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Sex too soon?
Posted Wednesday March 18 2009, 1:10 am
17/f
I met my current boyfriend two months ago but we have only been dating for a few days now. I am a virgin (prior to meeting my boyfriend I was too busy to care about serious relationships and didn't want to have sex with someone I was casually dating). My boyfriend is not a virgin.
We have been teasing each other since the moment we met so the sexual tension is hardly bearable. I feel obligated to wait until we take things to the next level. On the other hand, I had been hoping to be single when I start university in the fall (I could change my mind) - regardless, I want us both to enjoy however long we get to spend together.
What wins out? Feeling obligated to wait or enjoying the potentially short time we have?
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Hoe do I get over him?
Posted Tuesday March 17 2009, 8:55 pm
So ive been liking this guy for 2 years now.But recently Ive decided not to waste anymore of my time on him.So my question is...how can i forget about him fast?? I like another guy and i wanna give it a shot.
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Seeing them together...
Posted Tuesday March 17 2009, 5:34 pm
So, I've liked this guy very, very much for a long time, and now I'm hearing rumors that he's with someone...Tomorrow, I'm attending an event in which they will both be there, and I don't know how I'm going to handle seeing them together if the rumors are true...I'm not mad at either of them or bitter or anything, but I am extremely sad and disappointed...what can I do to help myself prepare for this?
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kind of long. i told a guy i liked him when i don't.
Posted Tuesday March 17 2009, 3:59 pm
Okay before I start this I'd just like to say that I know this is bad, but I'm looking for advice, not for people to criticize me and tell me what a horrible person I am.
So about a month ago, this guy that I was pretty friendly with told me he liked me. I'd already known this for several months, but I guess I was hoping he'd get over it so when he told me, I panicked and rejected him. After I rejected him, things got weird between us and we basically stopped talking. I hated that because I really liked talking to him since he was nice and understanding and he never judged me, and I missed it. So two days ago I decided enough was enough and I told him that. And then we started talking about when he told me he liked me, and I ...
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boys boys boyssss
Posted Tuesday March 17 2009, 2:27 pm
16/female
normally i dont need help but this is like serious haha. my exboyfriend & i went out for 2 years.. im finally over him after 6 months. of course there are a cute guy in atleast 1 of my classes, but most of the cute ones are in honors.. surpisingly. haha well this one boy lets call him shae, is in my math class but sits on the other side of the room. hes REALLY quiet, but i kinda am too cause i dont talk to alot of people in that class. ive only talked to him twice lol. i asked him if he talks and hes like yeah i do i just have no friends in this class.. and i asked if he got a haircut and he said yes and i told him i liked itt lmao. i really dont know how i'm spose to talk to this boy who sits on the other side of clas...
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My best friend flirting with the guys I like....
Posted Tuesday March 17 2009, 9:35 am
My only bestfriend has been talking to this guy that I like alot lately. I really do like him, he's such a great guy. Well my friend and I were talking last night about her talking to him a little bit. Now talks to all the guys in our group A LOT. The problem isnt exactly that she talks to them alot. It's that they tell her so many things. Like when my friend,we'll call her A, and my other friend, we'll call him K, were going out K would tell my best friend things that he didnt even tell A. I dont know I just don't think that's right. It really bugs me that all the guys in our group talk to her and tell her things that they don't even tell their own girlfirends. I mean i'm glad that they can open up to her about things, but well I don't kno...
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soul mates
Posted Monday March 16 2009, 11:19 pm
do you believe in soul mates? why or why not?
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flirting, but seriously.?
Posted Monday March 16 2009, 8:54 pm
okey so theres this guys at my skool and i liked him for a long time. & i told my friend who then told him but then i told the kid that i didnt like him. then i started to not like him, i do not no why. but i stopped. now that i stopped and he nos i dont like him nemore, he is talking to me more & like 2day he like stepped in front of me quikly 2 scare me. & im really confuzed b/c i thought he did not like me. but at the beginning of the year he liked me i think cuz he flirted w/ me..... or at least it seemed like it so mayb he didnt like me. but my question is, i want him to like me. so how can i do it? i cannot text him b/c when i do, he barely texts back in a way i can reply. bad texter i think. what flirty things can i do th...
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Broke up with my boyfriend
Posted Monday March 16 2009, 8:35 pm
Ok so I just broke up with my boyfriend this weekend. We're both 16 and it had been a 3 month relationship. I told him we couldn't keep being together because I don't treat him the way I should. I would always act distant towards him and never very enthusiastic. At first I didn't but gradually the feelings began to fade and the attraction wasn't there anymore. It all seemed very routine to me but I couldn't bare to let him go. We've become extremely close in the past months. But I finally did the deed, and now at school he's all alone. I was the person he would hang out with everyday but I guess he doesn't want to do that anymore. Every time I see him it really hurts to know that it's really over and that it's because of me. And it doesn't ...
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who's wrong
Posted Monday March 16 2009, 7:50 pm
Hi I'm Hailey and I'm 17
I've been dating my boyfriend for two months after talkign for 4 years. We are in love and I don't know what i would do without him. Usually i ditch a guy before the first month is up but with him its different. But the only problem is i cheeted on him wiht an ex boyfriend the first week we went out before he really meant much to me. the other night when he slept over he read my diary entry about how i cheeted and was very upset. he eventually go over it and realizes that our love is to strong to throw away over one mistake. is this normal? and should i be mad for him reaind my diary?
thanks sooo much
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all he talks about is sex!!
Posted Monday March 16 2009, 6:17 pm
okay so all my boyfriend talks about is having sex with me and doing things with me. and i'm sooo not that type of girl...like ill do some things with him but not to the point of having sex with him... like thats just not who i am. but stupid stupid me went and said to him okay ill have sex with you!! i feel sooo stupid and i feel like im setting him up and getting him all excitted for it and im not even going to have sex with him... like this is allll he talks about and i guess im asking....how do i break it to him that im not who he thinks i am and i dont want to have sex with him?????
any questions about my question just ask.
any advicee is so GREATLY appreciatedd!!!!
please and thanks
-cuttechick26
<3
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secret relationship
Posted Monday March 16 2009, 5:45 pm
Well me and my ex recently just got back together. he just doesnt want to let anybody know that we're even "talking" like about to date. so i have to act like im his friend and i cant even kiss him or hold hands. but then again, me and him talk hour after hour on the phone we're even planning on moving in together in a year or two.. but i dont want to keep our relationship a secret anymore... it just hurts because i really love him alot. even though i was the one who left him. what do i do?
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admit that i like him?
Posted Monday March 16 2009, 5:30 pm
16f
I've like my guyfriend from school for about 2 and a half months now (it seems so much longer...) and it's possible he likes me but he might not. And there have been a lot of signs saying he does and also certain things saying he just sees me as a friend. I can't tell anymore, I'm so bad at this, I've never had a boyfriend before. Recently I feel like I'm not getting as far with him as I have before, everything is just the same and we're friends. I feel like I'm not getting through to him and it's hard for me to just drop hints that I like him because I'm just bad at this. I'm considering admitting that I like him. But I don't know how, everytime a guy has found out I liked him its just like a complete epic fail, and I feel...
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getting back at him.
Posted Monday March 16 2009, 12:31 pm
18, female.
sooo i've been in a messed up situation for about three years now. i have a good guy friend, known him for years now and have always had a crush on him but he's been going out with his girlfriend who i dislike of three years now. within the past few months they have taken a break, got back together and then broke up and after a month are now back together. i hate how he puts me through this though because he always say "wanna fuck" and hes being serious. he knows im a virgin, he's only had sex with his girlfriend yet he still wants to get with me. i have NOT done anything with him. but im done putting up with his crap, i'm not doing this anymore. i'm not getting hurt, i'm not waiting for him to be done w...
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What are some cute things to say while texting?
Posted Monday March 16 2009, 12:48 am
20/M
I text back and forth with this girl that I like. What are some subtle things I can say to her when we text that lets her know I like her but not completely professing my feelings for her? Like "hey cutie" or others, I just want to be SUBTLE about it. I'm not afraid to tell her I like her (because she likes me). We live apart now but I move to her town in 3 months. And we're not together now/yet. So that's why I want to be subtle about it.
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how ?? ='(
Posted Sunday March 15 2009, 8:21 pm
how do you move stars for a person you love that much ??...and how do you show a person how much you love them...whilst haveing nothing to give.....how do you make that person smile when i cant do it properly my self.......how do you let go of bein in a cuddle when tbh...you dont wna ever have to leave there arms......how ??....nd how do you not cry infront of this person when u wna be there to protect that person from the bad people and things in life ?? ....how ??.......how do i know if im holding this persons hand to tight or if its not tight enough and how do i turn anger into more love for this person...does it matter if i dont mind being cold aslong as this person is warm....and does it matter if when where sleeping even tho its a dou...
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popular guy
Posted Sunday March 15 2009, 7:50 pm
13/f
i really like this popular guy. i have an insane crush on him, and ive had it for awhile. we talk to each other sometimes and everyone thinks he likes me but i dont see it. i really think hes hates me actually. i dont want to go and just ask him flat out so does anyone have any ideas on how i can do anything else.
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Posted Sunday March 15 2009, 3:22 pm
15/f. i do volunteer work with friends on saturday. i met these 2 guys a few weeks ago(noah and matt-theyre good friends).they don't go to my school. when i first met them i was attracted to noah. we were flirting alot but he has a girlfriend. i saw them again this past saturday (3/14). matt & i were talking alot & flirting. he gave me his number and we were texting. long story short, i ended up telling him i was interested in him and noah. he asked me who i liked more and my friends convinced me to tell him i liked him more because noah has a gf. i completely regret telling him that now. we texted from about 9:30-1:30 that night. the conversation was kind of awkward and i can tell he doesnt trust me, i guess he has a reason not to ...
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Little Bit of Everything
Posted Sunday March 15 2009, 3:18 pm
Hi all, I want to first say thankyou so much for reading this, and I'd just like to hear your opinions, personal experiences, etc. I know this may be a little awkward, so sorry! I'm usually not this open about my personal life but I need advice and words of other people.
Okay, I'm 16/f and my boyfriend is 15/m. We are in the same grade and have been happily dating for 7 months.
Well, recently my boyfriend has been getting a little frisky when we're together. However, I have yet to expose myself to him because of some feeling I've been having:
A.) I feel like that when I do expose myself to him (removing my bra, etc..), I'll have lost a part of my innocence. I know that when he starts getting fri...
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Should I or Shouldnt I ???
Posted Sunday March 15 2009, 1:16 pm
Well me and this guy really like eachother
but we are not going out (John). He lives about 3hrs away. and theres this other guy who really wants to have sex, but me and that guy have no feelings for eachother what so ever(Alex).I wasnt going to tell John about Alex,but John was telling me about how his brother was blocking him from going up2 a girl.Obviously I got jealous and told him about Alex. Soo then John told me he didnt want me2have sex so I decided not to have sex with alex, but people are telling me i shouldnt care about what john wants because we are not dating.
What do you think i should do?
P.S.
I know its not the best to have sex with sumone that i have no feelings for but i just wan...
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