I do some disgusting things during sex. I have a sever foot fetish, I like getting urinated on and drinking the urine, bondage, torture, strangulation etc....I have very severe depression. Is it conected? I love what I do in bed but other people think im sick...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? TheMaster answered Wednesday March 18 2009, 1:58 am: Sexual perversion (which is what you describe), is actually quite common. It's very possible that these fetishes are related to your depression.
Although when you could cause serious injury or death to you or a partner this could turn out extremely badly.
You love what you do in bed because it somehow satisfies secret urges from your inner mind. You could also have a chemical imbalance in your brain. I would seek treatment if I were you. There is no future in killing yourself or getting life for killing a sex partner. Then again you would probably love prison sex.
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Eldritch answered Tuesday March 17 2009, 2:09 am: Mental health is a touchy, complex subject, so here's my disclaimer: I am not a mental health professional. Do not take my advice as cold hard fact.
However, I do have some experience with depression and its effects on behavior, so I'll lend a hand:
It's my opinion that these things are related to your depression. Some of them are obviously self-destructive, such as:
"I like getting urinated on and drinking the urine."
That's very risky behavior, and could result in severe health problems and, eventually, death. You never know what you could contract from bodily fluids, and the consequences could be catastrophic.
That alone is why I advise you seek professional help for your depression.
Also, if you're going so far with the other things that they cause you or your partner harm or injury, those things are sure signs of your condition as well.
Trauma answered Tuesday March 17 2009, 2:04 am: I really don't think it's due to your depression. It's just a matter of personal preference, & you can't really help what you like. I always feel like a freak because of what turns me on, but you can't help it, it's just a part of you. [ Trauma's advice column | Ask Trauma A Question ]
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