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boooys
help!! i want to talk to my crush but whenever i see him i get all nervous and scared how do i work up the nerve to approach him? and what do i talk about when i do talk to him?
thnks so much im so desperate for advice
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Hi!!
Okay...I absolutely had the same feeling for the guy I really liked. What, I did...I said hi to him randomly....when I was with my friends and we were acting real silly. Like being with my friends they gave me a lot of courage to talk to him. So, when he walked by ...I said hi... and he smiled at me. So.. if you like... get a couple of your friends...and just randomly go by him in the hallway ( or if he passes u first) Say , hi to him!! That's what I did...and I felt so proud of myself afterword. After, I did ..I talked to him more often. Also...if you want to do it by yourself... it will make you feel even more proud and confident . Take a deep breath...make sure your tummies relaxed... maybe drink some water...( water helps with a shaky tummy) ... walk up to him and say hello...hi...whatever. Make sure your calm and relaxed. That might be hard but...guys like a confident girls. I really hoped I helped and .... GOOD LUCK!!!
-Faith42 :)
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Hey!..
i know what this must feel like..the butterflies in your stomach and the energy going through your body...
its okey just breathe go up to him and talk to him about something that he likes and that you two have in common. try not to be too touchy feely with him and dont follow him around [this could freak him out and make him run from you] just when you see him around say hi and do your thing :]
you can do it
boyycrazy :]
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I know it seems hard when you read this, but just talk to him like he's one of your good friends! Start by any conversation. When you see him, say hey what's up? and go from there. Talk like you've been friends forever! And soon enough you'll get comfortable with eachother, and all those buttlerflies will go away and the conversations will start pouring out!
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Don't be nervous! He's a normal person like you and I! If I really want to talk to a crush, if he's in my class, I ask him to about the class and how he likes it, make some kind of joke about the teacher that way you show your humerous side and break the ice and soon you can start talking about other things. Another thing is if your nervous stand near him when talking with friends or waiting for class to start and just say nice weather or something like that. If he's a total stranger who you kinda know get a mutual friend and ask him/her to invite you in the convo with your crush
Good Luck! ^_^
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I want to help but more info like age and where you guys met would help! But firstly if you're nervous, find some do it fluid! Meaning find something that you confident talking to him about and go up and say hi! He could be feelin you to. But for a better answer email me with more info and ill help ya!
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Well...
I'm going to need some extra information to answer this appropriately.
Hopefully you don't mind (and if you do, you can e-mail me for confidentiality, and I'll e-mail you my advice back, keeping it off the site).
First of all, how old are you? How old is he?
Second, why is he your crush? What attracts you to him in the first place? How long have you known him?
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