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all he talks about is sex!!
okay so all my boyfriend talks about is having sex with me and doing things with me. and i'm sooo not that type of girl...like ill do some things with him but not to the point of having sex with him... like thats just not who i am. but stupid stupid me went and said to him okay ill have sex with you!! i feel sooo stupid and i feel like im setting him up and getting him all excitted for it and im not even going to have sex with him... like this is allll he talks about and i guess im asking....how do i break it to him that im not who he thinks i am and i dont want to have sex with him?????
any questions about my question just ask.
any advicee is so GREATLY appreciatedd!!!!
please and thanks
-cuttechick26
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I have a couple of questions.
1. Why are you with him? If all he does is talk about having sex with you. Instead of making plans, trying to make you happy, telling you how happy is that your together. You know a real relationship.
2. What are you getting out of this? It doesn't sound like your happy about him telling you how much he wants to have sex with you. Most girls wouldn't be. Did he just start doing this after you went a little too far the night before? Then tell him to stop looking forward to something that's never gunna happen.
This is something that you should have talked about before deciding to be together. Better late then never tell him what kind of girl you are and what kind of guy that you are looking for. That guy might just be him. Good Luck and if he gets mad about you not having sex with him dump him.
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If he can't talk about anything other than sex then that's all he wants you for. I'm worried about his level of maturity (not sure on ages)since he can't formulate a thought that extends beyond sex. Just tell him no! You don't have to do anything you don't want to do with your body period!
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My advice?
Your guy is defective.
I don't know either of your ages, so I can't say just how messed up this guy is, but any guy who doesn't act civilized and respectful towards his girlfriend/wife/whatever is simply not worth the time and effort you're wasting on him.
I'm glad you're not the kind of girl he's looking for, and you need to let him know that you're not.
Remember that in this kind of situation, emotions are not your friend. Look at this objectively. The best thing to do is tell him how you feel and then break things off.
A cautionary word, though: if you break up with him, do so in a public place. Guys like the one you're describing can and often do get violent when rejected, and I would hate for anything to happen to you.
Take care.
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