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my boyfriend wants sex but I feel to ugly
I am a 15 year old girl. I have had the same boyfriend for 2 years. He is beginning to want to take are relationship farther and by that I mean he wants to have sex. I would like to try it but I am so scared of getting naked. I am a really skinny girl so I am not afraid about that, but I have small breasts and I am afraid he will not love me anymore if he sees me naked. I know this sounds stupid but it is true.
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ok so you are a skinny girl and have small breast and you have had the same boyfriend for two years andhe wants to have sex with you and you say he wont love you after he sees your small breast if he doesnt then maybe your better of with someone else ok
hope this ghelps bye good luck
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Don't worry about it! If your boyfriend and you have been together for the past two years, he loves you. Seeing you naked won't make him love you any less, unless he's a dick. The truth is, when you're self concious about something, most of the time other people don't even notice! So don't worry. But it sounds like you're not QUITE ready completely to have sex. Tell your boyfriend you're not comfortable yet, and make sure that you're 100% ready before you have sex with him.
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You don't have to get naked!! If you don't want to do it don't do it tell him your not ready.
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If you feel ugly or uncomfortable with your body and yourself, you're not ready to have sex. Enough said.
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well, i think that if hes been with you for two years, then you have a strong relationship and he doesnt care about the size of your boobs. and if he does care about those things, then he is not worth it at all.
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If he doesn't love you because of of your breasts, he is not worth it. If that is all that he cares about then he is twisted. But, seriously if he would care about that then he doesn't deserve you. But if you aren't comfortable with taking your clothes off then don't have sex. There is plenty of time for sex. But if your breasts are the only thing you are worried about, stop worrying. lol
Good Luck
Nicole x0x
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You're probably a beauitful girl.
If he's been with you for two years obvisiouly he doesn't care about those kind of things. If you are to uncomforitable then don't do it. Do what you want, and how you feel. Breat size does not matter though, and being skinny isn' a bad thing. It's not stupid that you're scared, we all get scared sometimes. I feel the same way when me and my boyfriend have sex I just feel very heavy.
If you're not ready, don't do it. Just look at yourself and say "Wow. we've been together two years, he loves me for who I am." Hope everything works out. :)
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my opinino..
if your not comfy with you're body..
you're not ready to have sex.
do you reallyyy thing your ready for sex?
whats the point?
ask your self those questions =]
love always,
megan.
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If this guy has been with you for two years, than relax. If it was an appearence based relationship and the guy hated your small breasts, he would have been gone by now. But obviously he sees something more in you, and really cares about you. So drop the insecurity, he wants you, not a playmate.
And maybe if your insecure about it, you might not be ready to have sex. Dont rush into it because your boyfriend wants you to! You have all your life to have sex, and you only have your first time once. Do it when it feels right.
-Abby
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hey
look, it seems like you guys really like each other. if he really means it, then he won't care how big your breasts are.
he loves you now & he will continue to love you. if, for some reason, things aren't the same after you show him your breasts, he is shallow & only cares about your physical appearance.
breast size doesn't matter - he will continue the relationship, believe me. & if he doesn't, he is not worth your time anyway.
you should be proud & confident of who you are & what you look like. breasts should not affect that. look in the mirror & be happy with your body.
don't be afraid to get naked. you will be embarassed at first, but he won't care about your breasts if he really loves you.
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