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how do you get someone to fall back in love?
okay so i know that you can't technically make someone fall back in love with you, it just happens...but what can you do to help it? if you dated someone for like almost a year and they say feelings changed...well if feelings can change then they can change again right? is there anythingg i can do? proms coming up and im going with my ex thanks so muchh
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Well now taht you are broken up, make him realize what he is missing. When you go to prom just have fun, be yourself, and tell him how you feel that night. prom has a really romantic feel to it so what you say seems 10 times sweeter at prom =] Take him to dinner and do something fun like bowling or whatever. Hopefully this helps. Good luck! =]
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All you can do at this point is be yourself. Let your ex know how you feel, let him know that you want him back, and leave it at that. Don't be clingy, possessive, or pushy. This will just be annoying and make him not want to get back with you at all. Your first sentence was correct, you can't make someone fall back in love with you. If he has stated that his feelings have changed, the chances of them changing back are slim. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it's what you need to hear. You deserve someone that wants to be with you. Pushing your ex back into a relationship with you will only lead to more pain. Give him his space and time to think about things. All you can do is leave him knowing that you love him and that you want him back. From that point on, it's his decision to make. You can't make that decision for him (although it would be nice, eh? :p)
Just give him his time. If he decides that he wants to be with you again, that has to be his decision or it won't be 100% pure and truthful. If some time passes and he is still not wanting to get back together, it's time for you try to move on. Keep your eyes and mind open for new relationships. It will be hard at first, but with time, you'll get back on your feet.
Hope this helps(:
Darby
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