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multiple relationships
Ok well the Raj(ex) problem still stands at the moment .BUt now also my other ex is makin me feel so pressured and depressed.He wants me back but i enjoy being ONLY this ones friend.we get along better and he keeps bein so childish and overdramatic and idk wat to do bout it.
Also my supposed "bestfriend" has been ignoring me or not even bothering to call or txt me. a message nothing! it makes me so mad because i have done alot for him.He is gay and I was the person he came out to and I helped him be comfortable with it and he is alot happier now.We have been bestfriends for two years but the past couple months he has been pullin this shit..idk what to do bout it.I feel kinda used ya know?
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I'm not sure of the full situation but it is sooo important to not let anyone control how YOU feel about YOU! Life is too short and there can be pressured from all directions so the people that attempt to make you feel bad because they do have an issue and that issue is not your's so don't own it! Much Love!
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Well for the first part your ex problem you need to tell this person you enjoy his company but in a friend sorta way not like realtionship romantic way. And just be honest and real with him because if he cares about you and is any kind of friend he will understand.
Now as for the second problem with the gay friend..have you talked to him about the way he is being?????? Maybe he is haveing problems at home or has something he is dealing with that you dont know because he doesn't want ANY one to know because he is ashamed or maybe he is scared to tell anyone. Things like that happen all the time and even the best of friends have secrets that they dont tell each other and people can hide things very well if they want to its a talent that every one has and most of the time they dont know how to deal so the distance themselves from everyone. So let him know how u are feeling but also reasure him that you are there fro him and he can talk to you nomatter what and he doesn't have to worry bout it gettin out if he doesn't want it too. And just be there for him and not give up and he will realize you are a good and true friend and things will eventuallly get better.
Dont be afriad to tell people how you feel.....
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