Member Since: April 7, 2007
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Last Update: June 7, 2007
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lately i've been gaining weight.
last year i was 108 pounds. this year i'm 117. did i gain too much weight? (i play soccer all year long)
also if im 13 and 5`3 and weigh 117 pounds, would you consider me chubby? just tell me the truth and dont judge it on BMI. i don't look chubby but damn, i used to be soo skinny.
what can i do besides running/jogging to lose weight? I want to have a flatter stomach if possible. and what are good foods to eat? (link)
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I'm ur same age and I'm 5'3 and I weigh 185 but I don't look fat either and u should go 2 the doctor to maybe get some dietary palns
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for two years. I know he loves me, but I also know that he's thought about going out with other girls. He has plenty of opportunity, because a lot of girls like him. What can I do to keep him interested in me? Any suggestions? (link)
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Hang out with him a lot more and have a talk with him telling him that u do not want him to leave you. If that does not work please write back to me and i'll give you more suggestions.
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lets say your moving to the another country or state soon and your good friend comes up to you and say"can you do me a favor?" and you asked them what it is and they say"can you not leave?"---do you think this is cute? (link)
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I think that that question is adorable. Was it a boy or girl that asked u? R u a boy or girl?
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There's this guy at school that I like I went out with him once and then he asked me out again I never got to answer him and the next day he had a girlfriend. I'm his friend and everything and we play badminton together, he got dumped by his gf yesterday and he was really sad I want to ask him out but I dont even know if he really likes me. What do I do. (link)
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Hi, you should ask him but you should form a group hangout then be like do u wanna come then u should ask him 2 come with and maybe he'll say yes.
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I am a 15 year old girl. I have had the same boyfriend for 2 years. He is beginning to want to take are relationship farther and by that I mean he wants to have sex. I would like to try it but I am so scared of getting naked. I am a really skinny girl so I am not afraid about that, but I have small breasts and I am afraid he will not love me anymore if he sees me naked. I know this sounds stupid but it is true. (link)
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You don't have to get naked!! If you don't want to do it don't do it tell him your not ready.
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I need to find hobbies my boyfriend and I could do every week. Any ideas? :) (link)
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Movies, Mall, Bowling, Skating, Walking Downtown, Anything and everything is a possibility. :)
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So I met this guy on an interactive internet game in September.
Well, I've been talking to him ever since, and we talk a lot.
Our friendship just recently blossomed into something beautiful.
I've never really felt this way about anyone before.
I love him and he loves me.
And fyi, I know he's safe. I've spoken to him on the phone, and I have his address.
But my real question is,
Is this worth it?
All this effort.
He lives in North Carolina
And I live in Texas.
He's 17 and I'm 14.
When we were first talking, I told him I was 16, and I just recently told him I was 14, and nothing really changed between us.
My real concern is that I will never meet him.
We live so far apart.
And I know that I love him.
Nothing can deny that.
But it hurts me, that he's so far away.
So do you think that I should keep this going?
I mean, I turn down guys for him, because he is the keeper of my heart.
It's just so hard to keep up with.
Sorry, I just kind of rambled.
Any type of opinions would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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I've been through before and I never knew what he was doing behind my back so I let him off soft and said we can still be friends but a long distance relationship isn't working. :)
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i told my friend jess something about my friend steph .. something about how bitchy she can be etc i cant probably remember and now jess has told steph and steph is being really bad about it and said she dosnt trust me and i am a 2 faced lil bitch etc im friends with jess even though she told steph i was bitching about her because steph was angry with me previously for something so i dont blame her im not sure what to do about steph now as shes being really nasty and self obbsessed about what iv said, shall i ignore it try and be friends or whatttttt?? (link)
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Tell her you're sorry and that was a big mistake and let her know that you were'nt being a real friend when it came to this situtation. :)
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ok so theres this boy and i really like him and people keep telling me that he likes me to but i'm mad shy when it comes to stuff like relationships and asking boys out. but me and him talk and hang out all the time but no in a bf gf type of way just as in a friend type of way. my friends keep pressuring me to ask him out but I'm really afrade he'll say no even thought every one keeps sayin he wants to ask me out so how do over come my shyness and ask him out????
plz help me=]] (link)
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Just ask him and if he says no say OK well we can still be friends.
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ok im 14/f and im not exactly sure what to do because my two best friends hate eachother.
ok well they used to be friends last year but something happened along the way. (Mel) has been really upset at (Bob) for a long time. since the begining of 8th grade something happened between them that she refuses to tell me about. she says she is not ready to tell me. and the problem is whenever im around one of them and the other comes they argue or cuss eachother out. i mean he doesnt even know why mel is mad at him but he is still mean because of it. and well i really like bob. i mean really. last nite i was on A-I-M and he signed on. mel was at my house and she and him started arguing online!! i told him i had to go. and mel said it was because id rather spend time with her than with him which isnt at all true. so then i told him it wasnt true and i left. of course mel got mad. i dont want to chose between them. i want them to get along like they used to. it would be great. because i really like him and think i have a chance with him but mel isnt supportive. i think this has gotton blown out of proportion and i really want for them to get along. i mean he really hurts her with his nasty comments and only stops because i tell him to. what can i do to make them be cool with eachother. i hate drama and especially when im caught in the middle of it. thanx in advance.
SAM (link)
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Well what you should do is get them together in a room then talk to them for about 5 minutes. Then leave them alone so they can discuss their issues. If that doesn't work then good luck. :)
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Hey im a 14/f and i am haveing boyfriend issues or obvi. ex boyfriend cuz he dumped me but we were going out for alomos a year. And he just dumped me in front of all his friend's. and it was very humileating. and it made me feel so bad. And now he is talking crap about me and calling me all this sh** And saying that i do drugs and stuff when we all no i dont so can you help ?? (link)
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Well if you guys go to the same schol, then have a teacher send you to a counselor and clear the problem up
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I go tanning & I get pretty tan. Lateley, my legs & stomach get tanned a lot but my face & arms aren't as tan. Make sence? How can I prevent that? (link)
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Ask the people at the desk. :)
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I know this may sound stupid but like me and my mom aren't very close like most kids and their moms so I don't like going up to her and asking her to get me stuff like pads/tampons. I usually just send like a text or email and she'll get them for me, which probably also sounds stupid. But I recently sent an email and asked her to get me pads and I also asked to get me food and stuff. Well she got the food but she didn't get the pads for some reason. I don't know why though. So I guess I'll have to get them when me and my whole family go to the grocery store. And my family usually just stays in one big group and I don't want to like bring them all into that aisle. Is there a way I can like just put them in the cart without them noticing? (link)
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Walk ahead and get there before them and put it into the cart.:)
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I hope this is where i go to put this. My hair is like frizzy. all the time and i hate it! how do I get it to be sleek and smooth? I use this get by matrix but its still frizzy (link)
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Well you know that you can go to the hair salon and get it figured out they should know. :)
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Ok when I get to the gym I start sweating pretty bad and I get major B.O. what can I do to help get rid of this? (link)
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Well if you have a hairy armpit than shave. Also, start wearing thicker deoderant and more strong and the expensive kind(meaning not from the dollar store). :)
Secret(deoderant)
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22/f
I was just wondering if anyone can reccommend me some good Erotic novels that my boyfriend and I can read to each other. Thanks! (link)
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Not to be mean but, you can go to the library. LOL. :)
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ok im going to the movies w/ some friends tomorrow and the boy i like is going! does anyone know any hints or stuff i can do to let him know that i want to do stuff ( if you no what i mean.. not all the way) like while we are walkiing around and during the movie.!! so that he can make the first move!!!! (link)
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Don't be in a rush to make that move. It will happen when it happens. :)
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How do I become more trustworthy and truthful without appearing fake? (link)
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Prove that you can be trustworthy and truthful and just don't be phony. (No offense) :)
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ok so 1st.theres this guy whos liked me since well..forever.and i liked him since..hah..forever.and we were in love for like 3 years..but then we decided to take a break..and well i didn't like him anymore..but he is still in love with me and wil do anything to go ot with me again.but i don't no i kind of like him again, but sort of don't
2...theres another guy who i used to like.[like my x who i was in love with.we broke up about 2 years ago] and this new guy is just i don't no...ignoring me[we are friends.] and he said he used to like me.but he ignores me al the time.he never talks to me.
i don't know what to do about both of these guys..i really want to like my first love but hes sort of still imatre.and this other guy i want him to notice me as a friend again
please help (link)
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Well, go with who comes to your heart first and if it's the one thats been in love with you forever then talk to him and tell that you want to be with him but he needs to be less immature. :)
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im 15/m my sister is 13. we kinda get along. im the sporty kinda guy who always has a gf. shes the freaky gothic girl that never had a bf. her bff is a guy. our mom wont let her dress how she always has anymore now our mom hates all her friends. mom wont let my sister wear anything dark or gothic. my sister is going crazy shes cussing out and flipping off people ALOT at home but also quiet and says about 3 words the whole time unless shes out of the house or with her friends then is loud and crazy. shes never had a bf but alot of guy friends. she loves her bff and he loves her but she turned him down? shes very violent and going real rebelious more than ever. and our mom wont let her go over her bffs(a guy)house anymore. so she says shes going with her other friends but most of the time is going with him places. our mom hates all her friends anyway. my sister leaves the house dressed normal then she puts on her black hoodie and jewelry. you never know what shes thinking about it scares me? we dont talk that much but we still do i guess. i took and read her diary i know thats bad but i wana help her. her diary was filled with all that stuff then also disturbing drawings and poems and storys all about dark stuff hate and death. i wana help her without taking to our mom or anyone else just between me her and her friends would help. list all i could do for her to help her and change it. (link)
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Well you know you could maybe take her out to lunch and TREAT her and discuss with her how you feel and what your going through watching what she's going through. You know that you don't want her dead so let her know that and tell her how much you and your family love her and care for her. Well thank you for your time and I hope this advice can get you somewhere with this situation :)
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