats changed.] but before i got to him, they started passing it up, so then all of the sudden the guy ... we'll call him bob.. leans on his desk and says something like, "[my name] would you mind taking this--" or "[my name] will you do me a favor and--" i've been wanting him to talk to me, but i felt like he was being an asshole so i cut him off and snatched it out of his hand. [with attitude i guess] and then bob was like "thank you" [i think kind of sarcastically. or surprised.]
anyways, that happened and then i've been having wierd dreams involving him [nothing sexual, dont worry hahaha] just like dreams that I'm trying to get him to notice me. or talk to me. or break up with his girlfriend. who doesn't deserve him because she always told people ho annoying he was. and not that bob deserves anyone because i REALLY like/liked him.
sometimes i feel like he's looking at me in math. and when i talk to someone who sits behind him, i feel like he tries to make eye contact with me, and when we do make eye contact, i break away frist really quickly, or he does. and we were put in groups on friday [the day i snatched the paper from him] and he was right next to me [in his group] and i think he was listening to me talk to my group or trying to get my attention because whenever this guy in his group asked me a question, he would look at me and our eyes met and it was so intense. like. i don't even now how to explain it.
and ontop of that, i think i like this freshman now. but i still like bob. im so lost and confused and i can't get bob off of my mind. and sometimes the new guy i like comes into my mind. but not really. wow im so confused. what should i do? talk to bob? I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO, I AM SO LOST. someone please help me :[ thank you.
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Listen Honey Boys are complicated and they take longer to mature than girlS..... So definetly keep that in mind!! But I think you should try to act like you tottally dont care about Bod and try to show interest in the other guys... Ask him if hed like to hang out sometime... Once Bob sees you have moved on thats when youll see how different he acts...
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Nah, you should move on. :] Better things await.
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wowwa weewa.... that was quite a story there haha
well it seems to me that bob wants to get your attention. Here's what i would do, try to act nicer to bob and see what his reactions are. if he becomes more flirtatious or interested- stick with him and get to know him more. If he starts to act like an asshole again- forget him. boys are werid. no girl in the world can interpret what guys are thinking, so dont feel alone.
as for the freshman kid, try to become his friend first than to just get into the relationship at once. then if he seems to respond in a well mannered tone- keep talking to him and occasionally send out flirtatious signals. but not too much. you want him to chase you. play a little hard to get but not too hard.
get it??
bob= be more nicer and analyze his reactions
freshman= friends with occasional flirts.
then after a while, you have to see which one is better for you. if none of them work, find another guy
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