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Internet Relationship.
So I met this guy on an interactive internet game in September.
Well, I've been talking to him ever since, and we talk a lot.
Our friendship just recently blossomed into something beautiful.
I've never really felt this way about anyone before.
I love him and he loves me.
And fyi, I know he's safe. I've spoken to him on the phone, and I have his address.
But my real question is,
Is this worth it?
All this effort.
He lives in North Carolina
And I live in Texas.
He's 17 and I'm 14.
When we were first talking, I told him I was 16, and I just recently told him I was 14, and nothing really changed between us.
My real concern is that I will never meet him.
We live so far apart.
And I know that I love him.
Nothing can deny that.
But it hurts me, that he's so far away.
So do you think that I should keep this going?
I mean, I turn down guys for him, because he is the keeper of my heart.
It's just so hard to keep up with.
Sorry, I just kind of rambled.
Any type of opinions would be greatly appreciated.
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I've been through before and I never knew what he was doing behind my back so I let him off soft and said we can still be friends but a long distance relationship isn't working. :)
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I agree with the person below me. Sometimes, age difference doesn't matter, however, because you live far apart, and he is 3 years older, hes going to probably go off to college.
I hate you break your heart, but honestly, I doubt you'll ever be more then friends. I think its great to have online friends, as I have many. But because hes so much older and so far away, I doubt anythings going to happen.
You can have as many feelings for him as you want -- You can think about him all the time, but he shouldn't stop you from seeing other people. Once you turn older, maybe you will meet.
I hope I helped.
:)
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Personly I dont think it will ever work out becaouse you may be faithful and he may be there cheating on you. I mean its not worth turning down other guys. You are only 14 you are suppose to be having funn in your life. and it wont work out in the end I mean its great that you talk and what not you two can still be friends and like each other. I know this is probly not what you want to hear but I really dont think its going to work out. Sorry! I have this one friend and she "dated" this one guy who lived in another state and it didnt work out beucase they were so far apart. I know not everone is the same but its to far away to have a real realtionship.
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