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popular guy
13/f
i really like this popular guy. i have an insane crush on him, and ive had it for awhile. we talk to each other sometimes and everyone thinks he likes me but i dont see it. i really think hes hates me actually. i dont want to go and just ask him flat out so does anyone have any ideas on how i can do anything else.
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Just keep talking to him if he really does hate you (which i doubt it) but you will be able to tell. Flirt with him a little bit but dont make it too obvious, and if he flirts back start flirting a little bit more every day and one day if it seems like he likes you, when your texting or talking just be like so who are you liking these days?? and then see where it goes from there =] good luck and hope i helped!
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Here's a couple of choices of things you can do that worked for me 99.9% of the time :)
1) flirt with him. Flirt flirt flirt. Flirt so obviously that there will be no doubt in his mind that you like him. Of course, persistance is the key to getting a date with someone, so for some reason this always helped me get the guy to like me. And this also is a cool trick because if it turns out he doesn't like you, you can just claim you didn't like him either and that he must have misinterpreted your actions as flirting ;) which they were, but saying this will kind of turn the card on him so you're not humiliated and everyone else thinks you rejected him :) It always worked for me, but in case it doesn't for you, here's another trick I used-
2) Spread the rumor that you like him. If someone asks if you like him, giggle a litte and smile secretivly. This usually leads them to the conclusion that you do, and they'll usually go and tell others about it. Also, talk to a few of his friends about him. Ask questions like "does he have a girlfriend?" or "does he like anybody?". Things that mean you obviously are interested in him, but are trying to be a little bit subtle about it and not just say "does he say anything about me? Does he like me?". They will probably tell him that you asked about him and then he will know that you like him and will be teased about it until he is forced to confront you haha :) It's funny how gossip always spreads to the person it's about, but in this case, it's not bad :)
Well, those are my suggestions, and they always worked for me, so I hope they work for you too! Goodluck!
-Jessica 15/f
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