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Hi I'm Hailey and I'm 17
I've been dating my boyfriend for two months after talkign for 4 years. We are in love and I don't know what i would do without him. Usually i ditch a guy before the first month is up but with him its different. But the only problem is i cheeted on him wiht an ex boyfriend the first week we went out before he really meant much to me. the other night when he slept over he read my diary entry about how i cheeted and was very upset. he eventually go over it and realizes that our love is to strong to throw away over one mistake. is this normal? and should i be mad for him reaind my diary?
thanks sooo much
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Eventually? How long did it take him to get over it? If it was like a day then somethings wrong. If all you did was sit back and wait for him to get over it. Then what you have isnt love. If you did everything to get his trust back then i could understand. Your really lucky that hes taking you back. I hope your joking about being mad at him for reading your diary.
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Let this show you no matter what the truth will always come to light. No he shouldn't be going through your things, the fact he did tells me he knew something was up and wouldve found out anyways. Although I worry about you being so attached at this age, understand Real Love is not a garuntee, its 2 be respected. People kill over broken hearts and feelings so respect the relationship espcially if you want it to work. And above all respect your temple! Its the only one you have!
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While I don't exactly think it's okay for your boyfriend to be snooping through your diary, I really don't think it would be a good idea to start a fight over it. You cheated on him, which, to me, is a lot worse than him reading your diary. If he's over it, why add fuel to the fire?
As for the normal thing, I really don't understand what you mean. Are you asking if it's normal for him to get over it? If so, it depends on the person. He obviously truly cares about you to just put it behind him like that, but some people don't. It's not a matter of normal or not, it's just that person's opinion on the matter.
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