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help!
i told my friend jess something about my friend steph .. something about how bitchy she can be etc i cant probably remember and now jess has told steph and steph is being really bad about it and said she dosnt trust me and i am a 2 faced lil bitch etc im friends with jess even though she told steph i was bitching about her because steph was angry with me previously for something so i dont blame her im not sure what to do about steph now as shes being really nasty and self obbsessed about what iv said, shall i ignore it try and be friends or whatttttt??
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Tell her you're sorry and that was a big mistake and let her know that you were'nt being a real friend when it came to this situtation. :)
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Listen I have this prob almost all the time with my friends. Go talk to Steph, tell her that youre srry for what you said and tell her how you feel about what she's doing, but say it in a somwhat good way, this way she doesnt get mad. Then calmly talk to Jess telling her that you didnt like her telling Steph things that she knows is going to get her mad at you, but do not yell, this will only cause conflict.
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One thing you need to learn is not to talk about your friends to other friends. No matter how much you trust them, girls are bitches and they can turn on you in a second. Steph isn't the one I'd be angry with, it would be Jess. Like someone else on here already said, friends don't tell secrets.
And you're saying she's being self obsessed about it? Yeah, well if one of my friends told a mutual friend that I was a bitch, yeah I'd be pretty angry as well. Wouldn't you?
Just don't talk about your friends. If you don't like something about them, either keep if to yourself or talk to them about it.
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Hey, My name is Sasha, and my friend Alana is here, too. We think that you should just forget about that girl steph if she's gonna be like that. You don't seem like a bad person, and we think that you can do WAY better than her! I don't hink that your other friend is too great, either...friends don't tell secrets!
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try and be friends, somehow, talk to her. say you didnt mean it, and that you did it for some other reason. Also, i hope you learn the lesson of keeping your opinions of others to your self.... so yeah, dont bitch bou people.
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