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idk what to do!!!
14/f
ok so theres this boy and i really like him and people keep telling me that he likes me to but i'm mad shy when it comes to stuff like relationships and asking boys out. but me and him talk and hang out all the time but no in a bf gf type of way just as in a friend type of way. my friends keep pressuring me to ask him out but I'm really afrade he'll say no even thought every one keeps sayin he wants to ask me out so how do over come my shyness and ask him out????
plz help me=]]
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Just ask him and if he says no say OK well we can still be friends.
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i agree with everyone. Whats meant to be will always find its way. I'm also in a similar situation. I also like someone, and rumor has it he likes me also. At one point, he actually admitted it, but also said he was shy to say it.
Ever since then, we've been talking alot, and also hanging out a lot.
Just let whatever happen, happen. If you eventually feel more confident to start talking about 'asking him out', or dating, go for it ! =] But don't try to rush into anything your not ready for, and don't let friends pressure you into doing it. Wait until your comforable, then go for it.
hope that helps =]
xox <3
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hey, first off DNT LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS. If the relationship is really meant to happen it will happen on its own. All the pressure does is make it really uncomfortable to even hang outwith your crush. All i can say is follow your heart and dnt let anything get n the way of being together.
You never lose by loving someone but you ALWAYS lose by holding back.
I say go for it but in your own time
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hey
look, don't listen to your friends. i've made way too many mistakes when my friends pressured me into doing things i didn't want to do.
follow your heart. if he really likes you & you think he does, then ask him out.
just be casual. pretend it's not him - open up & be yourself. or do it online / in a note so you dont have to face him while you do it. just ask if you guys wanna hang out... "hey, do you want to grab some pizza & go to the see that new movie that just came out... ?" that simple.
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I am shy too.
There was this one boy, who really liked me, and I liked him even more. I am afraid of rejection, so I was too scared of his reaction. So I wrote a note.
I said.
Hey, Whats up? Not much here, just bored.
I was wondering, would you go out with me?
Write back.
Sincerely, Jackie.
He said yes.
Try writing a note, or have a friend do it, while you AREN'T AROUND!
Try these tips for overcoming shyness though.
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Good luck!!
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