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HI, IM TRACY
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What is masturbation? Is it bad? (link)
Masturbation is when you sexually stimulate yourself. Most girls do it by either fingering themselves with one or two fingers stimulating the g-spot or by rubbing the vulva, especially the clitoris. Alot of girls use a vibrator or dildo to masturbate. For guys, The most common male masturbation technique is simply to hold the penis with a loose fist and then to move the hand up and down the shaft until orgasm and ejaculation take place. And no, it is definitely not bad! It feels good, relieves stress, and sometimes makes you feel better. Try it!


help!! i want to talk to my crush but whenever i see him i get all nervous and scared how do i work up the nerve to approach him? and what do i talk about when i do talk to him?

thnks so much im so desperate for advice (link)
I know it seems hard when you read this, but just talk to him like he's one of your good friends! Start by any conversation. When you see him, say hey what's up? and go from there. Talk like you've been friends forever! And soon enough you'll get comfortable with eachother, and all those buttlerflies will go away and the conversations will start pouring out!


So, I've liked this guy very, very much for a long time, and now I'm hearing rumors that he's with someone...Tomorrow, I'm attending an event in which they will both be there, and I don't know how I'm going to handle seeing them together if the rumors are true...I'm not mad at either of them or bitter or anything, but I am extremely sad and disappointed...what can I do to help myself prepare for this? (link)
Honestly i know it sounds bad, but prepare for the worst. The absolute worst thing you could ever imagine, and thats why when you get there, it won't be so hard. Because chances are that it won't be as bad as what you imagined. So you were more than prepared. Don't get your hopes up too high and think that they won't be together, because if they are, you'll just be crushed. :\


So ive been liking this guy for 2 years now.But recently Ive decided not to waste anymore of my time on him.So my question is...how can i forget about him fast?? I like another guy and i wanna give it a shot. (link)
first off, occupy yourself. If your thinking about other things, how can you think about him right? I've been there so many times before and I'm actually going through the process now. It takes time, don't get me wrong. But just occupy yourself and keep your mind on anything except him! I know this sounds stupid but don't leave yourself bored, it makes your mind wonder and it will always shoot straight to the guy! As for the new guy, take it slow.. but talking with other guys and being flirty and friendly always helps a little with getting over an oldd crush. Good luckk :)


I really want to wear it yet at the same time I don't want others laugh at me. Individuality is very important to me, but I want to be accepted too. What can I do? (link)
I would wear it, its your favorite, so why care what other people think if its what you like and feel comfortable in? If other people dont like it, then its on them. (:


I am goin to my friend's sweet sixteen at a country club. What would be better to wear:
1) a sundress
2) a skirt with a top

i don't really want to go all out. i want to look hot, cute, you know. Any other suggestions will help! (link)
a sundress, because its a country club, and you shouldnt go too casual, but not too dressy either. (:


ok my boyfriend who ive been dating for a while just told me that he has felt up and has watched a girl change...i asked him before if he had ever gone farther then making out and he said no.. hes 15 and im 14 by the way anyways my questions is do i have a good reason to be mad at him?? (link)
if he did this before you two were together, then you have no reason to be mad at him, because he was with another girl and you two werent together, so he could do whatever he wanted with her. But if he did that when you two were together, then yes, id be pissed.


how do you get jeans to shrink? (link)
hot water--> dryer (:


Ok well my lips are soooo chapped and it bugs me more than being on my period. Don't ask. Anyone know how to get them to be not chapped fast??? thanks! (link)
CARMEX, or like a lip therapy chap stick (:


Any ideas of what kind of outfit i should wear to a fall out boy concert? I'm going in late spring so it will be warmer. thanks (link)
Wear a band shirt and like black bremudas, check out hot topic i love their band shirts (:

personal favorites:

http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/store/product.jsp?FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302028391&PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524442150745&bmUID=1176139328680

http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/store/product.jsp?FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302028391&PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524442155416&bmUID=1176139390497


http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/store/product.jsp?FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302028391&PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524442151343&bmUID=1176139453086


hope i helped (:


I posted a question before asking your opinion on witch swimsuit to get and now I found other ones I like and still can't decide. And I have very light skin, so I wan't one that will look good on me.

Tell me what you think. :)


1. http://images.delias.com//151832_w_s.jpg

2. http://images.delias.com//151811_w_s.jpg

3. http://images.delias.com//151810_wmu_w.jpg with http://images.delias.com//151815_wmu_w.jpg

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i completely ADORE the first one, and since you mentioned you have light skin, then that would deff. make you look a little darker, because you dont want to go with a lighter color like the white, because then your skin tone will just blend in, and you want it to pop out, so the navy would make your skin look gorgeous (:


respond asap please!!!

as some of you know, school starts again tomorrow and well I was just in my closet choosing what to wear. I went to florida for about 5 days and I got a really nice tan. So what are some colors (shirts) to bring out a tan? Blue??? Red?? I don't know but that's why i'm asking you guys.

thanks! HAPPY EASTER! (link)
White is the best color to bring out a tan, since its like so light, your tan just POPS. Any other lighter colors would bring it out too, (:


I am a 15 year old girl. I have had the same boyfriend for 2 years. He is beginning to want to take are relationship farther and by that I mean he wants to have sex. I would like to try it but I am so scared of getting naked. I am a really skinny girl so I am not afraid about that, but I have small breasts and I am afraid he will not love me anymore if he sees me naked. I know this sounds stupid but it is true. (link)
well, i think that if hes been with you for two years, then you have a strong relationship and he doesnt care about the size of your boobs. and if he does care about those things, then he is not worth it at all.


like is there anything to do by yourself to practice??? (link)
try picking up M&Ms with your mouth, on a mirror (:


http://www.abercrombiekids.com/kids/onlinestore/collection/13161_02_l.jpg


i really dont know. on one hand, i think theyre really cute. but i can't be sure.

be as harsh as you want, please. be honest. (link)
These are adorrable! That is the prettiest shade of green.

I agree with these girls below me, they might hurt to walk in, because of the strap things, and you wont be able to wear them with alot of colors.

But if your completely in love with them, get em babe! I know if Im in love with something, no matter what, i have to have it!

(:



i don't wear string bikinis or any kind of swimsuit that covers just my private spots or whatever. i want a new swim suit top that covers all of my upper body, like, from the chest to the stomach. i don't have to buy a bottom, since i have a blue boy shorts looking thing, so i'm not really worried about that. is there any sites i can get these tops? please nothing too expensive. like, $15-$20 tops.

thanks. (link)
Target, theres alot of cute swim suits there. Like tankinis and stuff, try old navy too. (:


You know the plaid bermuda shorts that were huge last year? are they going to be in again? (link)
I think they will be, ive seen them in a lot of stores lately and I bought a pair last night! I love them, and i think they will def. be in this year (:


what are some places that sell cute bathing suits,like polka dots, but not bikinis,like tankinis.i want some like $20-$25 and don't tell me hollister,ae,victoria's secret,or pacsun.



thnx (link)
Target has cute tankinis, and i love old navy's bathing suits.


My hair is natrualy curly.
My hair isn't the curly you might think though.

Okay, This pic is 2 years old. Haha.
http://s75.photobucket.com/albums/i318/photosbyjackie/Jackie/?action=view¤t=Picture006.jpg


But, thats what my curly hair is like.
I HATE IT.
I want curly hair like this.
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi57.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fg216%2FPoppinMyHumps%2FHPIM1924.jpg&searchTerm=curly%20hair&pageOffset=5

*I know my hair isn't that long though"

How can i do this?
This is me when I straighten my hair
http://a989.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/29/l_8f37f5ba628f444d636c51fcbac6b66c.jpg


Thanks so much.
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well since your hair is naturally curly, i would straighten it and then use a curling iron. Because it looks like the girl in the picture used a curling iron. Or, you can use hot rollers to curl it. That might help.

(:


Does anyone know any good sites that have sporty swimsuits like either surf shorts or tankinis? im not a real frilly person or like extremely fashionable I want something sporty please! I really like long board shorts. (link)
Def. Pacsun, i like sporty swimsuits, and all of my bathing suits are from pacsun. They have really cute board shorts too.




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