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Sex, Life, and advice?..
Posted Friday May 8 2009, 8:57 am
ok, so heres the rundown.. me and my girlfriend of almost a year, ill go ahead give names and ages.. (as bad as that sounds.) shelby-14 and daniel-16 (me) i konw you want to quickly judge us based on age, but we love eachother.. we do. as much as i do love "getting some" that is not why im with her. im with her because i love her, we laugh, cry, joke, and we sometimes argue a bit. anyways, we had sex, in a public bathroom, and well... her mom found out. she knows we used pretection.. but.. she wants to not let us see eachother.. i mean.. i went to cozumels for cinco de mayo (cozumels is a mexican resturant) and her family was there... they saw me and they immidiately left... (they didnt order yet).. because of me... i mean.. i hav...
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how to keep from getting frustrated
Posted Friday May 8 2009, 6:40 am
I love my girlfriend but she can be down right stubborn and strongly opinionated. There's nothing wrong with that, but sometimes we'll be talking about something and our viewpoints will be polar opposites and she's so strong in her opinions that it kind of gets me frustrated. I think it's probably because I try to be passionate myself with my reasons during these conversations, but sometimes I feel like she doesn't look from where I'm coming from or saying.I don't like, nor do I want to get bothered over such small things. I mean it's usually during convos about movies or music or something like that. It's lead to some minor tifts and I really want to prevent that.
I don't even have much of a temper, but sometimes the topic ...
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This could be it...
Posted Friday May 8 2009, 3:19 am
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and two months. We're totally crazy about each other...we spend everyday together if we can. He lives in another state thats an hour from me. He has been saying "I love you" an awful lot and how much he cares for me. I have been getting this feeling that he maybe the "one"...but i'm scared to tell him because it might scare him.
He is scared of marriage but its weird he says it would be "awesome" to have my kids someday. We are best friends but i feel this is one thing i can't tell him.
What should I do? Do I tell him or no?
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Crush
Posted Friday May 8 2009, 1:56 am
So for the past few months I've started liking this guy who's in one of my classes. We're no really friends but we know each other but we rarely talk. I'm really shy around people I don't know and especially guys I like so every time I'm around him I just get really self conscious and shy. I'm not really close friends with anyone in that class so I can't really just be myself like I am when I'm with my best friends. I really want to become friends with him because we only have a few weeks of school left and I don't want to just miss my chance with him.
I can't really talk to him much because I'm only an aide in that class so I'm usually doing stuff for the teacher instead of doing what the class is doing so I have no reason ...
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what do guys want?
Posted Thursday May 7 2009, 11:55 pm
k so this question probably goes out to a guy...
what is it that gets a guy hooked? or is there one thing that gets him hooked?....
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Are Yall "Talking" ,We are "Talking"..HUH???
Posted Thursday May 7 2009, 6:14 pm
Lame,Yes I know,
but what does it mean when people say
they are "talking"?
I dont rlly know what it means :(
Please Help Me :)
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seperation
Posted Thursday May 7 2009, 4:44 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for nine months and two days. We have been doing sexual stuff but it was usually too hard to have sex in our homes with our parents around. I'm fourteen and he's sixteen. We aren't just dating to get in each others pants though, we actually love eachother. If we didn't why would we still be dating even through all of this? Anyways. My mom found out by reading it in a sort of journal we keep and pass on to each other each visit we have since we go to different schools. She freaked and told my stepdad and my dad and now we aren't allowed to see each other. His mom wouldn't mind, it's just my parents. It's really killing us and we can't ever be happy again untill we see each other. I really need help with this...any advice? Please and thank you. -shelby.
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Boyfriend and porn
Posted Thursday May 7 2009, 3:08 pm
To start, I hate porn. A couple weeks ago my computer was messed up so I asked my boyfriend if I could use his. I didn't know what I was going to find. After confronting him about it, he promised he'd stop if it meant me staying (we have been together 3yrs, lived together 1yr). I explained how my trust took a dip and that I'd be checking the computer periodically to see if he was being honest and he was ok with that. I haven't checked the computer like I said coz I'd like to think I can trust him, until today. I noticed the last place he had been was the recycle bin, everything deleted. I restored it and found tons of porn that he's looked at since our argument. I haven't talked to him about it yet. What should I do? Btw..I'm 27 and he is soon to be 35.
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hes 18
Posted Thursday May 7 2009, 12:25 pm
ok so my bf is 18 and im 16. is that actually ok or illigal? cause like im a minor and hes grown up haha. i dont have any problems with him or anything, it just came into my mind ..
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do i like him enough?
Posted Thursday May 7 2009, 11:47 am
mk so first off i'm 17/f, and the guy i'm dating right now is 18. we go to the same school, he is a senior i'm a junior. for about the past 4-5 months he's had a crush on me.. we didnt really start talking that much until valentines when he asked me to be his valentine. i said yes. and ever since we just gradually started to talk and hang out more.. probably 2 months ago i realized i liked him back. he asked me to jr/sr banquet and i introduced him to my parents and brother. they all loved him. he's a really good guy, he has good morals, he's caring, trustworthy etc.. he seems to have it all together. he's like the perfect bf.. BUT here's my question.. some days i cant wait to see him..i'm so happy when i'm with him and just have fun.... th...
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HELP !
Posted Thursday May 7 2009, 9:48 am
Me and my ex still love eachother . We broke up a couple weeks ago because his ex came around and he thought his feeling were still there but turns out he wants me more than her . He's only with her because she will cry for a century ! I dont know what to do because he is the father of my kid . Me and my ex have alot a plans still . My ex is cheating on his new girlfriend with me and i think some other girls also. If they do break up should i go back out with him because his cheating on his girl will he cheat on me ? I really love this kid but i dont want to get hurt again . He said he loves me and he hasnt said it for a while and he said he feels warm and as if hes only suppose to love me . Please help !
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how do you get someone to fall back in love?
Posted Wednesday May 6 2009, 8:38 pm
okay so i know that you can't technically make someone fall back in love with you, it just happens...but what can you do to help it? if you dated someone for like almost a year and they say feelings changed...well if feelings can change then they can change again right? is there anythingg i can do? proms coming up and im going with my ex thanks so muchh
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Something new and different for a date.
Posted Wednesday May 6 2009, 5:07 pm
Me and my ex broke up a while back because "he got bored". all we ever did was go to the movies or hang out at one of our houses. we are recently talking again and i heard he's been telling people he just wants it to be more interesting than just doing movies or hangin out at houses. Of course there is also going out to eat,, but we usually are together longer than 2 hrs when we do hang out.. but not always. Anyways, i am needing some advice of fun things to do with him. I really love him and want to keep him interested. We dont have a whole lot to do here, but there HAS to be something we can do here. We have alsoi gone bowling and stuff.. but i'm kinda looking for something more out there,, sweet, romantic, that kind of thing i guess. Thanks! i ratee.!
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I queefed and now he hates me.
Posted Wednesday May 6 2009, 1:55 pm
My friend and I always have "queefing contests" and the other night we were all sitting around with friends, having some drinks - and she told me to queef - so I did. Now the guy I'm into won't talk to me. He's grossed out! WHY?
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Fancying a guy when I'm in a relationship...
Posted Wednesday May 6 2009, 10:56 am
Ok, so the title kinda gives it away. I am 18 and have been with my boyfriend (21) on off for 4 years. We have our 1 year anniversary (for this time round) next month.
I met this guy at work and OMG, I'm so drawn to him and I don't know why. He makes me laugh and makes work fun. He flirts majorly, all these lines rolling off his tongue, saying I bring out the worst in him. He makes me feel so good about myself and we joke and we are so on the same page. I feel like putty seriously. I dont make it obviously though lol.
I feel terrible. It took me by suprise, I've never remotely thought of anyone like that when i've been with my boyfriend. I love him.
Basically. Because I was so suprised by my lac...
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my boyfriend or ex??
Posted Wednesday May 6 2009, 4:55 am
okay. so i am a 19 yr old girl and i've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. my ex, was my first boyfriend that i have been on and off with since i was 15. well the problem is he is really prideful.. i don't know another way to put it. he's the type of guy that never says sorry, or calls first, or buys you anything. well when we were about to get back together, i started talking to my (now) boyfriend because he had been hanging out with this other girl he claims is just a friend. so when my boyfriend asked me out i said yes. (with mixed feelings). well.. i've cheated on him with my ex twice and i know it's wrong but everytime i try to forget about him i can't. and i don't want to hurt my boyfriend, he says he loves me and i know it's the tr...
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A hookup...except I want more?
Posted Wednesday May 6 2009, 1:18 am
I'll warn you-i used a lot of detail in this semi-lengthy story...if you could let me know what you think...it would be great, thanks.
I'm an 18 year old girl...turning 19 in 3 days. I was at a party with one of my good guy friends and I met a wonderful guy...he is 30. We had a bit of an innocent makeout-fest and he gave me his number and told me to call/text him anytime. We texted off an on for the next week...then I went home for the weekend (i'm currently in college and am living 3 hours away.) he got ahold of me friday night and asked if i wanted to hang out. I ended up over at his place at about 1:30 am..because he asked if i could pick him up from the bar. We talked for quite a while-and in thi...
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ignore
Posted Wednesday May 6 2009, 12:54 am
why do guys give us the silent treatment? It has happened once I told him its a pet peeve of mine that he didnt mean to do it just had a lot on his mind, but its been 3 days since ive heard from him. whats the deal?
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a best friend and ex stabbed me in the back
Posted Tuesday May 5 2009, 5:50 pm
14/f
freshman
D = ex boyfriend
J = close friend
I still realyl like D. Last week I broke up with him and I had reasons. I still really like him and I regrett breaking up with him. This past weekend I was talking to J about this and she told me that if i really like him then I should go back out with him. J just got out of a three year relationship with her ex and she dated him on and off. Yesterday after school I was going to tell D how I felt but J told D she liked him and asked him out. I feel so betrayed. Now D and J are going out. I really like D and J and D himself know that. D says he likes me too. I already talked to J about this and she is trying to comfort me but I am still mad because Im...
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heart torn and conflicted
Posted Tuesday May 5 2009, 4:21 pm
How do I show a guy whom I am in love with what he means to me when we don't live in the same town and he now has a new girlfriend, but he does like me because he said so but to be fair to his girlfriend he has pushed those feelings out. I want to be with him and would do anything for him but how do I show or prove to him that we are meant to be together and how much I care?
I know he still likes me but he says it is different now because of this new girlfriend. We talk but not often. I did tell him that I was in love with him and he couldn't say anything to it. He says on certain level he is in love with his girlfriend and yes he says he has 'strong feelings' for her? Is he a lost cause? Should I just put my feelings that te...
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