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getting back at him.
18, female.
sooo i've been in a messed up situation for about three years now. i have a good guy friend, known him for years now and have always had a crush on him but he's been going out with his girlfriend who i dislike of three years now. within the past few months they have taken a break, got back together and then broke up and after a month are now back together. i hate how he puts me through this though because he always say "wanna fuck" and hes being serious. he knows im a virgin, he's only had sex with his girlfriend yet he still wants to get with me. i have NOT done anything with him. but im done putting up with his crap, i'm not doing this anymore. i'm not getting hurt, i'm not waiting for him to be done with her. how can i let him know i DONT care anymore, how can i show him he wont always have me there when he cant be with her 24/7 or when they're fighting, or when they're on a break? i mean yeah i still want to be FRIENDS with him but i'm done with wanting to be more. next time he asks if i want to have sex im just thinking about saying, sorry i dont have sex with people who have GIRLFRIENDS, but i'll let you know how it is when i have sex with someone else ;) just to piss him off. i want to say something like that to get back at him for all the stupid stuff he's done to me. but i can just see him acting like he doesnt care and be like "ok" or just not say anything back. how can i get to him? soon i'm getting my hair dyed, i'm going to dress REALLY cute whenever i'm going to see him just to make him mad and realize that theres more out there than his annoying girlfriend. any other suggestions?
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Good for you that you realize that he just wants you as a rebound girl/ friends with benefits. Plus he's not a good friend if he asks you for sex! Just distance yourself from him that way hopefully he'll get the hint. But don't do it to make him mad because frankly I don't think he'll care. As the saying goes "he's just not that into you!" Dress super cute and do your hair to attract another guy; don't worry about that guy he has let you down enough times. Be with someone that will care enough for your feelings!
Good Luck ^_^
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the best way to show im you don't care is to stop talking to him. like ignore him. it will really get to him. and i know you still want to be friends, which will happen. cause then he'll eventually start apoliogizing, play hard to get for a while. and then you can evntually forgive him and be friends with him. but thats it. make that clear to him.
henaaa :]
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Honestly, There really is no point in getting back at him. If he flat out says "Wanna F*ck" to you, I mean it is clearly disrespectful. If he has a girlfriend than why would you want to get back at him? It could only make things worse. If don't want to get hurt than don't. Try to move on and find someone eles who will like you for who you are and respect you.
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