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Should I or Shouldnt I ???
Well me and this guy really like eachother
but we are not going out (John). He lives about 3hrs away. and theres this other guy who really wants to have sex, but me and that guy have no feelings for eachother what so ever(Alex).I wasnt going to tell John about Alex,but John was telling me about how his brother was blocking him from going up2 a girl.Obviously I got jealous and told him about Alex. Soo then John told me he didnt want me2have sex so I decided not to have sex with alex, but people are telling me i shouldnt care about what john wants because we are not dating.
What do you think i should do?
P.S.
I know its not the best to have sex with sumone that i have no feelings for but i just wanna know if i should care about what John wants?..and should i base my decision on someone who im not with?
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Sounds like you might be scared of being close to John maybe something you're not sure of. Maybe the distance between you two. Now I understand people have needs. But as a woman I know we are very loyal and we only do things like this when there is a certain aspect of the relationship we currently have that we are not happy with. So you have 2 choices 1. Cowgirl up tell that man how you really feel about him, tell him what you need and be consistant and make it happen or be honest about your feelings tell him what's bothering you, give him an opportunity to change it if he doesn't walk away. Always respect others and yourself. Karma is alive and kickin! Just don't play youreself for 20% if you found a good solid 80%!
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Regardless if you two are official or not I think you should care about his feelings or what he wants. Why? Well let me explain.
When John told you about that girl and you got jealous to the point where you told him about Alex, didn't you want him to care? Yes you did. So why should you not care about what John wants when you want him to care about your feelings? You should.
But should you base your answer solely on John's feelings? No, always take your feelings into account and what will happen to you and John if you do sleep with Alex.
Hope I helped
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